Think You're Too Old For Younger Women? YOU'RE FULL OF IT!!!

0:00 Statesman, diplomat, outdoorsman, podcast host. Mark Sing was born in February of 1977, and by the tender age of five years old, he was the lead singer, bassist, and guitarist in the international sensation hip-hop jazz fusion punk rock band Intoxicating Vagina. He speaks fluent Japanese in Spanish. Sharks have a week dedicated to him. If he ever choked you unconscious, you'd wake up later and thank him for giving you a hug. His words carry weight that would break a lesser man's jaw. Please welcome your host of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, Mark Sing.

0:44 Welcome to The Unapologetic Man Podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, gentlemen? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate you. And if you clicked on this one, you may be a little bit older and feeling insecure about your age. But I'm here to let you know that you being a little bit older and being attracted to younger women is not only completely okay, justifiable, and normal, but I'm here to tell you that younger women are oftentimes attracted to older men just like you.

1:31 So if you're feeling insecure about it, if you feel creepy about it, I'm here to call bullshit. I'm here to tell you you're an idiot, and I'm here to reframe your entire thinking around, A, of all, why it's okay to be attracted to younger women. In fact, you should be attracted to younger women, and I'm going to explain why, and why you should feel proud to be older and expect those younger women to be attracted to you. I'm going to go through a lot of female psychology, a lot of female attraction, and once again, man, why it is that you should actually feel good about being older and celebrate every single birthday you have.

2:07 Because in my opinion, you're just getting more and more attractive to women. The reason I'm dropping this episode right now is because I've recently gotten a influx of older gentlemen coming into my three-month coaching program, which may beg the question, what's the oldest dude I've ever had in the program? He was 83 years old. Did he get the results? Damn right he did. He was attracting women significantly younger than he was because he finally wrapped his head around how this actually works, and that's what I'm going to outline for you today.

2:38 If you're an older gentleman looking to attract younger women or just to get back into the dating pool, perhaps you've been recently divorced after a long marriage, widowed, or you're not getting the success that you want as an older gentleman, I do work with older gentlemen, younger gentlemen. My ages range literally from 21 years old up to, as I said, 83 years old and everything in between. You might be wondering what the average age is. It's usually around 34 to about 44 is kind of my average age. But like I said, I have a lot of older gentlemen in the program, and yes, we do get results.

3:14 In fact, one guy who recently graduated was, I believe, 53 years old, and he got himself a 25-year-old girlfriend who was smoking hot. So once again, man, if you think that being old is unattractive, you're full of it, bro, because it's not unattractive. It's actually attractive, and we're going to get into that. So first of all, I want to talk about why you're attracted to younger women and kind of justify it, because a lot of you guys feel creepy, and me being 47 years old, I can kind of relate.

3:43 When I find myself checking out girls in college, sometimes I'm like, dude, what are you doing? But immediately, I put that voice to rest, because we are naturally designed to be attracted to women who are in, yes, even their teens, because it's all about their sexual readiness to have a baby. Your entire attraction to women is based on her ability to procreate. Why is that? Well, it's obvious, is it not? Because our entire point here as a species is to continue the lineage of our people, to continue having babies that are going to thrive and be successful in society.

4:21 So when you look at a woman, your attraction for her is literally based on her health signs to have a baby. Healthy-looking hair, healthy-looking skin, a beautiful smile, a good-looking face, good hip-to-breast ratio. These are all indicators of health that she can have a healthy baby that's going to thrive. So if you're attracted to younger women, yes, even women in college, and let's say you are a 50, 60, or even 70-year-old man, that is naturally put within you, and I have to say it probably means you have a good level of testosterone.

4:55 It probably means that your sexuality is healthy, and you shouldn't feel guilty for it. Feeling guilty should be around things like creeping those girls out, which I'm going to get into in a second, leering at them, looking at them like a piece of steak, over-sexualizing them, making lewd or lascivious comments towards them, grabbing them, as a lot of guys will do. Look, your attraction for them is completely justifiable. It's okay, and yes, you can even check them out. And yes, I'm going to be honest with you, even myself sometimes has sexual fantasies about them because that is quite natural.

5:30 But when you act on it in a creepy quote-unquote way, that's where we get into some gray areas. And obviously, guys, you want to avoid that. But you being attracted to younger women is completely okay. In fact, I want you to celebrate it. I want you to understand that it is ingrained in your DNA to want to procreate with a younger woman who is sexually viable. Most women who are about 17 to 23 years old are in the peak of their sexuality. I know in today's society, it is not legal to sleep with a woman who's under 18 years old.

6:06 And from personal experience, those are basically children when you speak to them. So I'm not necessarily attracted to them as a whole. But physically, let's be honest, boys, you get a college girl who is about 18 years old. She's attractive many times because she's ready to have a baby. This is why throughout all of society, women used to get married the second they went through puberty. Because back then, they understood that when a woman went through puberty, she was most viable to have a baby. Now, once again, in today's society, we do have rules in place because I agree with those rules.

6:42 Many times when a girl is 17 years old, her mind hasn't developed enough to really understand what sexuality is, what the ramifications are, what it would mean if she got pregnant. So I do agree with the rules that have been put in place for a very good reason. And once again, I don't know about you, gentlemen, but oftentimes talking with a girl who, in my opinion, is younger than 23 years old, it's like talking to a child. And I personally couldn't do it. But do I think that girls who have gone through puberty, are sexually mature, are physically attractive?

7:14 Yes, of course I do. And I know you do too. Why? Once again, it's naturally mapped into who you are. You are simply looking for health signs. So we have to forgive ourselves for being attracted to younger women. It is natural, brother. So do not feel creepy about it. Do not feel guilty about it. It is who you are, and it is okay to be that. As that caveat, however, don't act on it. If she's under 18, right? Jailbait, as they say. Honestly, there's been times, this was more like in my 30s, where I've like checked IDs because I have been with younger women.

7:50 And dude, jailbait is a real fucking thing. So be very careful about that. But if you're anything like me, 23 is kind of my cutoff because, again, the human brain doesn't even finish developing until you're 25. And speaking to a girl who's younger than 23, just in my experience, is usually pretty painful because it's like talking to a child. But physically, yeah, sometimes I'll see a girl in college and be like, damn, that girl's beautiful. And you can feel that way too. If I can feel that way with all my morals in place and everything that I've been through, you can certainly feel that way because it's natural.

8:25 So we got that out of the way. We're attracted to younger women. It's okay. Believe me, if you're 63 years old, I can see why you'd rather be with a 28-year-old than a fellow 63-year-old. Why? Because she's past her prime. It's like a grape that turned into a raisin, right? It's just past its prime, and that's okay. Older women are still beautiful in their own way. Oftentimes, they become the most beautiful when it's a spiritual kind of beauty, when they become deep, when they become wise. Older women have a lot of amazing benefits, most of which they're elders.

9:00 They are very wise. But do we want to have ravenous monkey sex with them? Naturally, oftentimes we don't, and that's okay. I will say, however, in today's age, it seems like women can get older and older and still really hold their beauty. I know for my woman, Marissa, she's only one year younger than I am. She's 46. She's still smoking hot, bro. She's still totally a MILF, and I still really enjoy hitting that because she takes care of herself, and women's beauty can definitely extend beyond mid or late 20s.

9:31 But again, you being attracted to younger women, totally justifiable. Now, I want to bring up a study that I saw about how most younger women are attracted to older men. In several studies, it said that up to 83% of younger women are attracted to older men. Some other studies said it was about 53%. So if we were to take the average of that, we can say that roughly 65% of women are attracted to older men. Why are they attracted to older men? First of all, you have had a lot of life experiences.

10:04 Life experiences equal wisdom. Wisdom equals what? That's right. Survive ability. Your ability to survive and thrive in today's society is the single most attractive thing that women look for in a man. This is why game, frame, confidence, ambition, as well as all the other attractive traits I talk about consistently in this podcast are irresistible to women because it shows your survivability. It shows your likelihood to pass on genes to her children that will also make them survive. Now, I want you to think about this one.

10:42 How old are you? That number that represents your age means that you have successfully survived on this planet for that many years. Therefore, the older you get, the higher your survivability. Why is that? Because you've survived for that many years. A guy who's been here for 88 years has survived longer than me, who's been here for 47 years. Therefore, he has better survivability. How many things can take us out in society? Well, first of all, a bunch of diseases. Secondly, our own stupidity can get us into accidents where we kill ourselves, such as skydiving through a bridge, which a dude recently tried to do with a wingsuit.

11:26 He tried to go under a bridge, and what happened? He hit the fucking bridge and died. This is male stupidity exemplified, and that is a sign of low survivability because men oftentimes will make very stupid decisions. If you've lived for a long time, it shows that you're wise, you're careful, you have survivability, and that is attractive to women, whereas a guy who, say, for example, is 23 years old could be perceived as being young, dumb, full of cum, as the old saying goes. So just by the virtue of you being on this earth for longer than a guy who's the same age as the girl you're attracted to makes you more attractive to her than she is to him.

12:16 You think rationally, oh, he's young, he's good looking, he still has his hair, he's in shape. But the most important thing to women is survivability. Is that 23-year-old kid able to show the same survivability that you have? Obviously not. If you're my age, for example, 47 years old. Okay, I've survived for 47 years. I've had tons of experiences. I obviously have a ton of wisdom because I've worked on myself a ton, as you're doing too, listening to a podcast like this one. I am sophisticated, I am wise, I am confident, I know who I am, and I know what I want in my life.

12:53 Can that be said for the majority of guys who are recently out of college? Probably not. And I don't know about you, brother, but I was a freaking dumpster fire when I first got out of college. Before I was 28 years old, I was a fucking mess, dude. Insecure, anxious as fuck, couldn't look at a girl, let alone go talk to her. And I was so horny, I'd fuck a snake if I could hold it straight. So I had all these things going against me, whereas now I feel like, dude, you are privileged to be talking to me, young lady.

13:23 You are inexperienced compared to me. I have high survivability, and if you play your cards right, I'll go ahead and tuck you under my wing, show you a good time, teach you about life, mentor you, bringing you up. Now, a lot of you guys are like, yeah, but I'm bald, fat, all these age spots are on me. My dick only works half the time. Brothers, compared to your wisdom, to your sophistication, to your experience in this life, those things don't effing matter. They literally don't matter.

13:55 Now, obviously, if you have some nasty dead ass tooth and bad breath because you're an old fogey who doesn't take care of himself, there is, of course, a diminishing level of returns to your negligence when it comes to your hygiene and physical health. You want to, of course, maximize yourself in the best way possible, but if you're focused on, I'm old and creepy because I'm a little bit chubby, I'm a little out of shape, maybe I'm balding, and that girl would be creeped out by me if I approached her, you're full of it, bro.

14:24 You have it completely wrong. If, on the other hand, you walk up to her knowing, dude, I'm sophisticated, I'm wise, I have all this experience, and me being, let's say, for example, 56 years old is 56 years of surviving, of thriving, of making it through this life. Compared to who you're intimidated by, a 25-year-old guy who's 6'2", got all his hair, has a nice jawline, and is ripped, but deep inside his head, he's probably still as fucked up as you were when you were in your mid-20s.

14:58 You got it all wrong. You need to look at it as having an advantage because what did I just say? 65% of women are attracted to older men and actually prefer them. You are that man. Guys, here's a beautiful thing. The older you get as a man, the more attractive you get as a man. If, and this is a big if, you continue working on yourself, you deal with your bullshit, you don't just succumb to all the challenges of life and give up and become that dude who doesn't maximize himself.

15:29 If you are constantly working on yourself, and I think you probably are if you're listening to a podcast like this one, you should feel proud of your age. You should feel proud of your wisdom. You should feel proud of every single birthday you have, and that's the way I want you to reframe it. When I have a birthday, I pat myself on the back and say, yeah, brother, you made it another year. You are a survivor. You didn't quit. You didn't give up. You didn't succumb to all the pressure, all the challenges, because, boys, this planet is hard.

16:00 This planet will kick your ass, and getting old ain't for pussies. If you're getting older, you are a fucking warrior because a lot of people can't hack that. If you knew the real suicide rates of people who give up, in addition to depression rates, anxiety rates, people who are on medications, not working on themselves, if you somewhat have your life together, and you're not freaking slamming meth or on the verge of suicide or depression, you have it a lot better than a lot of dudes, and a woman would be stoked to be with you.

16:33 So you being older is attractive if you're working on yourself, which, again, I think you are. If you're trying to get past your bullshit, work on your traumas, get to that next best version of yourself, then that, compared with your age, is an asset, not a liability. I don't care if you're balding, fat, you have some age spots on your face and on your hands, you got some skin tags, and your dick will only work half the time without a blue pill. It's all okay, man, because you are that survivor.

17:04 Now, if you're a younger dude and you're getting butthurt about this, if you as a younger dude are working on yourself and trying to maximize yourself, then you're good, bro. You can attract those girls who are in the prime of their sexuality and date a girl, once again, as long as she's 18 or older, and be very successful with it. But I get client after client after client who has a belief system. I'm too old. In fact, I'd say that's probably the most prevalent belief system next to I'm not good enough and hot girls are too good for me.

17:34 And we remove that belief system with NLP, Neuro Linguistic Programming, because somewhere along the line, probably when you were a kid, you got this idea that being older and being attracted to younger women is creepy. It's not creepy, brother, because first of all, as I mentioned, you should be attracted to her. It shows you're fucking healthy. And it shows you have a good testosterone level and a good libido, which shows that you're healthy. Women are attracted to older men because older men, again, show good survivability.

18:05 They're sophisticated. They're wise. They can lead her to where she wants to be led. So all these effed up reasons that you've rationalized in your head based on what somebody else told you, probably when you were a kid, are complete bullshit. And you, my friend, are full of it. So drop that belief system. And if you can't do it just by listening to this podcast and being like, you know what? This dude is right. I am attractive because I'm older. If you can't do that, I have a program that's specifically designed to remap belief systems such as being old is creepy.

18:39 Being 56 years old and approaching a 28-year-old girl is creepy. It's not creepy if you do it in the right way. If you go up to her with like Gary fingers and be like, hey, can I touch your boobies? Of course that's creepy. If you leer at her, treat her like a piece of meat or try to touch her in an inappropriate way, that's creepy. But going up in the way that I explain, which is giving value, showing frame, game, enlightening her with your presence, leaving her better from having met you, being that go-giver that I always talk about, you are doing her a favor.

19:12 And gentlemen, you can yank girls that are much younger and much hotter than you ever thought possible, provided they're over 18 years old. So if you're procrastinating on opening a woman who you're attracted to because you feel like you're too old, you could be depriving her of an experience that she's been dreaming about since she was a kid. I had another client, a completely different guy, who's in his mid-60s, and he literally just married a girl who was 20 years old. And this is not bullshit. I swear it on my father's grave.

19:42 In fact, I went out to California and hung out with them because my client was so over-the-moon excited that he got to get his dream girl, which was a younger woman. She told me that ever since she was a kid, she dreamed about being with an older man. She dreamed about being taken under his wing and shown a good time. All his sophistication, all his class, all his wisdom, the majority of his experiences turned her on so much. And she's like, oh, when I just look at him, I just, I'm so in love.

20:13 And I look at the dude and I'm like, damn, bro, that guy is not the best looking dude. But it doesn't matter because it's your age, it's your sophistication, like a fine wine that gets better with age. And remember, boys, 65% of women are attracted to older men, 65%. That's almost 7 out of 10 girls will be attracted to an older man. So if you just have the confidence and you own your age, and if she questions it, you turned it around on her with all my frame control reversals.

20:43 For example, she's like, how old are you? And you're like, I'm 52. And she's like, oh my God, you're so old. What do you do in that situation? You make it all about the other. You say, hey, hey, don't be insecure about your age. I know you're only 25, but you seem pretty mature. You seem pretty intelligent. I'm sure you could keep up with me. Don't feel insecure about it. You turn it around on her because when you do that, she realizes, oh shit, that's right. Age doesn't matter.

21:09 And I have had girl after girl after girl tell me, when I first heard your age, I was like, oh my God, he's almost twice my age. But once I get to know you better, it was so sexy and I was glad that you were that age. And I'm glad that you didn't let me talk you out of coming to talk to me or let my bullshit convince you not to pursue me. Because once I frame checked them, reverse it on them, that telegraphs frame, it telegraphs wisdom, it telegraphs experience, it telegraphs survivability.

21:41 That I am 47 years old and yeah, you're 22. I'm sure you could keep up with me. Good luck with it, but I'm sure you could keep up. Just try your best. You know, I'm sure you're mature enough. I'm sure you could do it, little girl. Just give it your best shot. And then she's like, oh my God, I'm attracted to this guy like daddy, right? What did daddy do? He led her. He took care of her, presided over her, was able to show her a good time, able to mentor her, to bring her up to the next best version of herself.

22:11 Because all of us humans are trying to get to that next best version. Who's going to be able to do that better? You being an older gentleman or a guy who's her same age? You, brother. You have all the experience to do so. So start feeling confident about it. I want each of you guys, no matter what your age is, to be like, hell yeah, brother. My age is sexy. And if I'm attracted to a younger girl, not only is it okay, once again, boys, provided she's of age, not only is that okay, but it's actually preferred by most women.

22:43 And yeah, most men are attracted to younger women. Stop feeling guilty about it. It's how you're naturally wired. So own it. You are a champion. You are a legend. Tell yourself over and over again, I am a girl. Magnet. And it's okay for me to be attracted to exactly who I'm attracted to because it's literally mapped into our DNA. Health signs. How much possibility can that girl have a healthy baby? Once she's 40 years old, it's literally called a geriatric pregnancy. Did you guys know that? Once she's 40.

23:16 So if you feel guilty about being attracted to girls who are younger than 40, you're just acting on your natural instinct. So feel good about it. Congratulate that red-helmeted warrior in your pants and say, yeah, brother, you understand how it should be. And we're going to actually pursue those kinds of girls in, once again, a non-creepy way. And once again, obviously, a girl who's of age. And if you're a dude who's in his 30s and you're kind of dating down into the 18, 19, 20-year-olds, check your ID, bro.

23:44 Because I've seen some guys go down for some crazy shit because you guys are attractive. And younger women are going to be very attracted to you. So be very careful about what you do. And if you're anything like me, 23 is kind of my cutoff age, which is half my age. And I have dated many girls who were about half my age. And it was amazing, man. She was attracted to me because I'm older. I was attracted to her because she was sexy as hell. Maybe the conversations weren't always the best, which is why I never settled down with a girl who was half my age.

24:14 I instead settled down with a girl who's of my age but very sophisticated and still hot as fuck because she takes care of herself. But if you want to get a younger girl, totally possible. And you can absolutely do it, especially if you come into my three-month coaching program. It will be over. If you have a fantasy of dating younger women, I literally have the keys to the castle to give you. The only thing you have to do is sign up, and you can do so by clicking the link in the description below.

24:42 So, gentlemen, I hope this has helped you out. I'm too old for that girl. Bullshit. That was a belief system that was given to you before you could defend yourself. So drop it like you drop a heavy sack of potatoes. It's not serving you, and it's a complete and utter lie. Gentlemen, I draw a podcast on Mondays and Thursdays, so please stay tuned for the next one. And I will see you in the next episode. So-da! We'll see you in the next episode.

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