WHY YOU NEED TO SPEAK TO WOMEN LIKE THEY'RE A PEASANT!!!

0:00 I'm sick of you leaving the toilet seat up. It's so simple to just close it. I told you about leaving all your clothes all over the floor. Pick them up. Silence, peasant. Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, you champions? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. Now, this one, boys, is going to get me a lot of hate mail, I'll tell you what.

0:40 But I'm doing it for you because a lot of you guys are so unbelievably miscalibrated when it comes to your tonality that, yeah, man, sometimes I have to tell my clients, you got to talk to girls like they are a shit-crusted peasant. Now, the funny thing about this for all my clients listening is I'll always say, hey, guys, I will never say this in my podcast. I'm only going to say it in the coaching room, but you need to talk to girls like, literally, you're a fucking king and they are down here in the fields as a shit-crusted peasant and their only job is to clean the buttholes of all the goats and all the mules and all the donkeys that you're going to slaughter for your fucking feast.

1:21 Now, the reason I say that is because a lot of guys are so unbelievably miscued to the part of being the nice guy that if I tell them to talk to girls in this way, they're going to get balanced right in the middle the way it should be. And this is what we're going to talk about today. Guys, stay tuned until the end because I have a lot of really good information where this is concerned. And once again, I am putting my neck on the chopping block because I am going to get so much hate mail from people who only read titles, which obviously I put a controversial title because I wanted you guys to click into it, who only read titles and then send me a bunch of hate mail.

1:58 It's funny, these idiots who write me. And by the way, if you're one of those haters who's listening, I don't even read your emails because my assistant Danielle goes through them and deletes them before I even see them. So as Ozzy Osbourne said, don't waste your breath, but I am willing to sacrifice myself. I am willing to go through the absolute Hasselhoff of pissing off people to get you guys calibrated correctly. Because while this may sound controversial, you guys know how I am. I'm a good dude.

2:26 I respect women. The reason I'm telling you this is because again, you're so miscalibrated. I need to get you extremely to the other side of that calibration just so that you land in the middle and that's what we're going to talk about today. Gentlemen, before I jump into the content, I want you to come back on Monday because I have a gigantic, stupendous, enormous announcement that you guys are not going to want to miss. This is a huge rollout that I've been literally working on for four months to give you guys the creme de la creme information to make you an absolute beast when it comes to dating and to get you more dates than you've ever had before.

3:05 If you come back on Monday, I guarantee you it will be worth it. So come back on Monday. Check it out. I'm going to drop a really good podcast on that day. It's going to give you guys a ton of good information, but also you want to hear the announcement on that. So bookmark it in your head. Monday, brothers. Come back and check out that podcast because it's going to be a huge announcement that I know you guys will want to hear. All right, boys, let's get into the content.

3:29 So as I alluded to earlier, a lot of you guys are way too nice and maybe even for some of you that think you're not Mr. Nice Guy, you are and your tonality is completely and utterly incorrect. You are going up to girls with way too much supplication in your voice because on some level, you think that she's worth more than you are. You think that you are lower than her. When you are lower than her, what is your voice going to do? It's going to go up to meet her and you can literally look at it as if you are below her physically, like you are below her and you're looking up at her and talking to her.

4:06 Thus, your voice is going up. So for those of you who need visual representations, that's the way I want you to look at it, where you're kind of putting the pussy on a pedestal, as the old saying goes, and your voice is going up to meet that girl. Now, obviously, boys, as I talk about all the time on this podcast, that's not the way you want to speak to women because it telegraphs that she has more power than you do. One of my clients, C, and I'm not going to say your name, C, because I don't know if you want me putting your name out there on all the internet waves, but one of my clients, C, said something to me that absolutely blew my mind.

4:42 He got it from some book or some philosopher. I don't know where he heard it, but he said this. Women don't reject you. They reject the power that you give them that they are essentially uncomfortable getting. So when you go up to a woman with lower value than she has, thinking that you're literally less than she is, your voice is going to go up at the end, such as, hey, how are you today? Very unconsciously, boys. And a lot of you guys are like, no, I don't do that.

5:10 You do it, bro. And this is the point of this episode, is to get you to stop doing it. But your voice will go up in very subtle ways. It's a very subtle pitch. Hey, what'd you get up to this weekend? Now, maybe it's not that extreme, but it's just there, right, where it's a little bit supplicatory. You give her power. So women, naturally, when they're in their feminine energy, they don't want the power when they're with a man. They want a man to lead them to where they want to be led to.

5:37 So you're essentially handing her the power, she feels uncomfortable with that power, and she's rejecting the power, not necessarily rejecting you. Because as I say to all my clients, the girl that rejected you yesterday will suck your dick tomorrow if only you went up with her with the right tonality, the right vibe, game, frame, value, all the shit I teach in this podcast, but most essentially, communicating to her that you have authority. And this is where we get into the shit-crusted peasant. I was actually going to put that in the title, but I thought better of it because I didn't want to get blacklisted.

6:13 But boys, when I say that, and the reason I said it, of course, is to get you to click on it, the reason I say that is because I need you to get extreme. I have been out with dudes where I'm like, go talk to that girl, and I'll listen over their shoulder, and they'll be like, hey, how are you today? With that slightly supplicatory tone that, once again, goes from lower to upper, and they will reject that guy. And they'll be like, dude, what did I do wrong?

6:37 I'm like, bro, your tonality was all wrong. Go up to her like she's literally a shit-crusted peasant, and you're the fucking king. You are the ruler of the entire kingdom. And she's literally in the fields cleaning the buttholes of goats before slaughter. And he's like, really? I'm like, yeah, dude, get extreme. So he'll go up, and they'll be like, hey, hey, real quick. What are you up to today? And he'll think that he's being very extreme, but his voice will land perfectly right in the middle, thus not giving her the power.

7:06 Because boys, once again, women want you to lead that conversation. They want a man who has authority. And yes, socially, you have to communicate that you are above her socially. Now, I'm not saying women are less than us. You guys know I love women. The sacred feminine, in many ways, I think the sacred feminine is more powerful than we are in nurturing, in caring for, in being socially intelligent. They are superior than we are in many ways. But we need to be superior in the conversation, in the dynamic to lead her to where she wants to be led.

7:39 Now, once again, a lot of people are going to get butthurt about this, but I stand by it. The masculine presence has to lead. The masculine presence has to be the one who's, quote unquote, in power. And if the female presence deduces that she's the one who's actually the leader, because you go up to her with some ass-kicking, feather-fluffing dynamic and tonality in your voice, she's going to blow you out. Why? Because you gave her the power. She's rejecting the power. She's not rejecting you. So I ask you guys to get extreme, thinking in your head, she's a shit-crusted peasant, just so that you land in the middle.

8:16 Because you're so over here, being Mr. Nice Guy, that when I tell you to go over here to the extreme opposite side, you're going to land where? Right in the middle, right where it should be. Now, is it degrading? No. Is it insulting? No. Is it saying that you're better than her? Not necessarily, but it is saying that you will lead this conversation. The last several weeks, I've been doing lots of extreme examples of how to turn around rejections on girls, how to yank a girl off a beta cut guy.

8:49 This is to show you guys how to be more unapologetic, because here's the truth of it. Women are attracted to dudes who are unapologetic, who have a stronger social presence than she does, who don't give a fuck about what happens. And yeah, boys, talks to her with authority. Here's an example. When a cop pulls you over, does he ask you in this way for your license and registration? License and registration, please. Unless he's very effeminate and that's just the way he is. No. He says, license and registration, please.

9:20 His tonality goes from up to down, thus communicating that authority, and you could hear that authority in his voice. I have a prediction that a lot of cops who get attacked inadvertently communicate that they have less authority via their tonality going from lower to upper than the person who they're pulling over. You guys have seen many times cops get disrespected. You've seen cops get beat up. You've seen a lot of physical attacks. I always watch this police channel that I shouldn't be watching because it's super negative, but it's called police activity on YouTube, and it's all about shit that goes awry.

9:56 Now, I'm not saying this is the case every single time, but I will predict. People who get disrespected are disrespected because their tonality is incorrect. This is why I tell you guys all the time, what are the two most important parts of opening a girl? The first most important part is energy, feeling better than she feels. The second most important part is tonality, talking down to her. But again, guys, I don't want you to misinterpret this. This isn't saying that we literally think she's a shit-trusted peasant.

10:26 This is just to get your mind right, to think, I am the king. She is below me. Let me just get this in my fucking head so that I land right in the middle. And what is the middle? It's respectful, but it's commanding. It's showing her that you'll lead her, but at the same time, you'll treat her like gold. And since so many of you guys are way over here on the nice guy side, I need to make extreme examples as I typically do in the coaching room where I say, dude, you're the fucking king.

10:55 She's a shit-trusted peasant. Or for you guys who get butthurt about that analogy, fine. You're the boss and she's working for you. You're the manager and she's the employee. How would you talk to her? Would you be like, hey, Sarah, would you mind getting those chairs off the patio and bringing them inside because it's going to rain? Thanks. Yeah, some guys will talk like that, and those guys are not respected by their employees. If you're a manager who's seated in his power, you'd be like, hey, Sarah, the rain's coming in.

11:22 Go ahead and grab the chairs off the patio and bring them inside. It's going to be a huge rainstorm. I appreciate it. See, you're not blowing smoke up your ass. You're not being condescending. You're having authority, and that's where you guys need to land. So here's an experiment for you. What I want you guys to do from here on out is as you're walking up to a girl, even to ask her, hey, where's the Starbucks around here? Or, hey, where's the freeway? Or, hey, does that gas pump work?

11:46 It was broken last week. I want you to go up and think, shit-crusted peasant, shit-crusted peasant, shit-crusted peasant. I'm the fucking king here. Now, if you guys want to go to the extreme, you'll record yourself, which I strongly suggest. Go on your phone. You can download a record app. It's very simple or just play video or whatever. Record it. Put it in your pocket and record yourself, and you will be amazed at how perfectly in the middle your voice lands when you go in with extreme intention, where literally you're a little bit pissed off.

12:21 And again, I have to reiterate, you are not degrading to her. You are not thinking she's less than you are. You are simply mind-fucking yourself, bro, because you're way too nice. And 99% of you guys listening, I can almost guarantee, if you have problems with women, I can almost guarantee your tonality is incorrect. So from here on out, go up to girls with whatever philosophy you have to have. Either you're the boss, you're the CEO, or you're the king, and she's a shit-crusted peasant. And I use that, again, as an extreme example just to get it into your heads how messed up a lot of you guys are.

12:56 You're too nice. You're looking for approval. You are reacting. You are incongruent with saying things, perhaps, that you learned from my podcast, like, do you like to travel? And she's like, yes. And you're like, travel over there. If you say things like that and you're incongruent, meaning your behavior is one way, but your tonality is the other way, she's going to blow you out. Now, this may be a big epiphany for a lot of you guys, like, oh, shit. My tonality is completely wrong. I'm too nice.

13:25 That's why I'm telling you, go up to the next 20 girls and really get extreme. Just be like, hey, hey, shit-crusted peasant. Where'd you get that watermelon? And you'll think, like, dude, I'm being an asshole. But record yourself, guys. I've done this before. 20 years ago, I used to do this when I first started out. And I was amazed. I was like, whoa, I was really mean to that girl. And then I'll listen to it and I'll be like, whoa, I sound completely normal. So that's what you guys got to do.

13:52 You got to record yourself, go up to these girls, and calibrate. Now, some of you guys really will be too extreme. Very small percentage of you will, and that's where you calibrate. So record yourself. But for a lot of you guys who are too nice, if you've had people tell you you're so nice or you're in Mr. Nice Guy territory, shit-crusted peasant, brother. And you literally need to think that way. You're walking up, and I want you to see her in some tunic with, like, shit all over it.

14:20 And she's got a goat whose butthole she just cleaned, and she's taking it over for slaughter. That's the way I want you to think. And you're like, she's going the wrong way to slaughter, bro. Slaughter's up that way, and she's headed this way. Let me go ask her a quick question. Then you go up, and you're like, hey, hey, real quick. Just like you're the fucking king. Where's Starbucks around here? And you'll think, dude, I was being such a dick. And then you'll listen to it.

14:42 If you're smart enough to record yourself, you'll listen to it and be like, whoa. My totality was pretty much perfect. And here's the thing, too, boys. She might just get attracted to you. She might just be like, oh, it's over here and over there. And she goes in her feminine. Her voice raises a couple octaves, which means it becomes more feminine, which, by the way, when a woman is attracted to you, her voice will actually change in real time. Because she's dipping deeper into her feminine energy, her voice will go up.

15:10 She'll be more feminine. And you'll be like, damn, dude, tonality and energy, boys. Treat them like a shit-crusted peasant. Then once you get rightly calibrated, such as I am and such as all my clients are, then you can let go of that. It was just to help you get to the middle. Because, again, you're Mr. Nice Guy way over here. Shit-crusted peasant is over here. So when you talk to her like that, you're going to land right in the middle, right where you should be, like a cop.

15:38 He's authoritative, but he's in control. He's cool, some of them. He's not an asshole, some of them. All right? But he's basically communicating, yo, I'm in power here. I'm leading this conversation. You are not allowed to leave until I tell you you can leave. You are detained. What's the tonality there? Is it like, hey, could you not run away right now because I just need to detain you real quick? No, it's like, hey, you're detained. Sit down there on that sidewalk. I'll be with you in a second.

16:06 And you may think, again, that you're being extreme. But when you listen back to it, you'll be like, oh, you just had authority. And this has happened with me many times where I'm like, whoa, I was an asshole to that girl. But I recorded it, and it was just perfect. So, again, guys, social intelligence. You are going to think to yourself, what if she were a shit-trusted peasant? How would I speak to her? But you're going to try to get calibrated right in the middle. And if you need an example of how to speak to women, you should speak to them exactly as I'm speaking to you here.

16:35 I speak to women exactly as I speak to you guys. With authority, with knowledge, I'm leading this shit. But at the same time, I'm cool. I'm fun. I'm laughing. I'm a good time. I'm charismatic. I'm not an asshole. Well, sometimes I am. But usually, I'm a pretty cool, friendly guy who's going to tuck you under his wing and teach you how to get girls. This is how to get girls, boys. Stop being apologetic. Stop supplicating to them. And stop treating them like they're above you. Instead, be the king.

17:06 She's the peasant. Your voice goes down at the end to communicate that you are the one in power. Guys, please stay tuned on Monday. I am telling you, this is a gigantic announcement that you're going to want to hear. So kind of bookmark it in your head. Hey, I'm going to come back on Monday and check out Mark's podcast. Believe me, boys. You are going to want to hear this. I have been working on this shit for four months. I have dug so unbelievably deep to deliver this to you guys, and it's going to be yours if you just show up on Monday.

17:34 So gentlemen, I do appreciate it. Get out there this weekend. Talk to girls like they're a shit-crusted peasant and be amazed at how they react to you. And for those of you guys who are elite level, who want to take it to the next step, record yourself and give yourself a no-bullshit analysis of how you did. Then you'll get calibrated to the right tonality, which is basically, hey, I'm cool, but I'm leading this shit, and I'm not to be fucked with. You want to come with me or not and watch girls get attracted to you.

18:03 Gentlemen, I do appreciate you listening. I'll see you on Monday, all right? Definitely come back then, and I will see you in the next episode. I'll see you in the next episode.

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