YOUR PHONE IS A SWISS ARMY KNIFE FOR DATING | LET ME SHOW YOU HOW TO LEVERAGE IT

0:00 Why is it that all we ever do is text chicks? Everybody texts these days, but I feel like it's a pretty limited way to get to know somebody. Guys, do not sleep on the efficacy of actually calling a woman because this will raise you above all the other sea donkeys who are doing what everybody else does. This is going to elicit a lot more attraction, a lot more trust. You have to understand that you are in a competition, especially if you want a high-quality girl. She is being pursued by a bunch of different dudes, so we need to be different.

0:33 Guys, do not pass this up. This fucking works. The Unapologetic Man Podcast. What is up, gentlemen? Happy Thursday. First of all, boys, I just want to give a shout-out to you. I respect so much that you're taking your time to try to learn how to get better with women, to try to improve your life. I just have so much respect for guys like you. I run into dudes all the time, and I'm sure you do too, who refuse to work on themselves. They're just in their derpa-derpa state, going through life like a fart on the breeze, not trying to get better, not trying to improve their results, definitely not trying to get better with women, and insulting guys like us because we actually study this stuff and we try to improve ourselves.

1:17 You are a fucking champion, and I mean that with utmost sincerity. I just have so much respect for the fact that you are trying to get to that next best version of yourself, and honestly, brother, you should smack yourself on the ass because you are a goddamn champion, and I mean that completely. All jokes aside, you fucking are a legend, and I want you to believe in yourself, brother. So the next time you go talk to a woman, understand that you are the prize. You're the one who's taking her application.

1:46 You're not submitting your application to her because you are a fucking legend. So with that out of the way, boys, let's go ahead and get into the content. Do not sleep on the fact that you literally have a Swiss Army knife in your pocket. And when I say Swiss Army knife, I'm not talking about the literal Swiss Army knife where you get a knife, you get tweezers, you get a little thing to open up a bottle that no one has ever used in the history of mankind.

2:12 No, boys, I'm talking about your cell phone. Why is it that all we ever do is text chicks? Why isn't it that we actually use the phone to both call women as well as leave them voice memos? Guys, do not sleep on the efficacy of actually calling a woman because this will raise you above all the other sea donkeys who are doing what everybody else does. What do people do? They text each other. Now, you may tell me, I don't want to call girls because I have a bad phone voice.

2:41 I'm going to give you a trick to get over that, and I'm going to give you something to really make yourself stand out when it comes to you being compared to other dudes. Because don't get it twisted, boys. In 2025, and now that we're moving into 2026, women have a completely different dating situation than they used to even 20 years ago. 20 years ago, it was pretty common for her to be dating one, maybe two dudes, but usually not at the same time. She would see a guy, see how she felt about him, and then go on to the next guy.

3:14 In today's day and age, you are literally competing with a bunch of other guys. Now, obviously, this raises the question of moral conundrum, like, do I really want to be dating a girl who's possibly seeing a bunch of different guys and maybe even sleeping with them? Well, guys, this is just the way it is. And the reason it is this way is because of the dating apps, as well as social media and Instagram, which, by the way, I recorded a podcast about on Monday. Do not miss that episode.

3:41 It was really fucking good. Check out the information in there, how to slide into a girl's DMs. But women on the dating pool are talking to multiple guys at the very least. They are probably dating them, not necessarily sleeping with them. At least in my own experience, I'll talk to girls. They'll be like, yeah, if I'm not really feeling the dude, he's not going to get into my underwear. I'm not going to sleep with him. But at the same time, you have to understand that you are in a competition, especially if you want a high-quality girl, a girl who's at least a seven and above.

4:14 She is being pursued by a bunch of different dudes. She has all kinds of thirst traps out there, even if she kind of is a moped, fun to ride, but you don't want to be seen with her. Even those kind of girls get lots of attention. So the kind of girl that you want, and don't lie to me, bro, I know you want a super cute girl with an amazing personality, a good moral compass, and who believes what you believe, that girl has dudes pursuing her.

4:39 So we need to be different. Now, obviously, in this podcast, I give you tons of ways to be different. Just listening to this is going to give you a leg up. But especially the guys who come into my three-month coaching program, it's like killing an ant with a nuclear warhead. There is no comparison because of the things we do different, the way we differentiate ourselves, the way we make her feel that no guy could ever do. So you have to understand that rather than just texting, and yes, of course, if you listen to this podcast, especially if you become my client, you're going to get so much good texting material.

5:14 You will differentiate yourself from the rest of the canyon mules. But if you call her, that even differentiates yourself further. And guys, there is competition out there, right? Like some guys are listening to podcasts like this one. And to be honest with you, there could be a guy out there who's dating the girl that you want who came through my coaching program. So you need to up your game as much as possible. As I spoke about on Monday's episode, you need to dial yourself in, communicate as much value as you possibly can, and use different tools in your toolbox to get this girl attracted to you.

5:48 So usually when a client of mine or listeners like you yank a girl's phone number, what I'll tell them to do is to text the girl the next day at 6 p.m. In addition to that, you also have the option to call her. Now, I know a lot of you guys don't like to talk on the phone. You don't feel confident about your voice. It's easy for me, right? I've recorded over 700 episodes of my podcast. I've spoken to tens of thousands of women, talking to a girl on the phone, or even leaving a voicemail isn't really intimidating to me.

6:18 But you can get through this too, which I'm going to tell you about in a second. So definitely stay tuned for that. But calling the girl will make you look different and make you stand out from all the other guys who are texting her. And if you kill the conversation, it's going to get her even more attracted to you. Because here's how women's attraction works. When you first get the phone number, whether it's on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, or in person, what happens is her attraction level for you is at a certain point.

6:46 Well, even just 24 hours later, that attraction is going to go down a little bit. So say, for example, you're at a bar on Wednesday night, whatever. You're there for happy hour. You meet a girl. You guys hit it off pretty well. You yank her phone number. You walk off feeling like a champ, expecting that all you have to do is text her real quick to set up the date. Now, that could be true depending on how much attraction you have. As I always say, it takes about this much attraction to get a phone number, but it takes this much attraction.

7:16 And if you're listening on audio, I'm basically making my hands wider to get a text back and this much attraction, even more attraction to get yourself a date. Well, if you text where she only had enough attraction for you to give you her phone number, she's not going to text you back. You might have had enough attraction to get the phone number, but you didn't get enough attraction to A, I'll get a text back, B, I'll get the date. So the way we can circumvent that is give us the opportunity to build even more attraction.

7:48 And that comes with the phone call. So basing this off the example that I just spoke about, you get a girl's phone number Wednesday night, you're out at happy hour, you run some epic games, she gets attracted, you get three, four signs of attraction. You say, hey, you seem pretty cool. How would you feel about tossing me your number? She says, okay, gives you her phone number. And then you always say the funny line, I promise to text you 500 times in a row until your cell phone overheats and burns a hole in your purse.

8:15 She laughs, you say, hey, it was good to meet you, you take off. Well, the next day, what you do is you either text her or you call her at 6 p.m. The reason we do this at 6 p.m. is because 6 p.m. is usually when she's home from work, you can have a conversation with her before she goes to bed at night. So you have yourself like three to four hours to stick the conversation and hopefully go for the hangout. So 6 p.m. the next day is what I always suggest.

8:41 I don't suggest waiting two, three, four days, but 6 p.m. the next day, either phone call or text. Now, I know the majority of you guys are going to text because honestly, maybe your confidence isn't there. You don't really want to bother talking with her on the phone. And hey, that's cool. But don't sleep on this technique because this is extremely fucking powerful, especially if you feel I just didn't have a ton of attraction. Yeah, I had enough attraction for her to give me her phone number, but I don't know if it's going to stick.

9:11 The phone call is a huge option. The Swiss army knife that you pull out, it's like the extra knife you didn't know you had. And the reason we're doing this yet again is to elicit more attraction. So at 6 p.m., it can be 6.05, 6.30, whatever it is, you call her. Now, perhaps she doesn't have your number, so many times she won't answer it. In that case, I suggest you go ahead and call her immediately again. You guys all have cell phones. You know what it's like. If you get two calls in a row, you may think to yourself, oh, this is probably important.

9:47 Maybe like my buddy lost his phone or like my kid or my mom or whatever is calling me from a strange number. I'm going to go ahead and answer it. Now, if that doesn't work, you can actually call her three times in a row. Through my experience, I found that on the third phone call, at the very least, she will pick up. So when she picks up, you'd be like, hey, it's Mark. Didn't mean to scare you like that. Just wanted to throw you a quick phone call.

10:12 Do you have a few minutes? Okay. She'll usually say yes, or maybe she'll say no, whatever it is. But if she has a few minutes, then what you do is you're working on building attraction. You ask her how her day was. You chit chat with her a little bit. You might even want to run an attraction building gambit. Some of which I've revealed on this podcast, but obviously all of which I reveal my three month coaching program to get her more attracted. So you call her three times and a quick joke you can say when she picks up is, hey, what's up, Sarah?

10:43 It's Mark from last night. And she's like, oh, hey, be like, yeah, I didn't mean to catch you off guard like that. Everybody texts these days, but I feel like it's a pretty limited way to get to know somebody. So I figured I'd just give you a quick phone call. Do you have like three minutes? I have to go quick, but do you just have like three minutes? She says, yes, I do. Bam. You ask her how her day was. Maybe you tell a funny story about your day.

11:05 Then you tell her the story. Let's just say it's messages in water, which if you don't know what that is, I probably did a podcast about it. And you say, so, hey, I was talking to my friend Sarah today and she told me this thing about messages in water. Have you ever heard of this? And she's like, no, I've never heard of it. You can run her through it. Always boys being cognizant of like, is she into it or not into it? If she's not into it, you can let her go.

11:30 But if she's there, she wants to talk. Then you could run a couple gambits. You could tell a couple of stories. You guys could talk for five, 10, 15 minutes. Your point here is to get her back on the attraction high that you had when you got her phone number or to even let her get used to you when you met her off the dating apps. Because what do a lot of girls on the dating apps say? They say, no, I don't want to go out with you because I don't know you.

11:54 And in your mind, you're like, yeah, dumbass. The whole reason we're going to go out is to get to know each other. What kind of stupid excuse is that? But what you do is you'd be like, cool, let's jump on a quick phone call. Or as a podcast I did a couple months ago, you could be like, cool, let's jump on a quick FaceTime call or a Zoom call to get to know each other. So this fast tracks the process of her feeling comfortable. That's why sometimes I call it the atomic trust technique because it builds trust very quickly, speeding you through the ranks of all the other dudes who she's texting with because you got her on a phone call.

12:28 And if you call her once, twice, three times, she's probably going to pick up. You always want to say, hey, didn't mean to startle you like that and blast three phone calls to you. But I knew you wouldn't pick up after just one. So I went to three. Don't worry, I wasn't going to go to four. I know that you probably would have gone to 10, but I wasn't going to go to four. I was just going to leave it at three. But anyway, do you have a couple minutes?

12:50 Then what you do is you run your game, all the stuff I talk about in this podcast, tell stories, run gambits, get her into her emotions. Then on a high note, before you've overstayed your welcome, you say, hey, listen, I actually really enjoy talking to you. We should hang out sometime. What do you think? She's going to say, yeah, definitely. You say, cool. What's your week looking like? Then you use the template that I have given on this podcast. Go look for it. If you don't know it literally verbatim.

13:18 And for you guys in my three-month coaching program, it's in week three. It's in all the template section. Bam, right there. You're going to say this. She's going to say this. You're going to say this. She's going to say this. It closes every single time. But the beginning of it is, hey, you seem pretty cool. I think we ought to ourselves to hang out sometime. Do you agree with this brilliant conclusion? She says, ha ha. Yes, I definitely do. And you say, cool. What's your week looking like?

13:42 Then you close it from there. So that's the standard method of using the Swiss Army knife, which is your phone, to call a girl, get her on the call, get her back up into the attraction or even more attraction than she had for you when you first met her in order to close the date. Go for the close on that call. Don't let her go without going for the close. Never outstay your welcome. Ask for the hangout on a high note and try to get out of there before she's trying to get you out of there, which means always leave her wanting more.

14:14 Guys, again, do not pass this up. This fucking works. And it differentiates yourself from the rest of the unfrozen cavemen who are doing the same shit over and over again. Now, that begs the question, what if it goes to voicemail? If it goes to voicemail, what I suggest you do is leave a funny message. Now, I know a lot of you guys don't have the confidence to really sit there and try to glad handle and try to charm her on the voicemail being super funny. So here's what you can do.

14:46 I used to do this before I became very confident speaking. I would record it on some kind of device. Like say you record it onto your computer and then when it goes to voicemail, you simply hold your phone over the speaker and let the speaker leave the voicemail for you. Because what I'm about to share with you probably won't be very easy for some of you guys to deliver. But oh my hell, does this get a high close rate? Like when you do this shit, she's going to fucking call you back.

15:14 She's going to ask you to go on the date because this is so funny. So what you do is you call her once, right? She's probably not going to pick up. At that point, you can either call her again and perhaps a third time, but no more than that. But at that point, you can also decide to leave a voicemail. In the voicemail, I would always make it funny and extremely sarcastic. So an example of what I do is this. Hey, Kelly, this is Kevin over at the machine gun shop.

15:40 We got your order for your machine gun as well as 500 rounds of 556. That has been sent to your address and you'll get it in about three days. Just to let you know, we did have to report you to the FBI because a machine gun is a little bit of a rare purchase, but you should be fine. I think overall you passed the background check, but they probably will put out a bolo on you, which means be on the lookout. They're probably going to tell you a little bit and you'll definitely be monitored.

16:06 Be careful with what you text. Be careful with your email because the FBI is now watching. By the way, I'm totally fucking with you. This is Mark. Call me back or text me anytime. All right. Talk soon. So that's the message. You basically fuck with her and you say, hey, we shipped you your machine gun. It'll be there in a couple of days. You're going to be on the FBI's most wanted list. Don't worry about it. Just behave normally. They probably won't catch you. Just fucking with you.

16:29 This is Mark. Call me back sometime or text me. Now, as I always say, boys, we never double text and we never double phone call. So once you leave that message, you're done. It's in her court. She has to reply back. And believe me, guys, if you can really shock her, she is going to call you back. You can pretend you're an auto insurance adjuster and her car was involved in a major accident and you need to speak to her immediately. 17 people are dead. The police are looking for her.

16:59 Just fucking with you. This is Mark from last night. Call me back. One other one I would do would be like, hi, this is Kevin from the Taliban Infidel Outreach Federation. We want to thank you for your donation of $10,000. We're really trying to spread the word of jihad throughout the United States and the Taliban really appreciates your donation. You will be receiving materials to your mailbox. You will be receiving email. And yes, you did get put on the FBI's most wanted list, but don't worry about it.

17:26 Just act normal and they probably won't find out. Thank you yet again from the Taliban Infidel Outreach Federation. Just fucking with you. This is Mark from last night. Call me back. All right. And then you hang up. Oh, my hell, boys. That shit gets such a reply. I've also pretended I was representative from the North Korean Parks and Wildlife Association. I pretended a couple times to like this major left-leaning chick that she donated to the Trump Foundation, right? You just want to fuck with them. You want to be sarcastic.

17:58 You want to be funny. This is going to crack them up, especially if you do it over voicemail. And they're going to probably call you or more likely text you back. So once you get that text, what just happened with the traction? Brother, you left one 30-second voicemail on her phone or had a five-minute conversation with her. Attraction, hopefully, went through the roof. Now your chances of getting her to actually have a date with you go up exponentially. Because like I said, a girl will give you her phone number when she has a little bit of attraction.

18:28 But that doesn't necessarily mean she's going to text you back. Nor does it mean that she's going to go on a date with you. The effort that it takes for a girl to go on a date with a guy is pretty substantial. She has to get cleaned up. She has to wear makeup. She has to get her entire shit dialed in. She has to free up the night. And let's not forget the danger element that a lot of girls are exposed to when they go out with a strange guy, especially a dude who they met on the dating apps.

18:54 So if you can speak to her, which is a phone call, even a voicemail, this is going to elicit a lot more attraction, a lot more trust. She's going to laugh. She's going to be like, oh my God, you totally got me. The Taliban Infidel Outreach Federation. That was so funny. Let's go out sometime. It's increasing your chances. This can also be done with voice prompts, which so few guys use, but all of you have on your phone, where you simply record a voice memo and you guys are talking over voice memo.

19:26 It can be just like a text message conversation, but because she hears your voice, and if you don't have a good voice, I'm going to give you a couple of tips. So stay tuned. She can hear your voice, thus getting more attracted to you. So the voice memo, the phone call, the voicemail, and yes, boys, even a Zoom or FaceTime call is huge to build trust. Once again, that's why I call it the Atomic Trust Method. I'm going to give you the tip for how to make your voice sound better, as well as how to properly edit your voicemail before you send it to her after this quick testimonial from a graduate who just graduated from my program.

20:02 I say all the time, boys, I respect you for listening to the podcast, but a lot of you are probably not as good as you think you are, you could get a lot better. And this is exactly what my boy says in this testimonial. He's talking to one of my coaches, and my coach is going to be talking to him too. So check out what this dude says about his experience in the three-month coaching program. It's an absolute game changer. You don't know what you don't know, brother.

20:27 You don't know how good it could get. And it's testimonials like this that attest just how effective this program is. Check this out. I thought I was coming into this program much better than I actually was, because I spent like a year just studying, watching YouTube videos, a game. I didn't do a single day game approach in a year. Like, you can watch, you can consume everything, but like action is everything. There's nothing like it. Like, seeing that in her, it's fucking, it's addicting. I don't even want to see that again.

21:03 Completely possible for all of us. Like, I've had a night like that, and you're just kind of like, am I dreaming? Like, what is going on? Like, what did I do? I've just, I've just done the work, you know, and like, it happens when it happens. But like, guys that aren't doing this, they're never going to see that. They're going to get chosen instead of being the selector. And that's what this program is like, you learning that like, it really was always in your hands. All right, boys, I hope you enjoyed that.

21:34 It's true, man. Guys who are willing to invest in themselves are going to get to the next level, and you don't even know what you might be missing. You don't know how good it could get. You don't know what techniques are missing. You don't know what's going on inside your head that you haven't dealt with yet that is repulsing women. Or at the very least, not attracting women who are as attractive as you want them to be, which is a huge issue for a lot of you guys.

22:00 Yeah, you're getting some success with my podcast. But it's until you actually have accountability, it's until you actually get into a program where we're going to push you to the next level and drag your ass across the finish line, kicking and screaming if we have to, to get the opportunity to date girls that right now you're only fantasizing about. What could happen to you if you invested in yourself? Let's explore it together, brother. Put in your application. Just click the link below. You and I will talk.

22:26 And if it makes sense, you'll get on a free one-hour NLP breakthrough session with my team to see if we can get you the same results that we get for every single guy who comes into this program. All right. On to the technique. So, in order to drop your voice, and I should have done this before I recorded the podcast, but admittedly I didn't. But if you're worried about sounding good on a voice memo, you can stretch your vocal cords by yawning with your mouth closed.

22:54 This will stretch the vocal cords inside your throat kind of above your Adam's apple. What it does is it stretches it and it drops it down a couple of octaves, making your voice sound better, more masculine, more mature. Then what I would do is I would either grab a microphone like this one or on your desktop or laptop. I'm sure you have a decent microphone. I would record something akin to what I said. Hey, this is Kevin from the Taliban Outreach Federation. We wanted to thank you for your $10,000 donation.

23:25 Yeah, you're going to be on the FBI's most wanted list, but don't worry about it. As long as you don't do anything too suspicious, you should be fine. The Taliban thanks you. Just fucking with you. This is Mark. Call me back. You can literally record that. You could take 16 different tries to get it right. You could edit it together. Then what you do is you press play on your laptop. Nowadays, speakers are so clear. You can't really tell the difference between the speaker and your voice.

23:50 You could call a girl when it goes to voicemail. You just press play. You just hold your phone over it and let your recording do the speaking for you. That could get you that little bit more of attraction to differentiate you from all the other mountain trolls and get you that date when everybody else isn't getting the date. You know what else will get you the date? You know what I'm going to say, brother. Coming into my three-month coaching program, you've been hearing the testimonials. You've been reading them on my website.

24:17 You've seen all the video case studies. You hear time and time again just what we're doing, yet you still don't apply. Brother, explore with us. And if it's a money issue, we will talk about the money. Do not let this opportunity pass you by because I will not be here forever. This is a once-in-a-generational program where I mix the magic of NLP, neuro-linguistic programming, with my epic techniques, with accountability, with the community, the three-month coaching program that will guarantee to 10x your results, or you can stay in the program until it does.

24:50 That's how confident I am that it will change your life, too. So click the link in the description below. Gentlemen, I draw a podcast on Mondays and Thursdays, so please stay tuned for the next one, and I will see you in the next episode. What is up, brother? Just wanted to thank you sincerely for watching this episode. If you've gotten any value whatsoever out of my content, the single best way to help me is to like, comment, subscribe, leave me a review. You have no idea how much that helps me.

25:19 Also, if you're struggling with women and you want to talk to me personally about how I can help you achieve your goals with women, sign up for my three-month coaching program below, and you and I will talk. Join us in the unapologetic army.

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