How to INSTANTLY Raise Your Vibration to Attract Higher Quality Girls

0:00 You are not going to be able to get a high-quality girl unless you too are improving yourself and getting your vibration higher. Help an old lady across the street. Give a homeless person money. Give somebody a compliment. If you do that, not only will you lift them up, but this is a way to raise your own vibration up. Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, gentlemen?

0:36 Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate you. Today, guys, we're going to talk about how to raise your vibration to attract higher-quality girls. Here's a truth that you may not know. You attract to yourself the exact vibrational frequency, either with money or with women, that you're putting off. So if you want a high-quality girl, the simple fact is that you have to become a high-quality guy, which always means raising your vibration. I've told you guys many times in this podcast that the most important two things that you have to go up to women with are what?

1:12 They are good energy and good tonality. Good energy is just vibration. Have you guys ever walked into a gas station or walked into kind of like a ghetto place, and there's just some people there that you're like, dude, that guy has bad vibes? We as human beings can pick up on vibrations. We pick up on how people feel, the resonance that they're emanating, and if it's a good vibration, we want to be close to them. If it's a bad vibration, we want to get away from them.

1:40 Don't you think this is true with women? Women are looking for a dude who they can pair bond with, a guy who they can look up to, a guy who can lead them to where they want to be led. And gentlemen, vibrations, the way you feel, the way you're emanating your energy is one of the most important things. But yet, it's one of the most overlooked things. So we're going to talk about that in depth today. Stay tuned until the end because I have some really interesting things to say around this.

2:05 I'm really into this stuff, and I want to bring you guys the highest quality stuff. As I'm sitting here, I just noticed I didn't turn on my logo. If you're listening on Spotify or iTunes, I do have a YouTube channel where we're posting these via video. So I'd super appreciate it if you guys went over there and subscribed, like my videos, left comments. That channel is moving slower than pond water. It's growing slower than a freaking glacier going across the Antarctic, moving slower than a sloth trying to run across the street because I've been sandboxed.

2:38 They don't like the content that I'm putting out. In my opinion, there's some sentiment against guys like me who teach guys like you how to attract women. And at the very least, there's some anti-masculinity sentiment. We need to be the movement against that. This is called the Unapologetic Man Podcast because we are unapologetic about being men. So if you could kindly go over to YouTube and subscribe. And if you're watching on YouTube right now, brother, you're probably wondering, like, how can I help this guy? He's giving me so much content.

3:06 Just subscribe. It's simple. Clack that subscribe button. It feels good to smash that thing and become a member of the Unapologetic Man Army. I'd super appreciate that. One of the ways you can raise your vibration is to help other people out. And that's going to be point number one is to just be a good fucking person. Give more than what you ask for in return. Don't be a taker. Gentlemen, there are so many takers that come into my inbox. Mark, give me this. Mark, answer this question.

3:34 Mark, do this for me. Bruh, I've already given you like 620 episodes and all you're trying to do is take more? Give back, gentlemen. Help an old lady across the street. Give a homeless person money. Give somebody a compliment when they're feeling bad or having a bad day. If you do that, not only will you lift them up, but this is a way to raise your own vibration up. Because as I keep saying, and I really want to drum this into your head, you are not going to be able to get a high quality girl unless you two are improving yourself and getting your vibration higher.

4:07 Women always want to be in a better state than the state they're in now. With a woman who has the choice of hundreds of thousands of men, literally dudes throwing their dick at her on a day-to-day basis saying, you want some dick? You want some dick? You want some dick? How about my dick? Not his dick. My dick. Not his dick. My dick. All these dudes throwing dick at this chick. And you're like, hmm, how do I get this girl? All you got to do, bro, and this is such a huge secret, is be vibrating at a higher level than all those other schleps are vibrating at.

4:36 And she will get attracted to you. Here's an example. Oftentimes, and I admit this forthright, when people throw their pain body at me, which means the accumulation of pain that they've experienced through their whole life, and say, for example, they're having a bad day and they're low vibrating, when they throw negativity at me, when they throw hatred at me, I oftentimes collapse and go into my own pain body and throw hatred back at them. One of the superpowers you're going to realize when you have a strong frame is that you can smash people super easily.

5:08 Because you're used to be in high pressure situations. You know how to smash people. And you can punk them pretty damn bad. And I've had a bad habit of doing this consistently. So when somebody's negative towards me, when they honk at me in traffic, when they try to punk me in front of my girls at the nightclubs, I punk them. And it's not something I'm proud of. It's something that's low vibrating. But recently, I've been trying to raise my vibration to the point where, even if somebody's negative towards me, I am going to change their state with my vibrational frequency to bring them to a higher state.

5:43 And this is what happened yesterday. I went to go pick up a prescription. When I walked up to the counter, there was a 55-year-old, slightly obese woman. You could tell she was having the worst day. And I walk up and I'm like, hey, how's it going? I'm just here to pick up a prescription. And she rolled her eyes at me. Now, most times, and I'm going to be honest, I'd be like, having a pretty bad day, huh? You're not doing too good today, are you? Hope your life gets better.

6:09 Okay, and that's negativity. It's just meeting negativity with negativity. And I admit forthright. I've been guilty of that. I have a pain body that gets triggered very quickly. But what is that? It's fucking weakness. What do I talk about all the time in this podcast? Frame control, which means being on your inner state of centeredness. And the way to stay on your inner state of centeredness is to be imperturbable, to be in a high vibration. The higher your vibration, and rest assured, I'm going to give you techniques to use to get there, the harder it is for people to drag you into a lower vibration.

6:41 So yesterday, I happened to be vibrating pretty high, bro. I was feeling pretty good. I was in the present moment. I was sending love to others. And when she rolled her eyes at me, I was like, Mark, calm the fuck down, bro. Because I know you just want to whip her ass with that frame control. Spray her face with shit mist and ruin her day even more. But don't do it, you idiot. Control yourself. Hit that woman with love. So she walks up to the counter, and I'm doing my thing.

7:06 And I'm like, hey, listen, I have to let you know, I love your haircut. It looks awesome on you. It just matches your face perfectly. Guys, her vibration changed instantly. It just went whoop through the roof. Huge smile on her face. She looked at me with kind of flirty eyes. She's like, oh my God, this guy just made her day. Now let's look at this from her perspective. She's like 55 years old, probably like 60 pounds overweight. She's graying. She's unattractive. She's working at a fucking pharmacy at CVS.

7:36 She's probably been hated on all day. So much negativity towards her. And who knows? Maybe her husband's dying, or her kid doesn't talk to her anymore, or any myriad of things. Then I go in and I just blast her with love and positivity, complimenting her. Something I could tell. She needed so fucking badly to raise her vibration. Now she's feeling better. And here's the thing. I raised my vibration by like 5X. I walked out of there being like, yeah, dude, I'm a good dude. Even though I'm not always a good dude, that day I felt like I was a good dude.

8:09 Now here's the interesting thing. I went to Whole Foods, and I swear to you, gentlemen, girls were jocking the shit out of me. I just had that it factor, bro. All the girls were sweating me, checking me out. I felt like I was in the nightclub in the flow, which I was talking about in my last podcast, where once you get enough dopamine going, your energy raises, your adrenaline goes down, you're feeling a good vibration, and girls pick up on that. Let me tell you this.

8:35 Girls are way more tuned in to vibrational frequencies than we are, and it is a huge determinant of whether or not they get attracted to you. Now here's something I need to tell you. As I spoke about in my 600th episode, the universe, meaning God's source energy, the world, if you will, is a mirror. What you put out towards it, it's going to put back to you, such as if you say I don't have enough money, the universe is going to say, correct, you don't have enough money.

9:02 If you say I'm unattractive, the universe is going to say, correct, you're unattractive. Well, here's the thing, boys. Girls are the same way. They are a mirror representing how you feel about yourself. So if you don't feel like enough, the woman is going to tell you, you're right, you're not enough. If, on the other hand, you feel I'm a champion, I'm a girl magnet, I'm a high vibrational human being, the girl's going to say, he's a girl magnet, he's attractive, I feel good in his vibration.

9:30 So if you have belief systems, I'm not enough, hot girls are too good for me, she'd be better with a different dude, she's going to agree with you, thus justifying your approach anxiety, if you have a high approach anxiety. And here's the thing, you may subliminally know this, that if I feel shitty about myself, she's going to feel shitty about me too. Well, what's the solution to that? Working on yourself, part of what you're doing now by listening to this podcast, part of which because awareness alone is curative, meaning when you're aware of this happening, that being you feeling bad about yourself and girls rejecting you because of it, you will oftentimes take steps to move past it.

10:08 But if you can't move past it, if you've been trying for years to do so, and maybe on some level you even know this is true, this is why I use NLP in my coaching program. We remove bullshit belief systems like that, getting you better belief systems, vibrating at a higher frequency so that more girls get attracted to you. Now let's get into some techniques. The first technique, as I always talk about, is to simply feel better than she feels when you either approach her or you go on a date with her.

10:36 You have to get your state up. We all know how to get our state up. You listen to cool music, you work out, you think of some memories that get you pumped up. You think about fucking kittens and puppy dogs or the child that you love, who's either your niece or even your own son or daughter, to get your vibrational frequency up. Gentlemen, this is one of the most important things you have to do before you approach a girl. If you're out approaching, if you're practicing, you need to constantly keep your state up.

11:04 Constantly be in the state of feeling good, not being spazzy like one of those fucking blow-up clowns outside the used car lot. No, it's just feeling good, man. It's just being in dopamine. It's just loving life and saying, dude, I have it pretty fucking good. To do that, again, you just focus on things that make you feel good. Second tip, focus on what you have, not what you lack. Focus on all the abundance. If you're listening to this right now, I can almost guarantee you, you have a cell phone that you can look at and literally get any answer to any questions, yet you still complain?

11:41 You have ears to hear this. You're probably healthy enough to walk around. You're probably gainfully employed. And we live in an age where things are pretty fucking good. And I'm going to talk about all the wars and all the negativity in a minute. So stay with me. But you have to be appreciative. Thanking your car. Thanking your cell phone. Thanking the fact that you have ears to hear this. Thanking the fact, perhaps, that I'm out there giving you some good information. Or at the very least, that you have a roof over your head.

12:07 You have a fucking pillow to put your head on. You have a refrigerator. You can literally eat anytime you want. Do you know how bad it's been throughout society? Of course you know. You're no idiot. Yet we always focus on what isn't there. Focus on abundance. Focus on being appreciative for all those things that you have. And more will come to you. The next tip is to be in the present moment as much as possible. Now, this comes from the book, The Power of Now. Many of you guys have read that based on my recommendations because I always talk about it.

12:39 Being in the present moment simply means stop thinking about all your problems, all the shit that goes wrong. Do you know how much of your thoughts are negative? For the most of you, it's probably about 75%. Maybe some of you have brought it down to 50-50. But for the majority of us, including me, negative shit just comes in. And this is quite natural. This is quite anthropological. Because focusing on the negative shows you what you need to fix in your life, thus increasing your chances of survival.

13:09 But in today's age, it's gone off the hook. We do it too much, focusing on what's wrong, what I don't have, scarcity. The way to get into high vibration is to focus on abundance. And finally, boys, don't buy into the fucking fear. There is so much fear-mongering on all the news channels, on Instagram, on Facebook, on all the social medias. It's just trying to get you in fear. Why is that? Well, I used to be a copywriter for a long time. A copywriter is basically an expert at writing sales pages.

13:42 If you go to my website and click on coaching and you read the page, that's called copywriting. It's sales writing, which tries to convince somebody to do something. And in copywriting, we learn that if you hit somebody with a negative, it's going to be more powerful than hitting them with a positive, such as, how lonely are you not having a girl in your bed at night? What's it like to have one foot on the gas pedal and one foot on the brake? And the foot on the brake is a little bit stronger, preventing you from getting all the women you want.

14:12 When's the last time you got laid, bro? Is your dick so dry it's going to audition for the next movie of Dune? As opposed to what's going to be like to have that girl in your bed, riding your dick. That works too, but negativity works the best because it sells. Now you understand what all the news agencies focus on negativity. President Trump's going to start World War III. They're going to deport everybody and we're going to have an economic collapse. Just negative, negative, negative, gentlemen. You have to go on a news fast, which means eliminate it completely.

14:44 I was interested in the election, so I was following some news things. On YouTube, I've since unsubscribed from them. I've since put, I'm not interested in that content. All I'm getting is positive stuff. I'm into Supercross. I'm into RC cars. I'm into doing wheelies. Some other weird hobbies I have is I'm really into tiki, T-I-K-I. It's like a Hawaiian, Polynesian kind of thing. And I'm actually building a tiki room in my basement. I'll unveil it to you guys in a couple months when it's done. But all I'm focusing on is the positive.

15:13 All I'm focusing on is spiritual stuff, enlightenment-based stuff, near-death experiences, what the evolution of human consciousness is going towards. Because that's what's positive and that's what keeps me in a high vibrational frequency. The higher you're vibrating, the more you're appreciative, the more you're putting out kindness. And the better you feel when you approach a woman, the better it's going to go for you. And yeah, gentlemen, if you feel you're not enough, she's a mirror. And she's going to say, you're right, you're not enough. And this may be why a lot of you guys are experiencing so much rejection.

15:45 You haven't faced the demons inside your head. Well, I'm going to tell you something. You are a high vibrating frequency who's basically played a trick on himself to think that you're not, to think that you're powerless, to think that your power is somewhere else. But I have to tell you, brother, you are a very powerful creator and you have the wherewithal within you to get through this shit. So put the light on the darkness because the darkness cannot survive the light. Of your high vibrations. But again, you have to control the negative thoughts inside your head.

16:16 You have to control the fear, which is producing all these wars and all this negativity in the world, all this ego. The way you stop the war is to stop focusing on it. Is to instead focus on things like love, compassion, being cool to people, giving compliments, being that high vibrational dude. Because gentlemen, we need it. I need your help as the unapologetic man army. And army against this endless negativity, this endless fear, this endless ego, this hate mongering that goes on on all the news stations.

16:48 I need your help to get into high vibrational frequency. And what's going to be the result for you? What's the positive of me helping you, Mark Singh? Here's the positive. You're going to make more money. You're going to get more chicks. You're going to feel way better about yourself. And you're going to be fucking happy, bro. But most importantly, beyond happiness and happiness is peace and peace is what you want. And it all starts here by controlling the thoughts inside your head, by not succumbing to the seductive message of fear.

17:17 And instead choosing love, compassion, kindness, being that tier one dude who's a high vibrating dude. And perhaps both of us, moving on, will have those peak moments like I did yesterday where I turned a woman's severe negativity. I mean, you should have seen this eye roll, bro. She's like, oh, my God, this fucking idiot. Into love and I made her feel good? Man, that's transmutation. That's some powerful shit. And you can do it, too. So if you have thoughts, I'm not enough, I'm not good, bro, you got to stop thinking that, man.

17:48 You got to start loving yourself. I'm sure you're great at loving other people. I'm sure you love your mom, your dad, your brothers, your friends. I know you're a good dude. You wouldn't be listening this far in unless you were. But here's my question for you. Do you love yourself? One of the biggest reasons we're here is to learn to love ourselves, yet so few of us do. Well, bro, if you don't love yourself, how's a girl going to love you? If you don't like yourself, how's a girl going to like you?

18:14 If you don't feel like you're enough, is she going to feel like you're enough? Of course she isn't because she's a mirror. So work on yourself. Pound those positive beliefs into your head. And if you need more potent help regarding that, it's exactly what we do in my program. I turn dudes into high-vibrating dudes. Just like my boy, Josh W., who graduated last night. He's like, the biggest thing I learned in this program is how to raise my vibration. And when you have a higher vibration, you can relax because you know you're going to attract chicks who, too, have a high vibration.

18:45 Girls who take care of themselves, who are super fucking banging, who are positive, good-feeling, feminine. That kind of girl who, when you're laying with her in bed, it just feels like heaven on earth, man. You're just in the cloud. You're in the G-spot. And this girl's just, like, scratching your chest with her nails and looking at you with her beautiful, angelic eyes. And then she hops onto you and makes love to you. The best, brother. But you have to vibrate at a higher level in order to get that girl.

19:11 So if you're not having that success, start with your vibration, which starts with your attitudes, your thoughts, your words, the things that you say and the things that you do. That which you focus on in an appreciative way, you'll start raising your vibration. You'll start getting hotter girls, more money. This is how to attract yourself the best of the best. You got to raise you, bro, in order to raise the circumstances that are derived from you because you are creating whether you like it or not.

19:43 And the universe, girls, source energy, it's all just a mirror. So tell that mirror what you are by first believing that you're a champion and, most importantly, loving yourself. Go to bed tonight, and before you do, look in the mirror and say, I love you, bro. I'm proud of you, man. You've been through hell, brother. You have been through fucking war, yet you never quit. You keep going, and that alone, gentlemen, deserves your love from you. Start loving yourself. Women are going to love you, too.

20:11 Guarantee it. Gentlemen, I do appreciate you listening. As a reminder, I drop podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays, so please stay tuned for the next one, and I will see you in the next episode. We'll see you in the next episode. We'll see you in the next episode. We'll see you in the next episode.

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