HOW TO GET ASIAN GIRLS!!!

0:00 Mark Sing, please translate the following. Hadouken! Hadouken, Fireball Punch. Shoryuken! Shoryuken, Rising Dragon Punch. Tatsumaki-sen-puk-yek! Tatsumaki-sen-puk-yek, Cyclone Kick. You win perfect! Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, gentlemen? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I hope you enjoyed that introduction. When I was a kid, and I hope this is true for you too, I did nothing but played Street Fighter II.

0:51 Now, this for me was in the 80s and 90s, where you would go to 7-Eleven and play on the video game machine. And me and my best friend, Ira, at the time, we would just pump quarter after quarter after quarter into the video game machine. And every time they would say something, we're English-speaking. We didn't know what the Japanese meant. Particularly with Tatsumaki-sen-puk-yek, which means Cyclone Kick, we would always be like, yat yat yat yun kick every time we would do it and it wasn't until i moved to japan that i asked people what the hell it meant and i was so pumped when i first found out that yat yat yun kick actually is tatsumaki senpukiak which means cyclone kick and for those of you guys that have played the video game you know he like spins around kicking i was so pumped when i first heard that so if you've ever played street fighter 2 3 4 5 6 whatever you probably got a chuckle out of that intro if you've never played those video games before then you're like what the literal fuck is this guy talking about what i'm talking about is how to attract asian women and that's we're going to talk about in this episode yellow fever as it's called do you guys know why it's called yellow fever it's because supposedly asian people have yellow skin which uh can't really be corroborated by any of my experiences but nonetheless it's called yellow fever which is just being so unbelievably attracted to asian chicks and i'm going to be honest with you when i lived in japan which i did for four years i had that yellow fever and i definitely got to put out the fever by just indulging in as many women as humanly possible because in japan the way it works is girls are either hell yes i want to date a guy from america england canada wherever or hell the fuck no so it's either it's on it's easy you could just pull it very simply or they want nothing to do with you that's been my experience but i'm going to tell you guys how it is that you attract asian women and i think you're going to be surprised by what i say because it's likely not what you expect in addition to that i'm going to tell you how to deal with shy women women that are a little bit standoffish women who come from cultures that you don't come from and how to deal with that and how to execute correctly so if you have yellow fever i'm going to give you a lot of tips in this one once again it's probably not what you expect so stay tuned and even if you don't have yellow fever i am going to give you a lot of really good general tips for how to attract women generally as well as how to deal with shy girls who aren't really participating much and who aren't giving you a lot to go on yet you're still able to attract them before i jump into the content i want to tell you guys kind of a funny story because i did live in japan four years and i've had a lot of experiences with women but one story in particular is really funny i'm going to relate that to you and then we're going to jump into the content so they have these places in japan called nampa koen nampa means to hit on girls to go specifically to try to get girls which of course is why a lot of you listen to my podcast koen means park so nampa koen means a park where you go to get girls and for women who would go to that park it would be a park for where you go to get guys so what they do is all the girls would line up their cars on a curb and there would just be like 20 cars then the guys would drive up and they would basically say hey what's up nice to meet you what's your name run a little bit of game and then the girls would either say yes or no and the funniest thing would happen when the girl wasn't interested she would say the same term which was choto muri desu choto muri desu means a little bit impossible so the guys would literally go up and talk to him and the girls would be like ah it's a little bit impossible please move on and then the guys would move on but if there was a love connection there then of course they'd be like cool let's go hang out in the park meet me over there at that park bench and then they would see if they hit it off and that's how nampa koen worked one time i went with my boys and i was in the back seat in a tinted window car and he pulls up to the girl and they're kind of talking and he's like gaijin gai du which means we have a foreigner in the back seat right i don't remember if he said i was american or what but he's just basically like gaijin gai du which means outside person is in the car and then i immediately hear her say choto muri desu right and then we moved on to the next car it was so funny the way it worked in japan but here's the big point of this episode boys and a lot of you may be disappointed to hear this but stick with me because i'm going to tell you why this is actually a good thing attracting asian women is no different than attracting any other women in society the only difference possibly especially if you live abroad is that the culture is a little bit different the way you go about courting the woman is different but don't get it twisted gentlemen women are all attracted to the same damn thing what is that thing obviously confidence self-belief self-esteem good body language leader of men pre-selection meaning you have other women in your life and you're already attractive to women they're attracted to ambition every single woman whether you're in africa japan or italy is attracted to a man who's ambitious who's passionate who's trying to make something of himself who can control the frame who can lead her who can make her laugh and by the way why is it so important that you're able to make a woman laugh it's because if you're able to make her laugh it's a sign of survivability meaning if he's charismatic in the way that he can make me laugh he can make other people laugh thereby getting other people to like him thereby increasing his chances of being successful in society now does she necessarily need for you to be rich and successful no all she wants to know is that the potential is there why does the potential matter more than the actual result because she doesn't necessarily want you to be successful monetarily with your reputation etc she wants genes that are successful and this is why guys who live in their mom's basement aren't making any money but who can still portray those attractive traits still get chicks a lot of times guys ask me why is this asshole getting this girl and i often say because assholes lead the frame they're unapologetic they are confident they know what they want and how to get it and they're not to be fucked with so when you communicate those traits whether it's a japanese woman korean woman chinese woman or whatever woman why you clicked on this episode it's the same damn thing gentlemen so what's the answer here the answer here is twofold first of all you obviously need to work on yourself you need to learn how to run game you need to work on your inner belief systems you need to deal with your traumas because unless you do you are sub communicating yes even to a vietnamese girl that you are insecure and you are low value the second thing you need to do is obvious put yourself in pools of women where there's asian chicks where do asian chicks hang out well first of all you should be on the dating apps because there's lots of asian black mexican and white chicks and whatever other nationality you're attracted to on the dating apps so if you have yellow fever and all you want to do is pull asian girls then put yourself a of all on the dating apps and go after those asian girls talk to all of them as i talked about in my previous episode you shouldn't be picky about who you're talking to when you're trying to develop a skill set you should be talking to all girls and yes even going on dates with them and as i said in that previous episode you don't have to have sex with her you don't have to kiss her you don't even need to touch your hand beyond shaking it when you first meet her you are giving her an experience you are cracking her up telling her stories practicing so that you can develop the skill set as a secondary part of that you need to put yourself in situations where asian girls hang out okay i'm not going to racially assume where asian girls hang out but we all know where they hang out right they often hang out in those huge centers where there's like an asian market there's freaking pad thai there's pho there's a couple chinese restaurants it seems like the asian population really sticks within itself so you let's say are a white guy you roll into such a supermarket maybe asking advice about what is the best pad thai to buy or what is the best sushi place around here or just asking her about herself like hey where did you get that thing what is that thing doing it the exact same way you do it to a white chick and that's the point of this episode it is the same gentlemen attraction works how attraction works they're attracted to high value ambition confidence frame and game is the most important thing but when doing it to an asian girl you just do it at a different location you do the exact same thing now this begs the question what is different about asian chicks and mark's experience well i have been with many many asian chicks most of all in japan but also when i was a japanese translator in hawaii i just had the yellow fever bro i couldn't get enough of it i've since gotten it out of my system and honestly with me i really prefer eastern european kind of chicks who are thin tight ass tall blonde brunette i just prefer white chicks because i feel like i got that yellow fever done and over with but when i was gaming asian girls specifically the general trend that i noticed is that they're a little more shy than most girls they're not willing to talk as much as most girls and yes one really good thing about them is they are willing to go into their feminine energy they're not going to frame check you as much they're going to let you lead and they're attracted to a man who can lead now i'm making gross generalizations here that isn't true for every single asian chick in fact i've dated asian chicks that were little firecrackers man one chick in particular pulled fucking hair out of my head when we were having sex and i straight told her i'm like yo you need to stop that that literally am i bleeding right now because that hurt like hell what are you doing this chick was just like claw she was tie i think she was but anyway the point is whether it's a white girl mexican girl or asian girl if she's shy you need to try to get her out of her shell so one thing i'm often asked is how much of the talking should i do in the first conversation how much of the talking should she do well in a perfect world what do you guys think i'm going to say in a perfect world how much should you talk how much should she talk it's obvious is it not it should be about 50 50 you guys are getting to know each other she's willing to talk some you're willing to talk some this is how people relate a perfect conversation is 50 50 but we all know we don't live in a perfect world we know we live in a world where she might not be willing to contribute as much she might be a little bit shy in which case you need to pick up the slack so when it comes to the interactions you're leading her to where she wants to be led but as i often say the woman is the barometer for your escalations and she's the barometer for how much you need to talk if she's only willing to talk 20 then you obviously have to pick up the slack and talk 80 but oftentimes what i'll do is say encouraging things to her so for example i may say hey you know you look a little bit uncomfortable don't worry i'm not gonna mug you probably and then i'll smile at her or you know there's only a 80 chance i'm gonna mug you but only a 10 chance of that so don't worry just relax i'm messing with you kelly just relax it's cool we're just here chilling in fact let me give you a few extra feet and then you step back you'll be like you okay you feel better let me step back a little more and then like you're 10 feet away you're like you okay now you okay and she's kind of cracking up she's kind of loosening up you just need to observe when a girl is shy and loosen her up a little bit let her know she can talk it's okay i'm not judging you it's chill let's just have fun and the way to do that is to maybe sometimes point out that she's uncomfortable and make a bit of a joke out of it just mess with her don't tease her too hard where she gets butt hurt but just be like hey it's cool i'm not gonna mug you okay you can relax it's cool we're just talking here no big deal and that will oftentimes disarm them another thing with asian women that i've noticed particularly japanese girls because that was kind of my specialty is they're very feminine which in my opinion is a great thing what is feminine it's a girl who's mostly submissive mostly passive isn't trying to take the lead isn't trying to flex up now once again so that i don't get a hundred hate males this isn't true for every single asian woman it's not true for every single whatever woman fill in the blank i'm making gross generalizations but this has been my observation when she's willing to be led you just assume the lead brother as you should do with every other girl the difference is they often don't frame check you which is testing your frame trying to make you do favors for them but the thing that you'll often be tempted to do with a girl who's shy whether she's asian mexican or white is you'll ask her all the time what do you want to do you'll defer to her in a way because you're insecure about leading because she's not giving you a lot of feedback my advice when it comes to that assume the clothes assume the lead assume she's going to have a great time now certainly if you're going to take her out to sushi for example since we're talking about asian girls you could always ask her hey i didn't feel a lot of response from you about the sushi thing do you like sushi or where are you at with that and what i'm basically doing is just trying to loosen her up because i don't care if she's asian black white whatever all girls once they get comfortable will loosen up a little bit yes some girls are more talkative than others some girls will participate more than others but oftentimes once they loosen up they'll start talking about it now in the way of questions if you ask her for example what was the best day of your life and she's like i don't know which as a lot of you guys can relate is very frustrating you're like chick i'm trying to fucking talk to you what was the best day of your life it's such a great question she's just like i don't know thank you for participating you are an amazing conversationalist has anyone ever told you that that's what you want to say but you can't say it to these kinds of girls because they're going to get butt hurt and they're shy because they're insecure let's be honest they don't want to make a mistake probably because they like you a girl who isn't attracted to you is very unlikely to be shy she's just going to be like not interested get out of here but a girl is kind of into you she goes into her feminine she gets shy and the way to pull her out of that is to ask her questions and if she avoids it push it a little bit going back to my previous example i said what was the best day of your life she's like i don't know you'd be like come on you definitely had the best day of your life okay let's think about this this past year what's the coolest thing that happened to you and kind of guide her in a way now one good thing about women who are in their feminine energy is that they are naturally more attractive why is that a woman who's deeply feminine is the opposite of a man who's deeply masculine which hopefully you are and there's sexual tension there the further the distance between her femininity and your masculinity the more tension there is the better the sex is although i will say and i hope nobody gets butthurt about this for the majority of japanese girls they freaking laid on their back closed their eyes and just went like a blow-up doll because i banged many blow-up dolls and i'll tell you what that's like having sex with a japanese girl at least in my experience a few of them were different i'm not saying all of them are like that so don't get butthurt but i'm saying that a lot of them were that way and it got pretty damn boring for me which is why i do prefer women of my own race i like eastern european chicks they're so goddamn banging like if you take a ukrainian chick a romanian chick or a czechosvacian chick and compare her in my opinion to a japanese chick no comparison whatsoever but the interesting thing about japan is you'll have a shit ton of eights and when i say eight i mean eight out of ten girls but very few nines and very few sevens it seems like especially in osaka and tokyo all the chicks are eights and you're like dude they're all like pretty hot but not like oh my god dude i'm gonna come just looking at this girl which you often find in ukrainian chicks eastern european chicks in my opinion nonetheless if you do have that yellow fever as i keep saying it doesn't matter what her races you simply need to put yourself in a situation where you're meeting lots of asian girls you need to lead them if they're shy you need to get them out of that by encouraging them in the conversation opening them up slowly until they're more comfortable with you to share things and don't be afraid to be a little bit pushy when you're trying to crack them open what i've found with asian girls it just takes a little more perseverance but man they're so feminine oftentimes and i'm gonna be honest they're kind of more subservient in the way that they want to do things for you i've had asian girlfriends that were just fucking amazing but i'm just not that attracted to them so i never locked them down just my own thing but if you have yellow fever i definitely understand why the whole key to asian girls is the same as any other girl except for some of the cultural differences now when it comes to language barriers let's say you do live in a foreign country or you're going to go travel to a different country the cool thing about you brother is you speak english generally speaking english is the most accepted language in the entire world not always true because in japan for example particularly in the rural areas nobody speaks english but as i said before in asia particularly it seems like the girls are either like hell yes he's a white dude from america england canada australia or hell no i want nothing to do with him so let's say you are traveling to thailand or something i know a lot of you aussies go to thailand you go to bali to get your dick sucked by some thai chick and you pay for it it's like the best moment of your life that's cool if that's what you want to do but let's say you go there and there is the language barrier speak english do not try to speak their language except for little words here and there to be cute make them speak english why because you are then controlling the frame you're the one whose language we are using therefore you're the one who's leading so when i was in japan i just talk english to these girls and if they didn't understand it you do some like sign language and stuff like that and you can still have fun you base a lot of your dates on physical activities like hiking mountain biking bowling whatever you could still have a great time with girls but i wouldn't try to speak japanese because i did try to do that and it makes me look low value for guys who don't speak english well unfortunately they automatically kind of have low value in the united states you get a guy with a very thick accent trying to hit on a girl you can see how that doesn't look as good as if for example his language was the dominant language he goes up to the girl expecting her to speak it now she's in the position of oh i have to work hard i have to concentrate and it actually makes her more attracted to you because you're leading it and that's what i figured out when i lived in japan funny story i dated a russian chick in japan who spoke no english her and i spoke japanese together when we were dating it was really weird it was a white girl from russia and we were speaking japanese didn't last very long but i thought that was pretty cool but man asian girls are amazing they're beautiful not necessarily what i want at least long term but damn dude i'm glad i had that yellow fever because it was a great experience they are beautiful beings especially in my opinion chinese girls i think chinese girls are super banging because they often have that body type i like that kind of thin tight ass a little bit of small tits but just like toned whereas japanese girls they're kind of soft in a way and they're kind of all the same they're not super into working out but they're not fat they're just kind of in that like skinny chubby kind of vibe that i don't like i like toned i don't know about you but if i had to get yellow fever again i'd probably focus on chinese girls because man they are extremely attractive but once again man eastern european girls nothing compares to in my opinion so if you have that yellow fever that's how you do it put yourself in situations where you're constantly meeting new asian girls approach attraction the exact way i outline in this podcast the four pillars of attraction pre-selection confidence body language using all the gambits i teach qualifying push pull all the stuff that i teach you guys in this podcast but more importantly in my three-month coaching program if she's shy stick in there and kind of get her out of her shyness lead her to where she wants to be led always being cognizant of what she likes and doesn't like and if you simply persevere through those somewhat awkward cultural differences 98 of it is exactly the same so my experience in japan was definitely a positive one if i seem to have insulted japanese people i absolutely meant that in no way whatsoever i love japan it is a beautiful country the people are so unbelievably kind it's almost crazy some of the stuff that they've done for me there are beautiful people a beautiful culture and if you were ever to live abroad or for those of you who have lived abroad you really realize that our way is not the best way it's just a different way and people who do different things in different countries often in your opinion will have a better way and you can incorporate those kinds of cultural differences into your own life and better who you are as a man so for those of you who do have the yellow fever and even don't i do appreciate you listening i hope you got something out of this stay tuned for my podcast that's going to drop on thursday i'm going to talk about how if you're older and you're attracted to younger women and you think it's creepy you think it's gross i'm going to call you out and call you an idiot because that is the stupidest most illogical reasoning i've ever heard and i'm going to explain why you being an older man going after young let's call them asian women is actually more attractive than a younger man going after young again let's call it asian women because you have more advantages that you probably don't even know so if you feel creepy like gary fingers like hi my name is gary fingers can i touch your boobsicle you can't feel that way brother because you're going to telegraph it to women and we're going to talk about that on thursday so i hope you got something out of this gentlemen i do appreciate you listening i drop podcasts on mondays and thursdays so please stay tuned for the next one and i will see you in the next episode you

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