The Top 10 Most Powerful Belief Systems YOU NEED to be Irresistibly Attractive to Women

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0:59 What is up, you champions? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate you joining me. And today, boys, we are going to talk about the 10 most important belief systems that you have to have to be confident, to attract women, to be that alpha male that I know you want to be. Before I jump into the content, gentlemen, I want to remind you yet again that I have just released a Perks program. If you haven't heard about this, click the link in the description below to save us all a bunch of time for me having to explain it to you yet again.

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3:00 And I want you to kind of guess which ones you think are the most important or the one that actually is the number one top dog when it comes to belief systems inside your head. I'm going to reveal that at the end of this episode. Number one, boys, is I am the prize, which basically means I'm not submitting the application to her. She is submitting the application to me. How many of you guys legitimately feel that way? I could tell you not a lot because I hear time and time again, guys message me telling me that they feel other guys would be better for that girl than they would.

3:36 They feel that they have to win her respect, win her approval, win her attraction, whereas the way guys who are good with women frame it is I'm the prize. She's the one submitting the application. She's the one trying to game me. How many of you guys think that way? Now, if you don't think that way, what's the best way to install these belief systems? Start saying it to yourself over and over again. Now, obviously, you guys know I use NLP. We literally remove belief systems such as I'm not the prize out of your head like a splinter from your brain, and we replace it with belief systems that are more conducive to attracting women such as I am the prize.

4:15 But if you're not going to work with us, that's okay. I understand. Tell yourself over and over again, I am the prize. This is really powerful stuff. Number two, boys, is women want to be led. A lot of you guys still kind of have that chivalrous beta cuck belief that you need to give the power to the woman. But here's the deal, boys. Women want to be led to where they want to be led to. And this is why I always say lead women to where they want to be led.

4:41 When a woman is with her man, she honestly doesn't want to make decisions. She just wants you to take her. But here's the key. She wants you to take her to where she wants to go to. It reminds me of this really funny Instagram post. You guys have probably seen this where the guy's waiting in the car, and the girl gets in. And he's like, Sarah, guess where I'm taking you to dinner tonight. And meanwhile, he has no idea where he's taking her. He's going to make her tell him.

5:05 So he's like, Sarah, guess where I'm taking you to dinner tonight. And she's like, Morton's Steakhouse? And he's like, how did you know? I can't believe you guessed that. How did you know that? And she's like, I don't know. I've just been craving you lately. He's like, come on, let's go. That's a perfect example of finding out what she wants and taking her there. I love that little trick. It's a perfect illustration of just how complicated women are, right? But it's an awesome trick because you're essentially leading her to where she wants to be led, which we need to do in all phases of our relationship.

5:34 Now, that begs the question, what about girls that are constantly vying for the power? Here's my thoughts on that. They are, in my opinion, too much of their masculine energy. And don't get it twisted, boys. Women can have dysfunctions too, especially in today's society where society is telling women to be men. They're too much of their masculine energy. So they're constantly trying to fight for the frame, trying to fight for that power. But ultimately, once she acquiesces and goes into her feminine energy and lets you lead, this is where women get really turned on.

6:06 I work with a lot of dudes, obviously. I hear a ton of stories about guys going on dates, etc. Well, oftentimes, guys will go on dates with women who are like lawyers or high-power executives, doctors, etc. And those women usually have a hard time letting go of the quote-unquote power. They're in their masculine energy all the time, so they try to bring that into the relationship. But as I always tell my clients, as long as you maintain being the man and you do not let go of that masculine frame, no matter what happens, you will fight her tooth and nail until the bitter end for it.

6:39 The second she releases it, her attraction goes through the fucking roof. I have heard story after story of high-power executive women just becoming little kittens, purring in a man's arms after he refused to give her the power. And he held on to the power until finally she gave up and acquiesced. Her attraction went through the roof. And I have heard on many occasions, those women report it was the best sex they've ever had. Because women are meant to be women. Men are meant to be men.

7:08 It reminds me of Trump's executive order to take men out of women's sports. God, I support that. I don't get political on this shit very often. But dude, when I heard that, I was like, hell yeah, dude. Let's have one for the team of logic. Get men out of women's sports. These fucking dudes going into women's UFC, for example, and just donkey calling these chicks. And everyone's wondering, I don't get it. He says he's a woman. So why is he just beating up all the women?

7:36 Because the bone structure is different. The muscle structure is different. Get men out of women's sports. I fully support that. But back to topic, boys. Women want to be led by you. Number four, rejection doesn't exist. Only non-compatibility exists. So the way that an alpha male thinks, the way that a guy who pulls lots of women thinks is, she didn't reject me. We just weren't compatible. Or she didn't reject me. She reject my approach. A lot of you guys take it so personally because you're not good with women.

8:07 My thought on it is, you just haven't developed the skill set yet. You haven't removed the bullshit from your head to be able to put in better belief systems, meta programs, and schemas to be able to act as you would act if you were good with women. Or more accurately, act as you would act had your self-esteem not been knocked down by other people which was completely out of your control. And by the way, not your fault. So you go through this life getting knocked down.

8:34 Maybe your dad said something to you, your cousin, your uncle, or in my case, my older brother, just be raving me through my entire life. I get low self-esteem. I get rejected by girls. And then I attribute it to my self-worth. Well, in my case, once I started working on myself with NLP, I realized that all those belief systems, traumas, meta programs, schemas, and archetypes were bullshit. I replaced them with NLP. Then I started behaving confidently. Women got attracted to me. And I realized, oh, it's really just a skill set.

9:06 The same girl who rejected you yesterday will suck your dick tomorrow. It's all about what's going on inside your head. It's all about what you say and how you say it. It's a skill set. So if you take it personally, that shows me that you're externally validated, which is what? For those of you guys who have listened for a long time, it's feminine behavior inside of a man to be externally validated. You need to be internally validated. Just like number one, remember, I am the prize.

9:33 So when you get rejected, you're like, oh, we just weren't compatible. Or if you mess up, like maybe you're nervous or something like that, you're like, oh, I just haven't developed a skill set yet. I just don't have the right belief systems. But it's not a statement about how much worth I have as a man. We're just not compatible. And that's the belief system of a man who's good with women. The next one is I am completely outcome independent, which means I do not care any more than I care about what was thrown out yesterday and yesterday's garbage if she rejects me or if we're compatible or if it goes well.

10:07 A lot of you guys go into conversations, and I used to do this myself, so I'm not hating on you. I just know how you are because I used to be that way too. And I work with clients who are that same way. You go in with so much outcome dependence. You want it to go right. You want her to like you. You want her to jump in the air and slide onto your dick after she gets a snail trail down her leg because you're so fucking sexy.

10:29 Bro, you're externally validated. Who cares what she thinks? So guys who are good with women, they're outcome independent. First of all, because they're internally validated. Secondly, because they say I'm the prize, and they say that I'm worth a lot. And if you can't recognize that, you're a fucking sea donkey. But also because they have abundance. And this is why I have the golden rule. Always asking yourself, what would I do in this situation right now if I were dating four girls? What would I do? Would I be all butthurt because she blew me out?

10:59 No, I don't give a shit. I'm here to have fun, and my fun is the most important thing. This is the way an attractive man thinks. So I want to ask you, do you think that way? Or are you really hoping she likes you because you want to be validated by her? Or because your dick is so dry the last time it got wet was in the shower, and it's so dry it's going to audition for the next movie of Dune. And because you haven't gotten that sex in so long, you're desperate.

11:25 And it's telegraphed. Guys who are good with women or outcome independent, they don't give a shit what happens. That's why they just say what's on their mind. They don't care. They don't try to sell themselves. They'll tease her. They'll bust her chops. And they're okay with it going bad. The second you stop needing for it to go right, it will go right. The next one is, I am the source of positive emotions. And this goes into all the previous ones I was talking about, right? You get positive emotions from within yourself because you feel good about you.

11:53 And the only opinion that matters is your opinion of yourself. So when you're the source of positive emotions, no matter what happens in your outside life, you have what? Frame. Frame is your interpretation of reality. It's like a picture frame to which you view a picture. You are viewing the picture of your reality through a frame that you choose to view it through. So if your frame is, I'm the shit, I'm the prize, I love myself, and that's a big one, boys. I love myself. I want to know how many of you truly love yourself because you have to love yourself first before you're really good with women.

12:29 If you love yourself, your frame is, I'm the source of positive emotions. I don't need anybody to validate me. I don't need a girl to like me. I don't give a shit if she thinks I'm attractive. I don't care how much I win, which a lot of you good-looking guys are so guilty of. You care about how much girls check you out. You try to like work out, look good, and do your hair. And I get it, bro. It's good to take pride in your looks.

12:53 But the second you start depending on girls validating you by checking you out, that's a problem. You should be like, dude, I'm sexy as fuck because I say I'm sexy as fuck. Me looking in the mirror and approving of myself is all I need for the day. That's masculine energy. The next one, boys, is I never explain myself. As I've spoken about many times in this podcast, if you try to sell yourself to a woman, she will lose attraction for you. Why is this? Because when you explain yourself to her, it shows her that you don't feel like you're enough.

13:24 If she questions you and you explain yourself, it shows her that her frame around the picture of the reality that you guys are discussing wins. She imposed a frame upon you and you're explaining yourself, trying to justify yourself to her unattractive. A guy who's attractive never explains himself to a woman. So if she asks you in a slightly bitchy, challenging way, why don't you have a girlfriend? You agree and amplify. You say, I don't have a girlfriend because I'm a horrible kisser. I'm also terrible at going down on girls.

13:57 Also, I have a millimeter Peter. I renamed it the angry inch. The thing is angry. It's going to get you. And then I'll poke her in the clavicle with her showing her, dude, I'm not going to explain myself to you. I do what I do because it's the shit for me. And that's what a strong frame is. You like what you like. You do what you do. You have the belief systems you have because it's the shit for you. Now, let me tell you another thing.

14:20 If you write me a hate mail about what I said about men being in women's sports, that's showing me that you have a weak frame because you're trying to sell yourself. You're trying to sell your philosophy, your attitude, your belief system, as it were, to me. And you will actually take the time to email me to try to berate me and sell yourself because fundamentally, you're insecure in your own belief system. When you're secure in your belief system, you don't need to explain it. You don't need to argue it.

14:48 You don't give a shit what people think about it. It just is. And you don't even need to change their opinions about it. You say, yo, I got my belief system. You have yours. We can coexist in peace. But I'm not going to try to argue with you and sell you my belief system because that shows that I'm fundamentally insecure in my belief system. Here's how it is. This is what I believe. If you don't like that, I'm afraid I can't help you with that. That's a strong frame and that's attractive.

15:15 Number eight, I assume attraction. How many of you guys do this? Where you assume that every single girl out there is attracted to you. I'm talking you're in the gym, dude. And a girl comes over and works out next to you. You're like, oh yeah, she's doing that because she's attracted to me. A girl glances at you from across the gym. Yeah, she's attracted to me. A girl crosses you in the supermarket through the lane and it's like she's seemingly following you. You're like, oh my hell.

15:41 She set that up to be attracted to me. A girl passes you through the intersection in her car. Oh my God, bro. She rerouted her entire day just to drive past me. That's how delusional I want you to be. And when I use the word delusional, I use it simply as an example because in a way, you should be delusional. Besides, what is reality? It's your interpretation of it, which again is frame control. So be delusional, quote unquote, and think that every single girl is attracted to me.

16:11 Yes, even unattractive women, even older women, grandmas, the fucking midget at the PTA meeting with a peg leg. I don't care who she is. She wants you, bro. And she wants you bad. Guys who are good with women assume that all women are attracted to them and they're the selector. What did I say for number one? I am the prize. Therefore, you should be feeling all girls are attracted to me. All girls want me. I'm the selector. I'll pick the ones that make the cut. They are submitting the application.

16:38 I am not. That's the philosophy. All right. Number nine is my world is the adventure. She can come along if she wants to. And this goes back to frame control where you have a strong reality to which you absorb that girl into your reality. You almost make her like a little sidekick that you say, come on, little buddy. And you tuck her under your wing and you show her a good time. Your world is an adventure. She can come with you if she wants. And if she makes the cut, if she's good enough, she can continue to ride along with you.

17:09 But if she's not playing nice, if she isn't doing what you want her to, if you aren't able to speak identity into her and help her get into her feminine energy, then you say, next, please. You're always saying next. And you always have the philosophy, another belief system. Honestly, I could do like 70 of these. Another belief system is, if I miss this bus, the next one will come. Right? It's like, if it doesn't work out with this chick, there's millions of chicks, dude. There's billions of fish in the sea.

17:37 I'll just get the next one. They are as abundant as water. Turn on the faucet and it comes out. That's another belief system. But number nine was, my world's the adventure. She can come if she wants to. If she doesn't want to, her loss. Number 10 is, there is no competition. I am in my own league. And this again goes back to the belief system that a lot of you guys struggle with. And I did too. Which is, she would be better with a different dude. That guy has more than I do.

18:04 He's taller than me, more ripped than me, younger than me, has more money than me, older than me, shorter than me. Whatever excuse you're making. Like, literally, boys, I'll get guys who come into the program who are 6'6", and they're like, I'm too tall. And you'll get guys who are 6'2", I'm not tall enough. A guy is 5'10", I need to be taller. It's always an issue. It's not your height that matters. It's your belief system about it. I also have dudes who come into the program who are 5'2", and start pulling girls like no tomorrow because they removed the belief system about height.

18:35 So you need to think, I'm in my own league. I have unique things I can offer her. I have unique experiences and unique personality. There's only one dick like this dick. The red-helmeted warrior ready to go into battle. Nobody has one like I do. Nobody licks a girl's vagina the way I do, kisses the way I do, touches her the way I do, takes her on and experience the way I do. I am not one in a million. I'm not one in a billion, not even a trillion.

19:02 I'm one in a Googleplex, I think is the number. I am one of a kind. Nobody's like me. And I have a life of adventure. I have a life of value. And if she behaves herself and makes the cut, she can come with me. All right, boys, let's go through them again real quickly here. Number one, I am the prize. Number two, women want to be led. Number three, my approval is the only one that matters. Number four, rejection doesn't exist. Only non-compatibility. Number five, I am completely and utterly outcome independent.

19:34 Number six, I am the source of positive emotions. Number seven, I never, under any circumstance, explain myself. Number eight, I assume attraction. Number nine, my world is the adventure. She could come along if she wants. And number 10, there is no competition. I am in my own league. All right, guys, so which one did you think I feel is the most important? Well, I'm going to be honest with you. They're all pretty equal. But if I had to choose one that, in my opinion, is the most important, it's my approval is the only one that matters.

20:06 Because when you believe in yourself, you become completely and utterly non-reliant on the opinion of others. That's where a strong frame comes from. Just imagine if you literally didn't give a shit about what people thought of you, particularly women, and you were able to just go up authentically, only needing your own approval. Thinking to yourself, I'm proud of myself because I had the balls to approach that girl. What she says doesn't matter. It's the fact that I approach her that matters. What if you could do that?

20:35 You would have a superpower, brother. The problem, and I'm going to admit, I've suffered from this myself and probably still do to some effects, is we care too much about what people think of us. So once you get the belief system implanted, my approval is the only one that matters. Everything changes in your life. And frankly, with the other nine as well. I mean, if you can get even a couple of these, your game is going to go through the roof. But boys, I really want you to say that to yourself every day.

21:01 My approval is the only one that matters. In addition to, I am a champion. I am the prize. I am a girl magnet. I actually did a podcast about two years ago where it's affirmations. It's 25 affirmations. That has been the highest downloaded episode in my entire 640 plus whatever it is anthology. Mostly because people go through it again and again. But I have guys tell me all the time, dude, I listen to that day in and day out. It's just affirmations. It's just statements that you're getting embedded into your brain.

21:33 I am the prize. I am a girl magnet. I am a champion. My approval is the only one that matters. When you pound on those belief systems, they get ingrained into your head. But what I often say is your brain is a lot like a parking space. If there's already a car in there, let's say the negative belief system that I need to be approved by others, it's hard to get a new car into there. You almost have to like ram it out. But if you remove it, which is exactly what we do with NLP, you can easily put another belief system in there because the space is empty.

22:05 And that's what we do in my program. We replace and install belief systems. We work with traumas, metaprograms, schemas, archetypes. The shit is absolutely gangster. And that's why every single guy who graduates the program is just absolutely singing its praises. We actually had three dudes graduate last night. I'm recording this on Friday. Three guys graduated last night and every single one was like, dude, this was the best money I've ever spent. Guys, you know, I hate to blow smoke up my own ass here, but think about that.

22:32 That's really impressive. For three guys to graduate on the same night and each of them is like, oh my hell, this thing blew my mind. In fact, boys, what I might do is I might have Liam, my podcast editor, edit that and put it on the back of some upcoming episode because it was awesome, dude. These guys are all getting success. Literally 19 out of 20 guys who come through my program, 10 extra results with women. And I stand by that 100%. If you want to get those results too, apply at the link below.

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