10 Genius Strategies to Manage all The Girls You'll Soon Be Dating

0:00 And this has been a theme lately over the last few weeks where I've gotten at least five different emails from five different clients saying, yo, this is really getting out of hand. I've got too many chicks on the fucking roster. What do I do? How do I manage these chicks? It's like scarcity, scarcity, scarcity. You're not getting much or you're not really getting the girls that you really want. And then suddenly it becomes an absolute avalanche. This is why 20% of the guys get 80% of the women.

0:25 Once you become that 20%, everything changes for you. And you need a system to manage these girls. So again, you're not wasting your time so that you're not making them angry because you're confusing one girl with the other girl. I'm going to tell you exactly how to avoid that and how to develop the skillset where you can actually meet the girls that you really want. Choose from abundance, not scarcity. The Unapologetic Man Podcast. What is up, you champions? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP.

0:51 I super appreciate you joining me. And today, guys, we are going to talk about how to manage all the girls that you're soon going to be dating. I'm going to give you 10 awesome strategies for how to manage these chicks, how to make it so that they're not wasting your time, so that you're not spending all your time dating girls like I did when I lived in Arizona for two straight years. All I did was date girls and I learned all these secrets, which I am imparting to you so that you can save time, you can cull the herd, you can get rid of the sea donkeys and the mountain trolls and just focus on the girls who you really want.

1:28 Because when you get good at this, boys, I'm telling you, it's like scarcity, scarcity, scarcity. You're not getting much or you're not really getting the girls that you really want. And then suddenly it becomes an absolute avalanche. This is why 20% of the guys get 80% of the women. Once you become that 20%, everything changes for you and you need a system to manage these girls. So again, you're not wasting your time, so that you're not making them angry because you're confusing one girl with the other girl. I'm going to tell you exactly how to avoid that and how to develop the skill set where you can actually meet the girls that you really want.

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3:28 So a lot of guys in my program, once they get into like week seven, week eight of my three months coaching program, they write me and they're like, dude, how do I manage all these girls? And this has been the theme lately over the last few weeks where I've gotten at least five different emails from five different clients saying, yo, this is really getting out of hand. I've got too many chicks on the fucking roster. What do I do? How do I manage these chicks? And particularly a question I get all the time is Mark, I was on a second date with this chick.

3:58 I ran the same gambit that I ran on her on the first date. And she got mad at me saying, how many fucking girls are you talking to? And obviously when a girl says that to you, you use the frame control reversal of agree and amplify, which is, oh, I'm dating like 200 girls. I hit on every single girl that I see. Actually, I hit on my grandma last night. It was a little uncomfortable, which is what you do. Obviously when girls accuse you of being a girl magnet, cause that's what you are, you have to agree and amplify, but we don't want to get in those situations where you accidentally like tell the same girl, the same story you did just like three days ago on your first date with her, because then it's obvious that you're dating a lot of girls.

4:40 And one thing about women is they want to know that you can get a lot of girls, but they don't want you to act on it. That's the way women want it. They want to know that you could get any girl anytime. And of course you guys listening to the uniform, my papa obviously can get any girl anytime. And if you haven't yet, you know where to reach me, man. My three months coaching program can give you that power, but they want to know you could do that, but they don't want you to do it.

5:06 It's like, he has this superpower, but he just saves it for me. That's the female thinking. So you have to be very careful to not show these girls that you are actually dating tons of different chicks. Now, again, it can be good that you can date girls and girls want to date you. And yeah, it can kind of be good that girls are probably assuming that you're talking to other girls, but the second you get labeled as a player, as a fuck boy, as a guy who is banging lots of girls, that's where it gets problematic.

5:38 And boys, I blew out my entire reputation in Arizona because I did this. So I can speak from experience. Trust me as your uncle Mark saying, I am telling you, if you get caught boning tons of different girls or even dating lots of different girls, believe me, it's not good. Once again, you want to show that you have women in your life. You want to show that you can get girls, but it has to be communicated that you're very picky. You keep everybody at arm's length and you're not just a fuck boy.

6:06 So this is why we have to manage it. This is why we have to deal with it. And this is why when guys are in my three month coaching program, they get to the inevitable problem of the solution they just made to their previous problem, which is I fixed my problem with girls. I can get any girl anytime, anywhere. And guys, this literally happens with my boys because of my neuro-linguistic programming. I remap their brains. They behave differently. They get tons of chicks. Now they have a new problem.

6:33 Too many girls are on my tip. Too many girls are getting peanut butter and jealous. Stalker Texas Rangers fucking following me, following up with me, calling me when I'm with other chicks, going through my fucking cell phone, putting their application into that TV show snapped where girls get so obsessed with me. I'm going to wake up and there's going to be a group of three of them smiling over me as they hold fucking kitchen knives. Guys, girls will go absolutely apeshit. They will stalk you. A lot of you guys have seen this.

7:06 So you have to be super fucking careful about your reputation. All right. So the first thing we do is we understand that before you put your penis in a girl, you have to make sure that she's not going to go stalk her Texas Ranger. I will not have sex with the girl if I see any evidence of psychopathic behavior of her talking shit about her friends or her family members or anything where I know that she might be able to talk to a different girl who had sex with, a girl that's perhaps in her friend group.

7:36 How many of you guys have done this where you banged one girl and you're like, damn, her friend is pretty hot. Kind of want to bang her too. So you ran your excellent game on her. You use your confidence that you got from your NLP and Mark Sink's three month coaching program and you banged her too. And for some reason it blew up in your face, both girls showed up teaming up, standing over you with fucking kitchen knives about to carve your balls off. Like your guy, who was he?

7:57 Like Bonnet, John Bonnet or some shit. The girl cut off his dick and then chucked it out the window. And then didn't they like find the dick in the bushes and then sew it back on? It reminds me of that song, Detachable Penis, where you have a detachable penis, but you lost it. And then you found it on a blanket at a flea market next to a broken toaster oven. The guy wanted 10 bucks, but you talked him down to eight and now you have your dick back.

8:22 I'm telling you boys, girls will go fucking crazy. How many of you guys have been in the situation where a girl told you she was pregnant or tried to get pregnant just to keep you in the mix? Yeah, boys, you have to be careful. So you're dating lots of girls. You might email me like all my clients do. And they're like, bro, I'm talking to 20 girls right now. How the fuck do I call the herd? And I'm like, just call the herd. Get rid of the sea donkeys, the tweaker bells and the trailer swifts.

8:48 Focus on the ones that you want and run the spreadsheet. Here's the spreadsheet idea. The spreadsheet idea is very simple. You get a Google spreadsheet and along the top of the spreadsheet, you have all the gambits that you run and all the stories that you run. Strawberry fields, the cube messages in water, et cetera. Those are the ones I've given away on the podcast. Of course, I have a million more of my three months coaching program. And then you also have stories. Each of you guys should have at least 10, preferably about 20 to 25 different stories of cool shit that you've done throughout your life that shows your high value.

9:21 If you don't know how to tell stories, look it up on my podcast. I've done a few about it, but obviously I teach it in depth in my coaching program. But essentially you want to have like little labels for each story that you told. For example, when I lived in Japan, I tried to use the pit toilets that were in the elementary school that I was teaching in. A pit toilet is basically a toilet that's embedded into the floor. Well, I'm a tall, hopeless, very inflexible American.

9:47 So I couldn't squat over those things to take a shit. So I held my shit that day and I asked very casually the vice principal, which are called Kyoto sensei. I said, Kyoto sensei, do you guys have any like Western style toilets? And he said, no, only pit toilet. I sorry. And I'm like, oh, it's okay. It's okay. So the next day homeboy shows up with the fucking plastic toilet that you can put over the pit toilet. So hopeless Americans like myself can actually take a shit on the pit toilets that are in Japan.

10:17 Well, he gave this to me in front of all the other teachers in the morning meeting. He's like, everybody, I have an announcement. I bought Mark, the hopeless American, a plastic toilet. And he gave it to me in front of everybody. I didn't really know what to do. So I held it up proudly with the big smile on my face. And they all shook their heads in nodding approval as they smiled and clapped like parents at a graduation. So that's a story I tell cracks girls up.

10:45 And I call it the Japanese toilet story. Well, that's one of the columns that I have on my spreadsheet. And then in the vertical column on the left, you also have all the names of the girls that you're talking to. Right. And you have notes about them because some of these chicks have the same name. Like how many fucking Jessica's can you meet? How many Amy's are there in society? I'll tell you there's a lot. So you have to say like Amy brown hair, likes hockey, met her at the elbow room.

11:11 Okay. There's the chick. Then what you do is you simply use X's. Okay. I told her this story on the first date. I told her this story on the second date. And you have to do an after action report. When you hang out with these chicks, you have to mark what stories you've told because guys, here's another strategy. You have to rinse and repeat the exact same date, the exact same stories, the exact same gambits and techniques on girl after girl after girl. This is why two episodes ago, I talked about how you should date mountain trolls, unfrozen cave women, trailer swifts and tweaker bells to practice your game and run that shit time and time again.

11:52 As you're running it, you're going to get better at it. You're going to see the subtleties of the reaction. You're going to know that you get some good replies on this kind of thing. You get some bad replies on this kind of strategy and you're going to tweak it based on your experience. And then it's just rinse and repeat. So you're taking girl after girl after girl on the same fucking date. The same, let's say sushi place, which is what I used to do, where you could get sushi at happy hour and you get out for less than 10 bucks.

12:19 Yes, boys, I don't want you spending much money. I had a guy join the program recently. He's like, I don't understand this. I always get these girls, but I spend a ton of money on them and I don't understand why they don't like me. And I'm like, because you're spending a ton of money on them. It shows low value. It shows that you don't feel like you're enough within yourself to get this girl on your conversation and your confidence and your ability to spit game. It communicates that you don't feel like you're enough.

12:46 So when we go out with women, we do the same date. And what I always suggest, and again, this warrants another episode or warrants you going to listen to some of my previous episodes. I always suggest you do one, two, three, or four things on the same day. And guys, the date should take no more than an hour or two. If you really hit it off, then you could keep her for three hours. But as I always say, you don't want to overstay your welcome. The 8,100 rule, always leave her wanting more.

13:20 Okay. So we understand we have a spreadsheet. You have all your gambits, all your techniques along the top. And then you have all the girls' names along the side. You have a note to tell you which one is which. Maybe her phone number, which I used to do. And this is something too. Don't have too many girls' names in your phone because when girls stalk your phone when you're in the shower, which they will do, they're going to get pissed off where it's like Jessica 1, Jessica 2, Jessica 3.

13:40 She blew me. She let me do her in the butthole. She finger-blasted my butthole. And the stalker's like looking through your phone and being like, what the fuck? How many girls are you dating? That's something else you need to be careful about. So you could keep their phone number. You could keep information. It's in a private spreadsheet and you're basically marking X's as you go. In addition to that, because you're running the same date time and time again, which honestly, boys, should be across the street from your fucking house if possible, should be walking distance to make it as convenient as possible, should be near your apartment so you can yank girls' home during said dates.

14:15 Yeah, boys, prior preparation prevents poor performance. The five Ps, Theodore Roosevelt. You have to run the five Ps. How can I make this as easy as possible? And how can I batch my dates? Batching dates is twofold. The first thing is this. You do dates on Wednesdays and Thursdays, let's say, and you do three dates in a day. You try to get a chick on the early shift around 4 p.m. She gets from 4 to 5 or maybe 4 to 6. Then you do a chick at 6. She gets 6 to 8.

14:48 Then you get a chick at 8. She gets 8 to 10. Now, does it always work so seamlessly? No, obviously not. But oftentimes, it does. Because chick A doesn't make the cut. Then at least you haven't wasted a couple hundred dollars a bunch of your time driving around. You just send her on her fucking way. Just be like, hey, I don't really feel like this is working out. Let's go ahead and part ways. Let's get you back to your car. And then you walk across the street back to your apartment, which was literally what I did when I spent multiple years in Arizona.

15:20 Gaming, gaming, gaming, girls. I would batch these dates. So then Thursday, it's the same thing. Same place. Same date. First, you start at the sushi place. Then we would go to a costume store, which was literally two doors down. Try on some costumes, laugh, joke around. Then we would go a couple more doors down to what was a non-chain pet store, where we would look at pets. I would pretend I needed to buy a new aquarium for my beta, which was at my apartment, which was just across the street.

15:50 Oh, do you want to meet my beta? Oh, do you want to meet my kitten, my dog? Oh, do you want to see that video I told you about in Japan? That isn't on YouTube, but it is on my laptop, which is at my apartment, which is across the street. Yeah, let's go. Now you're making out with her. Maybe sometimes even having sex with her, at which time you can cancel your second and third dates if you have to. Guys, getting good with women is work, and I'm not trying to lie to you and tell you it isn't.

16:18 But when you work, you better work smart rather than work hard. Batch that shit. Pay as little bit as possible. Do the same thing over and over again. So you're literally on the date, and you're like thinking about something else. Like, hmm, I wonder how the surfing is today. Huh, I wonder whatever happened to that other chick that finger blasted my butthole. I wonder how she's doing. You don't even have to fucking think. And yeah, it gets a little bit boring in which times you can try out new gambits.

16:43 But guys, if you want the hottest chicks possible, you got to get fucking dialed with your skill set. And as I always say, that's all this is. It's a skill set. You've rinsed and repeated that shit a hundred times with a hundred different girls over, let's say, six months to a year. You are now a Jedi master. Same date, same thing. And what you do, another tip is, you have to talk to the managers and to the waitresses and to everybody who works there and let them know, hey, I'm kind of a pickup artist.

17:15 I kind of have more game than Mark Singh himself. Kind of a champion. Let's just be honest. Please don't mention to the girls that I'm doing this. Don't be like, hey, weren't you in here just two hours ago with a redhead? And then yesterday I saw some chick finger blasting your butthole in the bathroom. That was a brunette, right? How many girls are you dating? You don't want that guy to show up because he will show up. So you tip well, you charisma bomb them. You're like, hey, this is my date place.

17:41 And the deal I had with the costume store guy, his name was Andy. He owned that costume store is I paid him monthly. Gave him a couple hundred bucks. I said, hey, this is my date place. I'm going to bring some sea donkeys and canyon mules in here sometimes, but some real dime pieces and some honey dips in here some other time. So can you just roll with it? And he's like, oh yeah, dude, for sure. Respect, bro. You got to teach me what you do.

18:01 I gave him a few tips for his wife and he loved me. Same thing with the pet store guy, right? Hey bro, I bring girls in here. Please don't say anything like, dude, why do you keep coming in here with different chicks? You run the same fucking program with every single girl and you keep a spreadsheet. Now you're pulling girls back to your place. Something I highly suggest for you guys is simply a lint roller, which I always do to myself before this podcast. And somehow every time I watch a video, there's like some white speck on my shirt, probably some dandruff.

18:36 But every time I do a podcast, I like lint roll the shit out of my hat and out of my shirt. And guys, before you have a girl come over, lint roll your bed. I literally have these all over my house because I'm lint rolling the floor. I'm lint rolling my kid. I'm lint rolling my bed. I'm lint rolling Marissa's butthole, just keeping everything as clean as possible. Of course, I'm joking with the whole butthole thing, but you guys get my point. You want to get any evidence of other girls out of there, except you want to have a few little things around that girls appreciate.

19:10 One thing I've really found is that having feminine wipes in my bathroom, females really appreciate, and even some tampons from time to time. Now, obviously, a girl on the first date is going to be like, hey, my snatch is bleeding. Do you have any tampons? But you know, second, third, fourth date, you could be like, oh yeah, like my ex-girlfriend last saw him. Here you go. Girls really appreciate that you run a tight battleship, that your house is clean. Your bed is lint rolled because you get a brunette in your bed, and she finds some redhead's hair.

19:37 She's going to be like, whose hair is this? Now you're suddenly explaining. Oh, it was my cousin. She stayed the night the other day, and we must have done laundry together. It's hard to explain and to talk your way out of that. So, you're lint rolling your bed, and guys, do not show girls where you live unless you know they make the cut, which is why after I lived in Arizona, I used to bring girl after girl after girl back to my apartment. When I moved to Colorado, I stopped doing that.

20:05 First date, you're not saying where I live. Second date, you got to be a fucking legend to see where I live. Sometimes, boys, I just take them to a hotel or just have sex with them in the back of my car because I'm like, I can tell this chick's a stalker ranger, but damn, look at that body, right? I got to get that. I got to get that. But eventually, I ascended to the point that I think you guys will ascend to where you actually want to be a good person and actually leave these girls better from having met you.

20:30 You're not just thinking with your red-helmeted warrior in your underwear, how can I get it into her squishmitten as soon as possible? All I want to do is have a festival in her vestibule. You stop thinking that way, and you actually get literally discerning, which is what we're trying to emulate. We're trying to emulate extreme abundance. Girls really want us. We're surrounded with girlfriends, but I just haven't met a girl I really like yet, and I'm pretty picky. I'm not just boning girls all the time.

21:03 Yeah, I had my phase where I did that, but now I'm super discerning. That's what you have to emulate. You have to emulate that, but while you're practicing, you obviously do need to date lots of girls. You do need to take them out, and I want you to run the same program. I want you to run spreadsheets. I want you to run a battleship that's so tight, you can bounce fucking quarters off the bed, and you're launching a fusillade of championhood off the starboard bow. That's the level we need to get to, and my last point, boys, is this, and I've actually done a dedicated podcast episode on this, but I just want to mention it.

21:36 If you are dating lots of different girls, and you will, especially if you come into my three-month coaching program, and I can do my NLP remapping on your brain so you behave completely differently in front of women than you do now, you act like your best self rather than some beta cuck who goes into screensaver mode, once you start getting all these girls, you'll realize that the second you put your red-helmeted warrior into their squishmitten, shit gets dirty. Not only your penis, but also socially, emotionally.

22:04 This is where girls will really lose their shooter marble, they'll come unpeeled, they will go stalker Texas ranger, and become hurricane fucking Ashley. So, what I learned is that I only tried to have sex with one girl at a time, and this is what I suggest for you boys. Girls will be pretty okay if you're seeing other girls, right? Like you're talking to them, and that's what I'd always say. They'd ask me, are you dating other girls? And I'd be like, well, you know, I'm peripherally talking to other girls, but honestly, I like you the best.

22:34 I feel like we're getting along really well, so don't worry. Those girls don't have a chance against you. And she's like, haha, but really, are you having sex with those girls? Now, you can either lie, or you could do what I did, which was to try to have sex with one girl at a time. I liken it to walking across a pond where there's a bunch of different stones. Your foot is on one stone at a time, but before you leave the one stone, you have your foot just about to touch the other stone, which means you have a girl who's lined up to have sex before you blow out the other girl.

23:12 Now, some of you guys, and I did this too, will just have sex with a bunch of different girls in straight line and just be like, no, I'm not. And then what happens? What happens is they fucking find out. They become Stalker Texas Rangers and go Hurricane Ashley on your ass. I had a girl literally overhand soccer ball throw a fucking brick through the passenger window on my Toyota 4Runner, scratching the entire side as the brick fell down and just fucking chipped paint off my fucking passenger door.

23:38 That, believe me, boys, you do not want to experience that. And I knew who it was too. We were at a nightclub. I was with this hot girl and this other girl's like, fuck you, Mark, you fucking slut. And I was like, who the fuck was that? And I saw her. It was Becca, right? Becca, the fucking Stalker. Hurricane Becca. So I'm like, ah, we good. But dude, I was an idiot. I used to park my car in the same place every time I would go to that nightclub.

23:59 And Becca knew. So what did she do? She went up to the top floor, which is where I parked my car. She got the brick that was holding the door to the stairs and she overhand threw it into my passenger window. So guys, try to just have sex with one at a time because they'll accept you talking to other girls. They might even accept that you've made out with a few. Maybe you got a little sick duck. And if you don't know what that is, switch the S and the D, but they get really pissed off if you're having sex with a bunch of different girls, unless they too are having sex with a bunch of different dudes, which in my opinion, and I think you'll agree, is kind of gross.

24:37 So you're trying to go across that pond one at a time. You're getting rid of all evidence of it. But at the same time, it's pretty clear from your Instagram pictures, from the way you behave, the stories that you tell, that you have a lot of women in your life. You just haven't found the one yet. And when girls catch you, which honestly, they probably will. Okay. You should be ready. When they catch you, they're going to say, why are you dating so many girls? And here's what you say, boys.

25:04 I'm looking for my wife. Wouldn't you do the same thing? I mean, you're looking for your soulmate too, aren't you? Yeah. Aren't you talking to other guys? I'm sure you are. I see you out at the nightclubs, little Casanova. Don't try to pretend that you're not doing the same thing. Of course, we're managing time. We're talking to people. But if I'm honest with you, I get along with you the best. You're the only one I'm having sex with. And I can see this moving forward if it continues on this trajectory.

25:29 Unless, of course, you start getting mad at me and start stalking me and shit. Don't be a stalker. Don't leave the ladder on the side of the house like all the other girls do. Put it back in the garage. No, but real talk, Amy. I feel like we really jive. And yeah, I'm talking to other girls, but I'm not having sex with them. That's the way to wiggle through this super difficult situation like that game doctor where you have to get one of those bones out of his body without touching the sides.

25:54 It's really that delicate. But when you manage it, when you play smart rather than hard, it becomes a lot easier and you will build the skill set where you can get the woman of your dreams, which I know is exactly what you want. All right, gentlemen, if you found value in this, please do me a favor. Like, leave a comment, bro. I'll reply personally. Like my stuff. Subscribe. Please leave a review. It really helps me out. And finally, boys, if you're interested in working with me, if you've heard enough and you're like, yeah, this dude knows what he's talking about and you want to experience the sheer magic of my neuro-linguistic programming, which has got us.

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