FRAME CONTROL: Women WILL Test You!!! 5 Ways to Pass Their Tests Every Single Time (A MUST LISTEN!)

0:00 Frame control is the single most important element of seducing a woman. If you don't understand frame control to the deepest possible level, then brother, you are leaving money on the table. Today, I'm going to get deep into frame control, teaching you five different ways that women are going to test you. We are going to review compliance tests, frame checks, reactivity tests, boundary tests, and qualification flipping. You clicked into the right episode today, boys. Let's jump into the content. The Unapologetic Man Podcast. I hate to break it to you, man, but you kind of look like my grandpa's couch.

0:39 You kind of look like a before and after picture for a product that didn't work. At the rate that you're going, man, you're going to be single when you're 80 years old and on the dating website, carbon dating. I don't want your girlfriend to look like a face transplant recipient from a sea donkey. That is why, gentlemen, I have a gigantic, exciting announcement. Liam, cue up the drum roll, please. On Saturday, October 10th at 2.30 p.m. Mountain Time, I am having a two-hour frame control masterclass. It's going to be you, me, and a few other men going over the most important element of seducing a woman frame control.

1:17 If you've ever wondered why women don't get attracted to you, if you've ever wondered why you don't get harder girls, if you don't get second dates, if things just always seem to go a little bit worse than you wish they did, then you, my friend, need this two-hour masterclass. The last time I did a frame control masterclass was in 2024. It sold out in three hours and 45 minutes from the time I dropped this episode. So here's what I suggest. Go ahead and listen to what I have to share with you today.

1:44 If you like what I have to share with you, you would be absolutely crazy to miss this masterclass. And guys, it's only $97 if you sign up today. It's going to be you, me, and a few other guys going through all the most important elements of frame control. This is going to be the deepest masterclass that I'm ever going to give you guys. And I'm going to tell you, this is the last time I'm ever going to do it. Again, this is selling out quickly. If I were you, I would actually click into it right now to check out what exactly it is I have on offer.

2:16 But I am going to blow a hole in your mind so big that even I could fuck it. Here are some of the things I'm going to go over in this frame control masterclass. Compliance, tonality, persuasion, frame checks, shit tests, frame control, reversals, agree and amplify, reframing. The real question is all about the other. Is that what you do method? Asking yourself questions, ignoring, misinterpretation, qualifying questions, requests, hoop theory, request reversals, compliance hoops, qualification, congruence, emotional composure, unapologetic authenticity, the drop rule, asking why questions, non-reactivity, social pressure exercises, rapport seeking tonality, authoritative tonality.

2:58 The two biggest understanding is about frame control. And so much more, gentlemen, I do not have time to explain it to you on this podcast. I am going to absolutely blow you away with this masterclass. And here's the thing. If you're not blown away, I will buy it back from you. You heard me right. There is absolutely zero risk. Come to the masterclass, learn what I have to teach you. And if you're not absolutely blown away by my content, just send me an email and I will refund your money.

3:27 There is zero risk. And if you can't show up to the masterclass, you're still going to get a recording of it as well as all the bonuses, a script of the masterclasses. So you literally have templates of what to do in every single situation with a girl because they will test you. They test you to see if you have a strong frame because having a strong frame is the single most important determinant of whether or not she gets attracted to you. Brother, here are some of the things that people said about this masterclass.

3:55 The best money I've ever spent from Daniel P. I now feel like I have a leg up on the competition from Chris W. I didn't know what I didn't know about attracting women. And this has been an absolute game changer from Andrew C. Guys, I'm telling you, you do not want to miss this event. If you're seriously so cheap that you will not invest $97 in yourself, I don't know what to tell you. Here's my goal for you. My goal is to turn you into the walking G spot.

4:23 My goal is to get you standing ovations in rival stadiums. My goal is to make you so confident that when you walk into a room, your dick has already been there for two minutes. I'm going to give you the ability to do more anal damage than Ron Jeremy and midget porn. With my help and this masterclass, you're about to hit mid-season form. You're about to show your quality and you're going to take it from the backyard to the bigs. And if you think just listening to podcasts and not actually investing in premium content is going to get you to your goal, then you truly are dumber than a suitcase full of buttholes.

4:57 All right, gentlemen, that's my pitch. My girlfriends always make fun of me. They're like, how is it possible that you have the biggest dating podcast on the internet with over 6 million downloads and all you do is insult your audience? And I'm like, because these champions have strong frames. They're not affected by the jokes that I make about how stupid they are, what idiots they are when they don't join my program or most importantly, when they don't come to the frame control masterclass. Guys, there's one link in the description below.

5:25 Click that right now. Check it out. Believe me, you do not want to miss this opportunity. Again, I'm going to blow a hole in your mind so big that even I could fuck it. Let's get into the content. All right. So here's my intention on this episode. I'm just going to be honest with you. I'm going to give you some really good content right now, but obviously I'm not going to give you everything because I'm leaving the best shit for my masterclass. However, as a guy who's trying to pitch a masterclass, I'm no idiot.

5:52 I'm going to give you gold today, but I just want to let you know that these are a few tiny little nuggets that I'm throwing at you from an entire vault that I'm about to open to those who are willing to invest in me and most importantly, willing to invest in themselves. So let's get into it with the first one, compliance tests. All right, guys. So when a woman first meets you, she needs to know that you have a strong frame. What is a frame? It's your interpretation of reality, your confidence in yourself, your basic belief in how you view things and how you interpret what she says.

6:28 Your belief needs to be stronger than hers is. Your interpretation of reality needs to sweep her under your wing and lead her to where she wants to be led. So when a woman meets you, and a lot of you guys have experienced this, she may feel like you're a little bit incongruent. And incongruence means you act like you're confident. You act like you have a strong frame, but there's just something kind of off about you. So she's going to test that. And they do this quite unconsciously.

6:55 I've talked to literally hundreds, maybe even thousands of women about this. I ask them, why do you do this? And they say they don't know. They don't know why they do it. They just get a feeling inside of them. They get a feeling that they kind of want to be a bitch to you. They kind of want to test you. They want to see the size of your balls. They don't know why they do this. But the reason they do this is because they're feeling some attraction for you.

7:19 So some of you guys may have been on dates and she felt some attraction for you. And then suddenly she kind of became bitchy. Maybe she challenged you. She started acting up a little bit. She said some mean things to you. And you're like, what the hell is this chick doing? You probably didn't understand it at that time. It's because inside of her, she just felt, I just have this feeling and I don't know what to do about it. So she just acts on it. She just says something bitchy to you.

7:44 And a lot of you guys answered incorrectly, right? Like you tried to explain yourself to her. You tried to prove yourself to her. You tried to be something that made her convinced that you were enough. But in so doing, you convinced her you weren't enough because it showed a weak frame. So compliance test is, are you going to comply to my requests? And I call this two requests in my coaching. When we do the masterclass on October 10th at 2.30 p.m. Mountain Time, get your tickets today.

8:15 When we do that masterclass, I'm going to go through a litany of these, of how to respond to them because women are going to do them. Such as when a woman asks you, hey, can you buy me a drink? Now, the reason I use this example is because a lot of us get this, right? We're in nightclubs or at a party or whatever it is. And a girl's like, will you buy me a drink? Well, if you don't do it, you're kind of a dick, right?

8:39 But if you do do it, we both know what that means. It means you bought into her compliance test. Compliance means, is he going to do what I ask him to do? Yes. I just bought her a drink. And while on the surface, it seems like, cool, she's going to talk to me now for 10, 15 minutes. I've bought her time. But that's exactly what it looks like. You bought her time because you don't feel like you're enough. So what do we do about these compliance tests? Well, I have a rule and I'm going to teach it in the masterclass and I'll give you a hint about it now.

9:10 Before you do anything for her, you have to make her do something for you. Now, in the case of buying a drink, here's a very simple technique that I want you guys to use from here on out. She asks you, can you buy me a drink? And you say, yeah, definitely. But I'll tell you what, let's do a little game. And if you win, I'll buy you the drink. If I win, you buy me the drink. Deal? And just assume it. Just be like, deal, deal.

9:35 And then like you guys shake hands. So here's what you do. You get a lemon from the bar and you grab two different seeds from it. You give her the smaller seed and you take the bigger seed. The bigger seed, because it's going to fly further and that's going to be the game. Who of us can go further with shooting lemon seeds out of our fingers? And whoever goes further is the one who wins. So she goes first, it flops to the ground. You fucking launch yours because it has more weight, more heft.

10:01 You win, bam, she buys you the drink. Now this goes into requests. She just requested you to buy her a drink, but we don't do women favors without setting up some kind of precedence, setting up our frame. Look what I just did. I set the frame of, no, no, no, no. We're not talking about me buying you a drink. This is the new frame. It's like a picture frame surrounding a picture. This is the new frame. We are now talking about this. I've set a new precedence.

10:29 I've set a new frame, haven't I? What we're doing now is we're playing a game. If you lose, which you will because you're an idiot and I know the secret to get the heavier seed, you're going to buy me a drink. Now what just happened? You control the frame. You didn't buy into what she requested. She bought you the drink, which creates cognitive dissonance. We value what we work for. Now she's there talking to you for 10, 15 minutes and you can run your game. This again goes into the concept of requests, which I'm going to talk about in the masterclass.

11:01 What do you do if she says, here, watch my purse as I go to the bathroom? What do you do if she says, hey, I'm drunk at the nightclub. Can you come pick me up? What do you do if she says, I don't really want to go to the restaurant that you picked. Can we go to this other restaurant? Do you guys know exactly what to do? In every single minute situation where this is going to happen, if you don't get your ticket below, but that's the premise, which is before you do a favor for her, you have her do a favor for you first, boom, one for one.

11:32 And we're going to go deep on that on the frame control masterclass. Number two, reactivity tests and any interaction between two people. There's always somebody reacting more. You want to be the one who's reacting less. You want her reacting more. But women are going to do very subtle things to test you, even as far as just her being hot. You go in to talk to a girl and because she's so hot, a lot of guys will make it seem like all their Christmases have happened on the same day, right?

12:02 They have an ear to ear smile. They have a fucking boner in their pants. They're going to go whack off in a puddle of their own tears because they're so pumped on this girl, yet she didn't react the way they wanted her to. And what happens is when a girl isn't reacting the way that you want her to, you start reacting. You start overthinking. You start overinvesting. You laugh at jokes that aren't funny. You start leaning in. You start showing that the interaction is way important to you and you hope it goes well.

12:32 You basically earn your ticket to getting a girlfriend who looks like a face transplant recipient from a canyon mule. And the reason we do this is because internally we don't feel like we're enough. We haven't had the frame control training. So what I'm going to teach in the masterclass is several things, but a few of them are these, okay? First of all, you have to understand that the way the interaction go does not fucking matter. In fact, when I see a really hot girl, I'm already telling myself, and this is just a way to kind of remap my own brain in the moment, it's not going to go well.

13:06 She probably has bad breath or she gives bad sick duck or like, why would I really want a girl that hot anyway? It's going to be a lot of work. Now I know some of you are like, why would I say bad things about the intention when Mark always says to like, keep it positive and have good intentions? Because I want you completely outcome independent. I don't care what happens. It's probably going to go bad anyway. She probably farts when she sleeps or she's got a seventies muff.

13:33 And when I take down her underwear, it's going to go and I'm going to get hit with a little rock that got stuck in there the last time she was camping. Whatever you need to do to convince yourself that this girl is not going to work out, that's fine. I'll even focus on certain things that aren't attractive about her. Anytime you meet a hot girl, there's something about her that isn't perfect, right? I focus on that. And when I focus on it, I don't become so reactive.

13:58 I don't become so outcome dependent. And I also know he or she who's reacting more is the one who's not controlling the frame. So if she's laughing more at my jokes, I'm winning. If she's leaning in more, I'm winning, quote unquote. If she's asking me more questions, being more invested, laughing harder or longer or whatever it is, that means that I'm quote unquote winning. But if I'm doing that, I'm losing. So we understand that she's going to put little tests at you. She's going to turn her body language away from you.

14:30 She's going to ask you challenging questions. Why are you talking to us? If you get affected by the whole, why are you talking to us? Which by the way, goes into my third concept called frame checks, which I'm going to get to in a second. If you react to that and like you get uncomfortable or your body language closes up, she's going to lose her traction for you. So she's going to do certain things, including an up to just being super hot that gets you affected.

14:55 The key is to slow down, not give a shit about what happens, control your body language, be as relaxed as possible. Don't rush. Take a few seconds before you say something. Be calm and composed, just like you are if you were talking to your employee. And that's another tip I always give and something I talk about in my masterclass. You have to have the right tonality. You have to have the right vibe when speaking to this women that what happens doesn't matter. And honestly, I feel like I'm kind of socially above you.

15:27 Now, I'm not saying that you're better than her as a human being or women are less than us. Don't misunderstand me. What I'm saying is I understand frame control. I have composure. I have a line of girls around the corner who want to date me. So I don't care what happens. I'm less reactive than you are. And honestly, I know more about this shit than you do. Therefore, I'm better at this than you are. And that's what I mean when I say you're better than she is at this game because you understand frame control.

15:55 You went to Mark Singh's frame control masterclass. She doesn't have a chance, brother. Even if she looks like a girl who you just whacked off to on Instagram or Pornhub with your frequent masturbator platinum card, she does not have a chance against you when you know all this stuff. So knowledge is power. And I'm going to give you every single thing you need to know in this masterclass. But one thing you need to know right now, and for you podcast jockeys who won't sign up, I don't know why you wouldn't, especially with the 100% money back guarantee.

16:24 But for those of you who won't sign up, remember this. You have to be less reactive than she is. You have to not care about what happens. You're just having a good time. Let the outcome be what the outcome will be. All right, guys. Number three, and this is my favorite topic when it comes to frame control, is what I call frame checks. We are going to do the deepest dive on frame checks. The reversals I have, the way we spin things, the way we reframe things on girls is absolute genius.

16:51 But I'm going to give you a few examples. So again, she's on the date with you. She's not totally feeling like you're congruent. She's going to say something bitchy to you. She's going to check your frame. A frame check I get all the time is, is this what you say to all the girls? Now, what would most guys do? Most guys would be like, no, I don't say this to all the girls. I'm just talking to you because you look fun. Thus, buying into her frame and explaining to her why you're doing what you're doing.

17:18 But a guy with a strong frame doesn't need to explain why he's doing what he's doing. He's unapologetic. And that's exactly why I named this podcast that. The unapologetic man. I am who I am. I'm doing what I'm doing. I don't need to explain myself to you. I don't need to jump through your hoop. So she says to you, is this what you say to all the girls? And I'm going to tell you exactly how to reply to that in number five called qualification flipping. So make sure you stay tuned for that one.

17:46 But in this example, we're going to go with the one, you're a player, aren't you? Okay. We are going to misinterpret what she says. This is frame control. She says something. You interpret it to mean something else, thus controlling the frame around that picture, right? The picture comes in, you see it differently. So you answer what you perceptually perceive to see, which is she asks you if you're a player. The low value guy says, no, I'm not a player. I just like to talk to people.

18:14 The high value guy reframes it, reinterprets it. And he says, yeah, I actually play a right midfield on my soccer team. I scored two goals last month. It was pretty awesome. See how I did that? She's like, you're a player. I took it. I reframed it. I misinterpreted what she said and I answered a different question. This is what I use when a girl says, why are you wearing that shirt? It's hideous. And I will oftentimes wear ugly shirts in order for girls to say that.

18:43 And I say, look, I know you're trying to take off my shirt right now, but relax. We just met. So her frame is your shirt is hideous. My frame is you want to take off my shirt. I'm misinterpreting what she's saying to remap it, reframe it into something that benefits me in the conversation. And we're going to go over these in depth in the frame control masterclass. And you're also going to get notes on these so that you can study them and be ready when women throw these at you, which they will.

19:12 The other reframes that we're going to go over in the masterclass are agree and amplify, reframing, ignoring, all about the other, asking her why questions, so powerful, and reframing her request into a qualifying question, which once again, I'm going to go over in number five. All right, boys. Number four is boundary tests. She shows up late to the date. She insults you. She talks shit about your friend. She tries to get you to go against some belief that you have. She tries to get you into her religion or try to turn you into someone you naturally aren't.

19:47 I gave this example like five years ago. But when I first got into this niche, I was dating this smoking hot Ukrainian girl and she started changing me. She's like, well, you wear these shoes? And I was like, yeah, I'll wear those shoes. Will you wear these pants? Yeah, I'll wear these pants. Will you wear these sweaters and change your hair? Before I knew it, I looked like a fucking boat guy. I was wearing like the penny loafers with the dockers and the sweater and my hair was all coiffed and I looked like a fucking boat guy from Nantucket.

20:13 And I looked in the mirror and I'm like, whoa, what happened here? Girls are going to systematically make little requests, push your boundaries and try to change you. So what would you do if a girl showed up, let's say, 15 minutes late to a date, right? She showed up 15 minutes late and she's like, oh, God, my boss kept me after work. What would you say to that? Now, if you get angry about it, and this is another concept in frame control, never be angry, always be on your inner balance point, it's going to blow up in your face, right?

20:42 But we still want to show her that we're not to be fucked with. We have boundaries. So the way to do it is to explain to her very calmly, hey, listen, I know you were late, your boss held you after, but just for future reference, at least text me, let me know. Being on time is really important to me. I'm really attracted to people who are on time and do what they say they do. So just let me know next time, okay? And you see the way I did that, it was almost like a boss kind of correcting his employee.

21:08 Like, hey, no big deal. I'm not mad about it. I'm not butthurt, but just let me know next time. All right, what if she insults you and disguises it as a joke? She's like, oh my God, you're so stupid. Oh, I'm just kidding. What would you say to that? What you'd say is, hey, listen, you don't get to make that joke. Go ahead and try again. Now, look what I just did. It was kind of like a father correcting his kid, right? Like, hey, you don't get to make that joke.

21:34 Go ahead and try that again. I'll give you another try. It's my reality is the strongest. You just insulted me, but I'm not butthurt about it, right? I'm always on the inner balance point. I'm always calm and composed, but you just insulted me, so go ahead and try that again. Let's give that another shot. Go ahead. I trust you can do it, and it's that kind of vibe. So anytime a girl goes outside your boundaries, and we're going to talk a lot about these in the master class, you have to correct it in a very calm, composed, non-emotional way, and there's one nuclear-powered secret that's just too good to reveal on the podcast.

22:10 I will reveal it in the master class, but here are some examples of things women are going to do. She repeatedly interrupts you. What would you do there? She starts flirting heavily with another guy in front of you. What would you do to that? That one just annoys me, but you can't be annoyed. You got to stay completely composed, and I'm going to teach you what to do. She expects you to tolerate behavior from her that you wouldn't tolerate from anybody else, and finally, she cancels plans repeatedly and then expects you to be available when she wants you to be available.

22:40 What are you going to do about that? This is frame control 101. You have to control these situations. You have to react to them perfectly. Otherwise, they will lose attraction for you and blow you out. Next thing you know, you're sitting there wondering what the heck happened. This is why, boys. They will test you. They will poke at you. They will try to annoy you and try to get you to react just to test your frame, and again, they do this unconsciously so we can't get mad at them.

23:08 The secret instead is to understand what they're doing and be better at it than they are, and that's exactly what we're going to learn. All right, and finally, boys, number five, qualification flipping. She says to you, is this what you say to all the girls? Here's what you do. You say, only the ones that seem interesting. You're not boring, are you? Then she says, no, I'm fun, and you say, oh, really? Why are you fun? What do you do? So you see what I just did.

23:33 She challenged me with a frame. I flipped it on her and made it about her, and this goes into another concept. We have so much to drop. It's going to be insane, called all about the other. It's about you. It's not about me. This is your issue. This is the frame I'm setting on you. You ask me, is this what I say to all the girls? I'm asking you, why are you awesome? Why do you like to have fun? Let's get some other examples. Why should I give you my number, she says.

24:02 You guys are definitely going to get that one. You say, first tell me, are you actually fun over text, or am I going to regret asking in the first place? You see what I did? She's like, why are you asking for my number? She wants you to explain yourself to her. But you're like, well, I'm kind of wondering that too. Are you going to be fun, or are you going to bore me to tears? Are you going to text me at 2 a.m. and make my cell phone overheat because of the repeated texting and make my cell phone catch on fire?

24:25 Because if you're that kind of girl, maybe we shouldn't exchange numbers. You see how it is? She's asking, why should I give you? You're saying, why should I give you? It's always all about the other, and that's frame control 101. Next one, she says, I bet you have a lot of girls. And then you say, the harder part is finding one who can actually keep my attention. What makes you interesting? So she's like, you're a player. You're getting all kinds of girls. And you'd be like, yeah, but it's kind of hard to get one to keep my attention.

24:53 So what's interesting about you? You see, what you're doing is she's throwing a frame at you. You're grabbing it, reframing it, now making her sell herself to you, which creates cognitive dissonance and makes her like you more in the process. This, again, is called qualification flipping. So important. Let's give one more example. I don't know if you're my type. You'd be like, yeah, I'm still figuring out if you're my type too. Besides being cute, what do you have going for you? So she's asking, I don't know if you're my type.

25:21 And you say, yeah, I don't know if you're my type either. What else is good about you beyond your looks? Qualifying questions when they jump through your hoops makes them like you more because of it. Gentlemen, on October 10th at 2.30 p.m. Mountain Time, we're doing that masterclass. There's one link in the description below. Few things I want to mention. First of all, it's going to sell out. I'm capping it because I want it to be me, you, and a few other men. So if it's sold out, sorry, I'm not letting anybody else in.

25:48 And the last time I did this, I think we sold out in like three hours and 14 minutes. So if you go to that website right now, I can guarantee you there are probably spots sold out. But if you get your ticket, get ready for a life-changing experience. My job is to absolutely blow you away to make you understand that I'm a fantastic coach. The past Frame Control Masterclass I did, I got glowing review after glowing review, email after email thanking me for teaching guys something they never knew even existed and teaching them every single possible contingency so that women do this shit, which they will.

26:24 You know how to react correctly. And now you get better results. You get hotter girls. You get second dates. You get to fix those things that I can almost guarantee you. You don't know what you're doing and that are compromising your results. Come to this masterclass. Let's you and I work together and let me show you the magic of my premium content. I gave you a few pieces of gold today, but the vault, brother, is below. Get your ticket right now and I will see you inside.

26:50 Let's go over that one more time just so it can be fresh in your head so that the next time you deal with a woman, maybe you can better identify it and react to it correctly. So the first one is compliance test. Buy me a drink. Get that napkin for me. Do me some kind of favor. The second one is reactivity test. Are you reacting to her maybe not being as interested, to her being really hot and how do you deal with that? The next one is my favorite thing, frame checks.

27:16 How to reply to things that girls say to you that are meant to be mean and meant to hurt your feelings. How do you reframe that and pass her test every single time? The next one is boundary test. She's going to do some shit that goes past your boundary. How do you deal with it in a calm way? Keeping her attraction and also changing her behavior at the same time. And finally, qualification flipping. She challenges you. You flip it and make her sell herself to you, thus making her more attracted to you.

27:46 Gangster level shit. That's just the taste, boys, of what I'm going to drop on October 10th. So don't procrastinate. Don't foot drag. A wise mentor once told me, until you are making $250,000 or more per year, every single dollar you get, you should invest into yourself. And I promise you, gentlemen, this is going to be a worthwhile investment. And if it's not, I will buy the program back from you. There's absolutely no risk. So why wouldn't you try it? Get your ticket right now, and I will see you on October 10th.

28:16 And in the meantime, boys, I'm going to drop another awesome podcast about texting. And this is going to be about some of the games that women play over texting. So make sure to stay tuned next Tuesday, and I will see you in the next episode. And I will see you in the next episode.

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