2 Nuclear Attraction Building Techniques: CR & RCR (With Word for Word Templates)

0:00 Now, one of the biggest problems I hear from guys is that they run out of things to talk about. They don't know what to say. It's one of the biggest reasons guys talk themselves out of actually approaching a woman because they always say to themselves, what? I don't know what to say. I don't know what to talk about. I don't know what she's going to be into. I am going to teach you one of the most important and simple seduction techniques to get girls immediately attracted to you.

0:24 It's so important that you hit attraction high points, that you flip attraction hot switches inside her head. And this is one technique to do it. And girls love this because it makes you seem so intuitive. The Unapologetic Man Podcast. What is up, you champions? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the Uniform Mike Papa, the Unapologetic Man Podcast. I sincerely appreciate you. And today, boys, I am going to teach you one of the most important and simple. Seduction techniques to get girls immediately attracted to you.

0:58 Honestly, brother, if you're not using this in every single conversation you have with women, you are missing out on an incredible opportunity to spike attraction. And what is that first conversation all about? It's about getting her attracted enough to you to not only want to text you back, but also go on a date with you. That's why it's the single most important element of your entire seduction, that first conversation. And if you yank a girl off the dating platforms, it's that first date or perhaps the FaceTime call that you have before the first date.

1:31 But it's so important that you hit attraction high points, that you flip attraction hot switches inside her head. And this is one technique to do it. Now, one of the biggest problems I hear from guys is that they run out of things to talk about. They don't know what to say. It's one of the biggest reasons. Guys talk themselves out of actually approaching a woman because they always say to themselves, what? I don't know what to say. I don't know what to talk about. I don't know what she's going to be into.

1:56 Well, this is one of those attraction spikes that really it's quite simple. And once you get it down, you could just rinse and repeat. And I'm actually going to talk about that in this episode. But it's amazing how something that's so simple can actually attract a girl. You'll literally see like the change in her eyes in real time. So don't think that it needs to be super complicated. Don't think that you need to come up with this like amazing magical opener and like be hidden attraction hot switches the whole time.

2:25 Honestly, boys, if you get in like two, three, four, five of these, as well as qualifying her, which I'm also going to talk about in this episode, usually you can get a phone number, but not only a phone number, but a phone number that sticks, which of course is the most important thing. So what is CR and RCR? CR stands for cold reading. RCR stands for reverse cold reading, which is so gangster, so powerful. Definitely stay tuned until the end because I'm saving RCR for the last part because this shit is so powerful.

2:55 So cold reading, what is that? It's basically reading something about the girl that is cold, meaning you don't have like a lot of information about her, but you're just assuming something about her. You're making statements about her. You're saying assumptive truths about her that perhaps you don't really have the evidence for, but you have a little bit of evidence and you're going to throw it out there. And girls love this because it makes you seem so intuitive. This was actually created by Barnum and Bailey, the Barnum and Bailey circus, like a super ripped guy walks into the fortune teller's tent, right?

3:29 She's got the crystal ball and he's like super jacked up. The dude's definitely on the gear, just getting through the door. The guy had to like turn sideways just to get through. So the fortune teller, she doesn't fucking really tell the fortune. She just looks at the dude and knows what he's into and knows what he wants to hear. So she's like, oh, checking my crystal ball. I can see that you were a Spartan in a past life. And he's like, I was. She's like, yeah.

3:53 And you slaughtered tons and tons of people in battle. He's like, oh, I did. I can't believe it. They buy into what they want to hear. So a cold read is basically reading something about the girl in a cold manner where you don't have a ton of information, but basically telling her what she wants to hear, right? So the basic cold read that I always use, and honestly, boys, this is the only one you need. Don't overcomplicate it. But what you have to do is practice it.

4:19 But the basic cold read is this. One way of you is this way. The other way of you is that way. And the thing that I always use is the outside of you is really nice and tender and understanding and smiling, but deep inside, I can tell you're not to be fucked with. Or the opposite. Like if she's frame checking you a lot, she's giving you a lot of challenges, you do the opposite. The outside of you is really tough. You're obviously not to be messed with, but I bet deep inside, you're one of the nicest people ever.

4:47 Like if your friend was ever in a tough situation, you would immediately go help her. So again, one side of her is this way. The other side of her is that way. So the basic one I like to use once again is as you're talking to her, you see, is she like generally really nice? Is she agreeable? Is she really cool? Or is she kind of challenging you? She's kind of got the bitch face going on. She's kind of giving you a challenge because obviously she's hot and guys hit on her all the time.

5:13 That's what you base your cold read on. So you say this, you say, you know what? As I'm talking to you, I kind of get a feeling about you. I kind of feel like you have this like whole tough girl thing going on, right? Like you're not to be messed with. You obviously have high standards. You've been picked up so many times you're starting to grow handles. But if you don't mind, I kind of, I kind of get a feeling about you. I just feel like, like behind all that, you're probably one of the nicest people ever.

5:38 Like if your friend was ever stuck on the side of the freeway at 3am in the middle of the desert, you'd like go drive out there to help her. Or if like your mom ever needed help, you drop everything to help her, wouldn't you? You're like actually like a really sweet person. But this whole like tough girl thing is a little bit of a facade because you've been screwed over and like people let you down a lot. So you have those walls up. Am I right?

6:01 And almost every time, boys, they're going to agree with her. They're going to be like, oh my God, you're so intuitive. Now, there is a reverse that you can do if she doesn't agree with you, which I'm going to tell you in a second. And this is actually why this is my favorite cold read. One way of you is really nice. The other way of you is kind of not to be fucked with. Okay, guys, just steal that. There's a myriad of other ones, right? Like sometimes you could just lose yourself in the moment, but other times you really think too much and you prevent yourself from doing what you really want to do.

6:29 It's like you could bullshit your way through this like a fucking Afghani camel salesman at the April camel rendezvous down in Kuwait where they're all trading camels. You're just bullshitting and you're just letting her know that you have a read on her. One way of her is really nice. The other way of her isn't. Okay, if she's being really nice to you, you say, you know, as I'm talking to you, honestly, you're like super friendly. And in fact, it's kind of surprising how nice you are.

6:57 But I just get a feeling like I kind of can just read people. I just feel like deep inside, you're not to be fucked with. Like if somebody broke your best friend's heart, right? Like some guy used your best friend. She was really into him, but then he just blew her out the next day after using her for her sex. When you saw that dude, I have a feeling he'd get a swift kick in the balls, wouldn't he? Now, if she disagrees with this, and this is why it's pretty much my favorite cold read.

7:21 You guys should just fucking rinse and repeat this one. If she disagrees with it, you use that as evidence to prove what you just said. So she's like, no, that's not true. And you'd be like, see, I told you you have this whole tough girl exterior thing. Or on the reverse, you say, see, I told you you have this whole tough girl interior thing. So even if she disagrees with it, you use that as evidence to corroborate what you just said. But ultimately, boys, something like probably 98%, like literally 98 out of 100 chicks are going to agree with this.

7:52 The two girls that won't are once again, kind of bitchy. They're trying to frame check you. They're trying to get a rise out of you. And then you just say, see, you just proved my point. This whole tough girl thing going on. Good job. Keep that up. It's working well for you. All right. So we understand cold reading is reading something about her that perhaps you don't have a lot of evidence for, or you just have a little bit of evidence for it. And you're just throwing it out there reading her.

8:16 Some catchphrases I like to use that you guys can steal are, I can tell that. I can see that. Or you strike me as the kind of person who, okay? For example, you strike me as the kind of person who doesn't always come out to nightclubs like this. I feel like perhaps this really isn't your scene, but you're coming out here to like accommodate your friends, or you're coming out here for a bachelor party, but it isn't really, really who you are. Am I right? See, you just read something about her and you make statements rather than questions, which is a huge seduction technique.

8:50 You just like assume things and say things. Now, again, if they disagree with you, I always say, see, that's what I just said. You have this whole like tough girl thing going on. So as I told you boys, when you use these attraction techniques, you don't need like a million of them. You don't need to stack one after the other, after the other. You can have what are essentially, and what most of you guys have typically done, boring conversations, get to know you conversations. Do you like weather?

9:19 Do you like breathing? How's your heart doing? Is it beating consistently? Like these fucking boring ass questions that most guys have. But if you throw in four or five, six of these techniques that I teach, and obviously I teach you a little bit in this podcast, but I teach everything in my three-month coaching program. You throw these in and you make sure to have frame control. You make sure to tell stories. You make sure to do the four pillars of attraction, which I'm going to talk about in a second, including qualifying her and making her work for you.

9:49 You could get phone numbers that really stick. The problem is a lot of you guys go in, and as I always say, you go into screensaver mode. You don't know how to use these, and you're afraid to work them in. You're like, oh, I don't really feel like a cold read is going to fit right here, so I'm going to skip it. Boys, push it in there. Just fucking pig dog that shit. Just be like, fuck it. It doesn't fit. We're talking about the ballet right now and how she was at the ballet, and I'm going to say, I have a feeling about you.

10:16 You're this way and that way. Yes, boys. Push it in there. You need to practice this shit. As I always tell my clients, what you need to do is rep out these techniques, and cold reading is literally the first technique I teach my boys to rep out upon the myriad of other techniques I give them throughout their three-month tenure with me, but this one is so simple. It's one I'm sharing on the podcast because it's so simple, and attraction comes because of it. You rep it out.

10:44 You do it on every single girl. I don't care if you're fucking talking to a grandma at the bingo parlor. Have you guys ever heard of bingo arm where they say, bingo, and they hold up their bingo card, and then their fucking tricep flaps in the breeze? Yeah, we don't want a girlfriend with bingo arm, but even if you are talking to a grandma who's got that bingo arm, do a cold read on her. Be like, you know what, grandma with the bingo arm? You're really nice.

11:07 You bake me that pie. You're super sweet. Your cane is gold-encrusted, so I can tell you've been successful in life because you're so sweet, but I can tell, grandma, you're not to be fucked with. Like if somebody messed with your best friend Eunice and stole her bulk pack of coloscopy bags, is that the way you say it? Coloscopy bags? I know you'd hit that asshole over the head with your cane, wouldn't you? You don't take any shit, do you, grandma? Oh, no, I don't. So basic, boys.

11:34 So practice that shit. Practice it on your mom. Practice it on your sister. Practice it on your cousin, your friends. You could even do this to dudes. One way of you is this way. The other way of you is that way. Now, when it comes to guys, we immediately read through the shit. We'll be like, bro, what the fuck are you talking about, right? But girls, eat this up. Cold reading. Say something about her that you assume to be true and watch the attraction rise. And again, if they fight you on it, this is part of the reason I like to say part of you is not to be fucked with because you say, see, you just proved my point.

12:05 You're not to be fucked with. Now we're going to get into RCR. RCR is reverse cold reading to bait qualification. This is so gangster. This is so powerful. You should literally be using this on every single girl that you meet. Before we get into that, I have a quick question for you. Are you so horny you'd fuck a snake if you could hold it straight? Have you ever gone to Walmart and bought a papaya, a power drill, and a tub of Vaseline? Is your dick so dry it's going to audition for the next movie of Dune?

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14:16 I thought it was pretty funny. But seriously, if you want to talk to me and my team about joining my three-month coaching program where we have a 95% success rate, I'm open to you. Put in your application by clicking the link below. All right. RCR, reverse cold reading. It should be called RCR2BQ, but it's just RCR. Reverse cold reading. But the end of it is to bait qualification. Now, what is qualification? Qualification is her selling herself to you. Part of the four pillars of attraction is pillar number four, which is qualification.

14:53 Asking her questions such as, what's good about you beyond your looks? What would your best friend say is the coolest thing about you? Do you know why you're awesome? And she's like, no, why? And you'd be like, it's a question, dum-dum, to get her to sell herself to you. Like, why are you awesome? Like, what's great about you beyond your looks? I mean, there's tons of pretty girls here in Denver, right? Like, I see them all the time. What's different about you? Now, obviously, you can only do this once she's attracted.

15:17 And it's the same thing with RCR. You want to do this when she has a little bit of attraction. Now, you go in, you use the techniques that I give you. You can see she's leaning in, asking you personal questions, touching you, laughing at jokes that aren't funny, playing with her hair, all these signs of attraction. Now, you're able to do, again, what's called qualification. What would your best friend say is the coolest thing about you? Or, in this context, we're going to do RCR. Now, stick with me.

15:45 I know some of you guys are a little thick-headed. I know you have the attention span of a small monkey on cocaine, but stick with me because this shit's super powerful. All right, so what you want to do is you want to read something about her that you know is not true. Okay, I want to repeat that because I just want to get this in your guys' heads. You see something about her that you know is not true. Now, in my coaching, I like to use the example of a hippie, a soap dodger, a tree hugger, a girl whose muff is so thick that when you take down her panties, it goes, and you get launched off the bed because that fucking muff is so thick.

16:21 She doesn't shave her armpits. She doesn't shave her legs. She has fucking cereal boxes for shoes. And her backpack is made of an old pizza box. Okay, she's a hippie. Now, as some of you guys know, oftentimes kind of like younger girls get into the hippie scene, like girls in their early 20s. And sometimes they're fucking hot, right? Like I've seen some straight soap dodgers that were some of the most banging chicks I've ever seen. I went to school in Santa Cruz. I went to UC Santa Cruz.

16:46 And there's a bunch of hippies around. I was in the punk rock scene where they had lyrics like, ask me about the poor little cow I ate and ask me about the preaching hippies I hate. But some of those hippies were pretty banging. And I've been with several of them. I will say the cleanliness was kind of a deal breaker. But you could tell she's a hippie. So you automatically know that she's into environmental rights. She doesn't like people who litter. She doesn't like perhaps like super Trump followers, right?

17:14 Like you can make assumptions about girls pretty easily. So what you would know about her is that she's into like the environment. So you're like, all right, so what I'm going to do is I'm going to say I don't like the opposite of what she is to bait her to explain herself to me. So here's an example. You're with this hippie chick. Her dreadlops are flopping in the breeze. You could smell the BO from under her armpit. She lifts up her arm to wave at her other hippie friend who they met at the hippie circle.

17:42 She was playing the harp and the other one was playing the bongos. She waves at her friend and there's a literal bush underneath her arm. So you're like, all right, I'm going to say that I don't like people who litter. So I'm going to tell a little story about that. So you'd be like, hey, you know what? I was actually driving to the club tonight and this guy in front of me, he rolls down his window and he drops out a literal bag of McDonald's onto the street.

18:04 I literally almost got back to my car and handed it back to him. I just, I don't like people who litter like that. Then what you do is you let it drop. Okay. You know, she's going to go in there and explain herself. She's going to be like, well, I don't litter like that. Right. She's like, I got a pizza box for a backpack and my skirt is made out of a cactus from the Sonora desert. And you're like, oh really? Like you don't litter like that?

18:26 Like what you, you care about the environment. You care about animal rights and stuff. She's like, oh yeah, I'm this way. Then what you do is you reward that. Okay. Let her explain herself. Cause what's happening here, boys, she's selling herself to you. If she's making the effort to sell herself to you, you need to reward that. And you basically say this, you'd be like, you know what? That's pretty cool. And you say that genuinely. You say, you know what? That's pretty cool. I actually really respect that about you.

18:50 Then what I like to do is I like to say a little joke afterward that says, you just went up 20 points in my book. You're now at negative 50. Congratulations. And like, you give her a fist bump, but she's like, shut up. And she hits you, which playfully, if she hits you as a sign of attraction. So let's review it. You see something about the girl and you say, you don't like the opposite of what that is. Then at that time you let that drop. And what you're doing is you reverse cold reading, right?

19:15 You're not saying you're this way. You're assuming she's the opposite of that way. And you say, you don't like that aspect of people. You say that you let it drop. You let her sell herself to you. And then you reward it by saying, you know what? I really like that about you. And you say that genuinely, boys, this should be a moment of connection. Then you joke, you just went up 20 points in my book. You're now at negative 7,300. Congratulations, fist bump. Okay. Another quick example, because again, I know you guys are a little thick headed and in my coaching program, we go over this time and time again until you get it nailed down and you could go into set and rifle it off without any effort whatsoever.

19:52 But I'm going to give you another example. So once again, you meet a girl in a nightclub and you could just tell she's not like a nightclub girl. So what you say is, you know, as I'm in this nightclub, the music's cool and everything, but I don't know. I just don't really like like club type girls who go out all the time and get drunk and inebriated and like, and just kind of like are pissing away their lives. Like I used to be that guy too.

20:15 And that morning I woke up with the dildo in my butt. I realized that I should probably change my ways. I just, I just really don't like people like that. And she's going to be like, well, I'm not that way. It'd be like, oh really? Like, what do you like? And she's like, well, I'm a professional. You know, I usually don't come out to things like this, but I'm with a bachelorette party right now. So I kind of didn't have a choice. And I'll be like, you know what?

20:36 That's cool. I feel like you and I are similar in that way. Good job. I actually respect that about you. You just went up 10 points in my book. You're now a negative 30. Congratulations. And then she hits your arm away. Bam, huge spike of attraction. Now again, boys, the RCR you do once she's attracted to you, you have a few little signs, like even simple signs, even a super subtle sign. Like she's still there talking to you, even though technically the conversation has kind of dropped and she could have walked away.

21:04 That's a sign of attraction. So RCR is saved for when we have some attraction, but cold reading, you could drop in anytime, anywhere. It doesn't matter. And you should work it into your conversations as much as possible. Master it by doing it over and over again. So it becomes an arrow in your quiver that you can pull out and throw into conversations to get attraction on command anytime you want to. And these are just a few small examples of the myriad of techniques that I teach in my three month coaching program.

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21:59 A 95% success rate. What is it that we've unlocked that you haven't discovered yet? Yeah, these techniques are great. And obviously, I teach a boatload of them. I have a fucking vault that's stacked to the ceiling with more gold than you can use in a lifetime. But the real differentiating factor between me and every other dating coach out there is NLP, neural, linguistic, programming, pairing. NLP with my techniques, it's like killing an ant with a nuclear warhead. It's just no chance for these chicks. And that's why my guys get so much success.

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