Dominate Your Wuss Voice: The Masculine Tonality That Instantly Commands Respect (5 Steps to Success)

0:00 Authority is communicated by the way your tonality goes at the end of your sentence. If your voice goes up at the end, such as, I'm Mark Singh, nice to meet you, as opposed to down at the end, my name is Mark Singh, nice to meet you, then it shows that you have low value. Today, I'm going to give more concrete strategies to change your voice to make it more attractive to women because again, if your voice goes up at the end, if your voice is high the way mine naturally is, and I'm going to talk about that too, if your voice shows supplication and low value and or she can't hear you and she says, what did you say?

0:38 You are losing attraction almost immediately. The Unapologetic Man Podcast. I got a question for you. What is the single most important element of attracting a woman? That's right. You're a smart motherfucker. It's frame control. And one of the most important elements of frame control is tonality. So today we are going to discuss how to dominate your wuss voice, wuss voice, part wimp, part pussy. And I'm going to do that today by giving you five concrete things that you can do literally immediately after you listen to this episode to begin getting a voice that's more attractive to women.

1:15 Because check this out, brother. I would say probably 60 to 70% of the reason that you're maybe not getting the results with women that you really want is translated through your voice. That is to say, a woman will not get attracted to you unless you have the correct voice. And if you're not doing the steps that I'm going to outline for you today, the chances of you getting better success with women goes down exponentially. What is up, gentlemen? My name is Mark Singh and I'm your vibe captain today.

1:43 I'm going to deliver the goods because this is what I do for my clients and this is why I have a 95% success rate. So I'm going to give you a taste of what I teach my boys in my three-month coaching program. Without further ado, let's get into it. Step one, your voice must go down at the end. All right. So what does this mean? Your voice must go down at the end. And if you've listened to any of my episodes, you've heard me say this, but let me reiterate because I guarantee you I have a few things for you, even if you've listened to all my episodes that you haven't heard before.

2:13 So stay tuned with me, especially till the end, because step five is the most important step. You guys know I like to hold the best shit for last. But what does it mean your voice must go down at the end? What it means is authority is communicated by the way your tonality goes at the end of your sentence. If your voice goes up at the end, such as I'm Mark Singh, nice to meet you, as opposed to down at the end, my name is Mark Singh, nice to meet you.

2:40 Then it shows that you have low value. So when it goes up at the end, it's basically like the girls above you, you're down here, and your voice is going up to meet her. Whereas the way it should be is you're up here because you're the champion. She's down here, at least socially. So your voice goes down to meet her. And I talked about this in my episode, why you should talk to women like they're a peasant. If you want more practice on this, you should explore that.

3:07 Today, I'm going to give more concrete strategies to change your voice, to make it more attractive to women. Because again, if your voice goes up at the end, if your voice is high the way mine naturally is, and I'm going to talk about that too, if your voice shows supplication and low value and or she can't hear you and she says, what did you say? You are losing attraction almost immediately. Guys, attraction with a woman is like a dimmer switch. It goes up and down in real time.

3:34 And if, for example, you approach a girl and you're like, hey, what's your name? It immediately goes down. Even if she thought you were quote unquote hot, right? Like you had a good look, you're built, all these things that a lot of guys focus on that ultimately don't really matter. If your voice isn't congruent with a high value lifestyle, a high belief in yourself, confidence, self-assuredness, and yes, boys, authority, she will not get attracted to you. She simply will not be able to get attracted to you.

4:02 Why? Because as I said in the beginning of the episode, frame control is the single most important element to getting a woman attracted to you. And tonality communicates your frame control. You need to literally be above her in the social pecking order. Now, I know a lot of people are going to get butthurt. I know a lot of people are going to hyperextend their vaginas when I say this, but it's simply true. You need to lead the woman to where she wants to be led. And don't get it twisted, boys.

4:28 It doesn't mean I think women are less than us. Women have so much value and, in fact, are better than we are at certain things. But when it comes to who's the leader in a male-female dynamic, the man needs to be the leader, which means he is socially in control, which means he has the social power. So do you think a cop is going to come up to you and be like, could I have your license and registration, please? Yeah, maybe a cop that's going to get murked on his fifth day on the job because it's not communicating authority.

4:56 Whereas a cop who does communicate authority says, license and registration, please, goes down at the end. So we understand that a girl cannot become attracted to you unless you're controlling the frame. And we understand that your voice has to go down to meet her to communicate that. Now, a lot of you guys are like, all right, dude, I'm a fucking podcast jockey. I've listened to 200 of Mark's episodes. He always says this. I got it. But do you really get it? If I were standing next to you and you went to talk to a hot girl who you were a little intimidated by, would you be able to control your voice and have it go down at the end?

5:29 This is why it takes repetition, practice, and step number five that you need to stay tuned for. Because if you don't have that, your voice naturally will not go down at the end. It will go up. If you believe that she's above you, your voice is going up. It's just that simple, boys. If you believe she's harder than you, she's out of your league, she'd be better with a different guy, oh, I don't know if she's going to like me. You are going to blow yourself out.

5:53 Then you're going to go home and get so drunk, you're going to try to sneak up on the mirror. And because you keep trying to sneak up on the mirror and you keep catching yourself, you're going to do it for two straight hours. Then, of course, masturbate in the puddle of your own tears as you hit your head against the wall that you bought that helmet off Amazon for because it always happens to you. So keep that in mind, boys. Your belief about your value is dictating your tonality.

6:17 Your tonality is dictating how much women get attracted to you. I'll add to that that your belief systems are also dictating your behavior, how you move, how your eyes move, how your lips move. It's so subtle, you can't control it. But it has to be from a place of I am socially worse more than her. She's not in my league. And if she says, oh, I'm out of your league, you'll be like, don't worry. You'll get there one day. Just keep trying, young lady, and you'll get up to my level one day.

6:46 That's the way you need to think, boys. You need to think that you're the fucking prize. And when you think that, your voice is naturally going to go down. Now, I said in the title, how to have a masculine, sexy voice or whatever the title was. My voice is so bad that it took me years and years and years to change it. But even at this time, it's still not a voice that I like get emails about saying, oh, Mark, I love listening to your voice.

7:10 I have over 6.5 million downloads on this podcast. And only once, boys, has somebody wrote in and said, hey, I really like your voice. It's super soothing. If you really listen to it, it's kind of naturally high. But because I've been in set so many times, because I've been with beautiful women, because I believe in myself wholeheartedly, it has the right pitch to it or the right tone. It just has that vibe of authority where it does go down at the end, where it is high value, where you could just tell, okay, this guy believes in himself.

7:42 This is why I get so many clients, because real recognizes real. Guys listen to me and they're like, all right, this guy really knows what he's talking about. I'm going to sign up with him. It's the same thing with girls. Girls recognize real. So can you fake it until you make it? Not really. It takes reps. It takes changing who you are. It takes literally believing that you are the prize. She's the one submitting the application. And if she ain't good enough, then kick rocks with your head down, protein shake.

8:10 You don't make the cut. Step two, the loudest voice is usually the leader. Now, when I say this, I want you to really think about guys that you know who are good with women. Somehow, you can hear their voice from across the room. Somehow, their voice always dominates and takes over everybody else's voice. Even if you and him start talking at the same time, his frame is stronger than yours is. His voice is stronger than yours is. So he's going to dominate that conversation. Somehow, their voices just carry.

8:43 Somehow, they're always the leader in all situations. The reason that is, is twofold. First of all, they're not afraid of being heard. Some of you guys are a little afraid of being heard. This is why you lack what I call projection. Projecting your voice unapologetically. I don't give a fuck who hears me. How many times have you opened a girl and been afraid of other people hearing you and like, oh, I don't want them to see me do this. You got to be like, yo, I don't give a fuck what they think.

9:08 Open her the way you do and have a strong masculine voice. Guys, if she says what, like what'd you say in any part of the conversation, you just pissed attraction down the river. You have to have a voice that carries, a voice that's strong. And I'm going to give you a tip. I bought this thing called the Piper, or in some instances, it's called the Breather. And it's basically a diaphragm strengthening machine. And what I did this for is I do triathlons and it's for swimming.

9:37 Because sometimes, as I'm sure you guys have experienced, you're swimming and like you can't catch your breath, right? Or you're biking or running, you can't catch your breath. So I've been doing this Piper thing and it's really helped not only my swimming and my biking and my running, but also talking to girls. I'm like, holy fuck, dude, it strengthens your diaphragm. So you can project from down here, down deep in your stomach, down at the bottom of your lungs, all the way up through your throat and through your mouth to project so she can hear you.

10:06 Especially when you're in loud nightclubs or you're at parties, or even in a coffee shop or restaurant when you're on a date with her. If you have a meek voice, if you're afraid of being heard, and if you can't project powerfully, she will not be able to get attracted to you. Voice is so important because, as I keep saying, unconsciously, your belief systems, the way you think about yourself and how you carry yourself, your experience, and the amount of times that you've been with hot women are literally translated in your voice.

10:36 Women are little radar systems. It's like you're speaking and they're like a fucking World War II decoder on Midway Island being like, beep, beep, beep, beep. Oh, I'm seeing that this guy doesn't believe he's enough. And a lot of you are like, dude, why can't I pull hotter girls? It's because how I look. I don't have enough money. It's none of that, boys. It's that vibe that you portray when you either believe in yourself or you don't. And when you speak to women, it's translated in your tonality.

11:03 So step two is the loudest voice is usually the most masculine and the alpha male. He's used to being listened to. He's used to talking in loud rooms. He's used to talking at board meetings. Or he's the CEO and he's the dude who needs to talk to the guy at the end of the table who does fucking accounting and be like, hey, Adam, did you get that? He projects and he's not afraid to be listened to. He's on the phone all the time. He's closing deals.

11:27 He's a fucking champion. So the next time you're talking to somebody, really analyze. What is my voice portrayed like? How am I coming off? You truckers out there. I got a lot of truckers. What's up, gentlemen? Love you, boys. You're out at like Subway sandwiches or you stop at a shop. How are you talking to the girl on the other side who's making your sandwich? Are you like, I'll take the roast beef on the honey baked fucking double turnover bread that's basically synthetic and really fucking bad for me.

11:57 And it's the reason I'm farting all the time while I'm driving my truck. But I don't know why I'm farting all the time. But really, boys, you should only be farting a couple of times a day because if you're farting all the time, it means your diet is unhealthy. You're intimidated by this girl. You should talk to her like she fucking works for you, bro. You're the owner of Subway and be like, yeah, go ahead and grab me. Let's go ahead and get the roast beef sandwich.

12:18 And what's that bread right there? What's that shit called? Oh, yeah. Can you toast it for me? Whatever. You order it with authority because you know that you're enough and don't be afraid to be heard in the room. Now, quick caveat to this. We've all seen the high school football hero with an SAT score less than zero who can drink his weight in bureau, who's going to score a touchdown and who's going to score that night, who's the most obnoxious, annoying motherfucker you've ever met. And he's always the loudest guy in the room.

12:47 But he's obnoxious. He's annoying. You don't have to be that guy. You just need to project. And once again, boys, you could buy the Piper or it's also called the Breather on Amazon. It's probably less than 20 bucks. Use that shit. I use mine twice a day and holy crap, dude, a side benefit to me training for triathlons and for swimming is that, man, my voice can project something that I've always been practicing being out at nightclubs and in the bars. Wish I had that shit 10 years ago.

13:15 Step three, stretch your vocal cords. Boys, stretching your vocal cords will drop your voice a couple octaves and make your voice more powerful and make it so that women can get attracted to you. And it's very simple. You simply yawn with your mouth closed and where your Adam's apple is, is kind of where your voice box is, where your, what I believe is called larynx is, and you want to stretch it. You want to like open it like you're yawning with your mouth closed. If you do that several times a day and more specifically before you go out at night or perhaps before you go on a date or you get on a call with a girl or whatever it is, your voice will naturally want to go down at the end and will communicate higher value.

13:56 Step four, practice telling stories. Now, obviously guys, you've heard me many times talk about how telling stories to a girl on a date or in the first conversation is really effective to get her attracted to you. But here's the thing I noticed with a lot of my clients. Their stories are not only more boring than watching paint dry. Not only do they move slower than pond water, but they're fucking monotone. They don't crescendo and decrescendo, which is crescendo going up, decrescendo going down. They don't have rhythm to their stories.

14:29 Look, I don't pretend to be a great public speaker, but what I've noticed from this podcast is I get a lot of fans because I feel like I have rhythm. I feel like my voice hits harder when I'm making a point. I feel like it goes along like a drum beat where I'm like, da-da, da-da, ra-ra, ba-ba-ba-ba-ba. Right? It like has different sections to it. As opposed to talking like this, you have to talk down to the girl when you're talking to her because then she's going to get attracted to you because she's going to see that your voice has authority.

14:58 I mean, even trying to imitate somebody who's monotone, I couldn't help but enunciate a little bit, crescendo, decrescendo a little bit, have rhythm the way you're supposed to. Look at the way I said that word, rhythm. I didn't just say have rhythm. I said your voice needs to have rhythm. It goes up. It goes down. It's engaging. You're keeping their attention because when you're talking to girls, especially in a night club, they can lose attention very quickly. So you need to be engaging. You need to have rhythm.

15:27 Your voice needs to project and it has to go down at the end. The most important thing, which ties directly into frame control. And if you listen back to this episode or any of my other episodes, you can see how I do this. But here's the most important thing. I wasn't always good at this. I didn't always do it perfectly. Even 300 episodes ago, I was still struggling to really get it. And frankly, I feel like I still have a lot of room to grow at 755 episodes or whatever this is.

15:56 So it takes practice. How do you practice? First of all, start your own podcast, bro. Even if you don't post it, I didn't post my first 20 episodes. I just did it for myself. Talk about whatever you want to, man. Ping pong, surfing, baseball, the fucking patch of hair on your ball sack. It doesn't matter. Just practice. And you can also practice in your car. Telling your stories, practicing your tone, trying to project, speaking from the chest, going down at the end, at the end of your sentences.

16:25 You can literally be driving your car and practicing. Once again, some of you guys are like, yeah, I'd rather not do that. I'm just going to be a podcast jockey and hope that one day it's all going to work out for me. Guys, in order to get better with women, you have to put the work in. There's no other way around it. And you can make it into a game. What me and my friends do sometimes is, hey, man, I'm going to point at something and you have to talk about it.

16:48 All right. We're driving along. Okay. Electric scooter. Go. Oh my God, dude. My buddy. He was on an electric scooter and he hit the back of a car and he was in the hospital for three weeks and he doesn't remember any of it. Apparently the entire right side of his head caved in. It's a miracle that he's even living today. Fucking scooters, dude. I wouldn't touch him with a 10 foot pole. In fact, boys, I just saw my surgeon who gave me a clean bill of health after my hip injury six months ago.

17:15 I don't have any necrosis of the femur because I don't know if some of you know, but I broke my femur. They call it the hip, but really it's the femur. I broke the head of the femur off on a one wheel, an electric skateboard, which I fucking sold. I'm like, get rid of that thing. Death trap. I just found out I don't have necrosis and I can go on our boys weekend this coming Friday where we're going to go fly fishing one of the 14,000 foot lakes in Colorado.

17:39 I'm so fucking stoked, but that's the way to tell a story to be interesting. And you could just talk about things when your friend says, all right, talk about fly fish and go, oh dude, I broke my femur and this and this and this. And you get to practice projecting. You get to practice your tonality. You get to practice that crescendo and decrescendo. You have to be engaging because girls will lose attention faster than like a distracted cat on meth. They just like start looking around.

18:07 You got to tap them sometimes and be like, come on, look at me, pay attention. Look at me. Hey, hey, I'm talking to you. Sarah, don't you agree with that? You got to be engaging or they're going to lose attention very quickly. And my last point for this step four is take public speaking classes. Boys, Toastmasters will do more for your game than listening to 100 of my podcast episodes. Well, maybe not. I keep saying that, right? Like the other episode I did that. I'm like, it will do more for you than listening to all my episodes.

18:34 And I'm like, yeah, it's not really true. But Toastmasters will do a lot for you. Check that out. Get good at public speaking. It'll teach you everything you need to know about fixing your wuss voice and getting more girls attracted to you. Step number five, change your belief systems. Boys, you know I'm an NLP coach. I'm not going to drum on it in this episode, but I'm telling you, if you have a belief system that you're not enough, hot girls are too good for you, too fat, short, ugly, bald, look like a chicken McNugget with tits or a turnip standing vertically with a penis on the thing, then girls are going to sense that through your tonality and they are not going to get attracted to you.

19:13 So what's the fix? NLP, motherfucker. And this is why we have a 95% success rate is because we remap the belief systems. The belief systems translate into how you behave, into how you talk, into how you converse with these chicks. And that translates into attraction. Think that you're enough. She will think you're enough, too, because it's communicated through your belief systems and mannerisms. Think that you're not enough. Think that there's like something wrong with you. Maybe you don't make enough money or you're going bald and like you're a little bit insecure about it.

19:46 She is going to fucking pick up on it. Girls are like sharks in the water and there's a little bit of blood that drips in the water. They're immediately on it. And you guys know you've all seen it. So why wouldn't you fix yourself? I just don't get it. Why some guys refuse to work on themselves. I guess it's laziness. I guess it's a belief that they can't do it, which to me is utter and complete bullshit. Why would you get to the end of your life and not have like tried to get the best life possible?

20:11 I just don't get that. I just don't think that way. And I'll tell you, boys, I was the most hopeless case ever. Hating myself, was suicidal, had the worst belief systems, agoraphobia, panic attacks. And I was able to get to what I consider to be a very high level. If I can do it, you can do it, too. And I have the key. I have the secret. I have the magic formula to do it for you, just like I do with all my clients, a 95% success rate.

20:37 Why you haven't applied yet is beyond me. All you have to do is click the link in the description below. I will remap your brain so that you behave the way you need to behave to get women attracted to you. It may be the one change you need. What if it's the one thing you need and some of you aren't going to do it and you'll be on your deathbed and be like, remember that guy, Mark Singh? Well, I should have taken his course. Yeah, you should have, boys, because I'll tell you one last thing.

21:02 I'm not going to be around forever. Little hint there. Little hint there. So anyway, gentlemen, I hope you've enjoyed this. I'm going to go over it real quick again. Step one, your voice must go down at the end. Step two, the loudest voice is usually the leader. Not obnoxious, just commanding. Step three, stretch your vocal cords. Step four, practice telling stories. Take public speaking courses. And remember the crescendo, decrescendo. Have rhythm to how you talk. And step five, change your belief systems. All right, gentlemen, I super appreciate you listening.

21:34 Please stay tuned for the next podcast to drop on Tuesday, and I will see you in the next episode. What is up, brother? Just wanted to thank you sincerely for watching this episode. If you've gotten any value whatsoever out of my content, the single best way to help me is to like, comment, subscribe, leave me a review. You have no idea how much that helps me. Also, if you're struggling with women and you want to talk to me personally about how I can help you achieve your goals with women, sign up for my three-month coaching program below, and you and I will talk.

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