The 4 Laws of Getting What You Want: The Exact Methods That Exploded My Life

0:00 But the strange and counterintuitive thing about life is this. It's the opposite of what we think it is. You think that by taking, stealing from others, trying to get one over on another person, which is exactly how the egoic mind works in this world. If you think that's the way to get what you want, what does life constantly teach people who behave that way? It teaches them, no, this isn't the way it works. In fact, when you screw over another person, you're going to get screwed over.

0:26 Yet when you give without any expectation of receiving, it somehow always comes back to you. So gentlemen, remember the four laws, deploy them today. Right now, your life is going to change. And I promise you, your life will blossom in ways that you never even thought possible. The Unapologetic Man Podcast. This is going to be one of the most important episodes I ever record. So if you clicked on this one, congratulations, brother. I want to give you absolute gold today. I want to leave you with four very concrete tools to absolutely change your life.

1:01 So don't be like most guys. Be different than how most guys are. Stick with me through this entire episode. Listen until the end because the last one, as I typically do, is going to be my best one. This absolutely changed my life, guys. Let's get into the content. So first of all, I want to start this with a cool story. I just got a new 4Runner about four months ago in December, and I just tricked it out. I'm actually going to have Liam, my podcast editor, put the video of the big reveal where they did a ton of work on this thing and then rolled it out.

1:33 And if you're listening on audio, you could click over to Spotify where there's a video or YouTube, or you can even follow me on Instagram to see my super sick 25 4Runner completely decked out and all the stuff that I wanted to do to it. Now, as the video is rolling, you guys might notice that I got my logo made onto covers that go onto the covers of the light bar that's on the roof of my hood. Now, all this has a point, boys, stick with me.

1:59 But when I saw that thing turn on for the first time, I fucking jizzed in me pants because it was the sickest thing I've ever seen. My logo, of course, is this, and you guys can see it on my hat. If you're listening on audio, it's like three vertical Vs with the V in the middle. The center is kind of missing. You've probably seen it before, but I had them custom-made light covers where it covers the lights, and when you turn on the lights, the light shines through the logo.

2:23 Sickest thing I've ever seen. I'm also going to include the entire video at the end for those video versions of this podcast so you can hear my reaction. Basically, I just say fucking sick 100,000 times, and I'm completely spazzing out. But it's a pretty cool video, and it's a testament to how my life has blossomed because of these concepts. So something I've never told you guys and something that I kind of keep close to the chest because a lot of people get butthurt about it is that I am a multimillionaire.

2:51 Now, the reason I'm telling you this today is because I became a multimillionaire within the past five years. Five years, my life absolutely exploded because of these concepts. And the second thing is I kind of want to test you out a little bit. How did you feel when I told you that? Did you feel jealous? Did you feel butthurt? Did you feel angry towards me? Did you feel I shouldn't have said that? If you feel any of those things, I question your mentality and your belief systems about money and abundance.

3:17 Because if you're angry at me about that, it has nothing to do with me. It has to do with you. And the third thing, boys, is I tell you all the time, come sign up to my three-month coaching program. We have unlocked something that is a complete game changer to change your life with women. And that's a testament to just how successful it is. Most of my clients are referrals, which should tell you that if we're getting these kinds of success rates, 95% success rate, and if Mark is making this much money doing it, what exactly has this dude unlocked to get these kind of numbers?

3:50 I talk to other dating coaches all the time, and I'm not trying to brag, but I'm just letting you know they don't have the numbers I do. They don't have the success I do, and that's because of one thing and one thing only, NLP hypnosis, to remap your brain and get you thinking the way you should think, which is the point of this entire episode. And finally, guys, I want you to know that this too is possible for you if you follow these laws. So let's get into it without further ado.

4:16 The first law is what I call karmic marketing. Karmic marketing is basically doing onto others what you want them to do onto you or giving before you get. This podcast is a perfect example. I have something like 736 episodes now where I just give, give, give without asking for anything in return other than come into my three-month coaching program where, honestly, I'm going to actually give you more than I ask for in return because that's the concept. When you give, you get back, and a lot of guys, unfortunately, not you listening, of course, but a lot of guys, unfortunately, are takers.

4:52 For example, they just want to take a girl's phone number, take her out on a date, take off her underwear, and take off her sex without actually ever giving to begin with. This is why I have the concept of being a go-giver. The best way to open a woman is to give good energy, good value in the conversation, and not give a fuck about what happens. And that's the law of karmic marketing. Give before you ask to get. And when you give, you will be given sevenfold.

5:20 For example, I give to charities every month, and this is a big reason I feel that my revenue has absolutely exploded. I give 5% to charities. So if I have $100,000 a month, that's $5,000 that I'll give to a place like St. Jude or Action Against Hunger, which are two places I really like to donate, and it just seems like my revenue keeps climbing. I give homeless people all the time, up to $100 sometimes, and you should see the look on their faces. I give unattractive women compliments. I give people good energy.

5:52 I try to give you guys really good value in this podcast. And most importantly, I give my clients my blood, sweat, and tears. I had a guy named Johnny just signed up to the program. What's up, Johnny? And he told me, he's like, dude, your fucking sales process is a 10 out of 10. And I was thinking about it, and I'm like, I don't really feel like I'm a salesman. I just care. And I do shit that communicates that I care. And because I care, because I'm a giver, because I'm always trying to figure out what's in it for you.

6:20 I'm not trying to figure out what's in it for me. I'm trying to figure out what's in it for the client. How can I help him? How can I get him to his ultimate success with women, ultimate success with money, remap his brain? And when I think that way, it just works out for me. So, so many people are trying to take, take, take. But the strange and counterintuitive thing about life is this. It's the opposite of what we think it is. You think that by taking, stealing from others, trying to get one over on another person, which is exactly how the egoic mind works in this world.

6:51 If you think that's the way to get what you want, what does life constantly teach people who behave that way? It teaches them, no, this isn't the way it works. In fact, when you screw over another person, you're going to get screwed over. And it seems like people never learn that lesson. Yet when you give without any expectation of receiving, it somehow always comes back to you. It reminds me of this painting I absolutely love where there's a bowl of food in the middle and a bunch of starving, super skinny people around the outside of the bowl.

7:20 And these people all have really long spoons where when they take some food, they can't put it into their own mouth. But if they could just figure out that they would feed each other, then they wouldn't be starving and they would, in fact, thrive. And I really feel that's the way life works. When you do things for others, when you are a giver, you always get back in return. And that's what I've done to make my life explode. So I sold my 4Runner, my previous one.

7:46 I had basically the exact same car. It was a black 2012 4Runner. And the one that I just got, the one you guys may have seen in the video, is a 25 4Runner. And I've been envisioning this thing for months, man. I've just had it in my head, feeling driving it, which I'm going to get to in a second. But I sold my previous 4Runner to a really good dude. He was actually a police officer down in Colorado Springs, which is about an hour south of Denver. So I sold him my old 2012.

8:14 And when I got my new 4Runner, all decked out, lifted, new bumper, all lights on it, all that stuff, he told me to send him pictures and a video. So I sent him a video and he wrote back. He's like, dude, that's amazing. Unfortunately, the Mutav, which was the car that I sold him, short for Mountain and Urban Tactical Assault Vehicle. He said, the Mutav, unfortunately, had some problems a few months after you sold it to me. It needs $6,000 of repair. And I was like, what the fuck, dude?

8:43 Because I brought that thing in and had the guys go over it to make sure it was working properly before I sold it to this dude. But unfortunately, I sold it to him, I think it was in December when he bought it. So four months have gone by. I don't know what he did with it, but I still felt really bad because I sold it to him for $17,700. And by the way, that money I put into my new Forerunner to get it all decked out. So he wrote me and he's like, dude, I'm not able to drive the car because it's in the shop.

9:10 I can't afford to fix it. And my buddy's giving me a ride to work. And like I said, he's a police officer and he's just getting rides to and from work. So I was like, man, I want to send you $2,000. And he's like, what? I was like, yeah, bro, I want to send you two grand because I feel bad that in a way I kind of sold him this quote unquote lemon that broke down literally after I sold it to him. Now, a lot of people I think wouldn't do that.

9:34 And I don't know what the guy did with the car. Maybe he went four-wheeling and really like trashed it, but I don't think so. It just felt like the right thing to do. And I feel like in some way that money is going to come back to me. It's going to help him get him back on the road. And that's just kind of how I live my life. I want to be a good dude. I want to be a good person. I want to help out.

9:53 And if when we die, what all those near-death experiencers say is true and you have your life review, you feel like shit when you were an asshole in that life review. But you feel good when you've helped out others because you get to feel the experience from their perspective. I want to have my life review and be proud of myself. I want to be the kind of person who walked through this life with love and gave, gave, gave. And I know you guys are constantly lied to.

10:19 You guys are constantly marketed to. And I market to. You kind of have to in this space. But genuinely, I fucking care about my brothers. I care about my clients. And that, in my opinion, is why I'm so successful. That's why I've been able to become a multimillionaire. So the first law is very simple. Give and you will get. Be a good fucking person, man. When's the last time you complimented somebody, gave somebody some money, helped somebody out, did something you didn't need to do just because you're a good person is from the love in your heart.

10:48 A lot of you, unfortunately, are kind of takers, dude. I see them in my inbox all the time. Hey, Mark, answer this question for me. Hey, Mark, give me this. Or hey, introduce me to your hot assistant, which, by the way, I don't know if you guys knew, but my assistant was a former playboy playmate. And guys are just, like, really creepy with her. It's fucked up, man. Be a good person. Give before you ask to get. And be a go-giver. When you go out to talk to girls, instead of trying to take from them, give them something.

11:16 Teach them something. Give them good energy. Give a fat girl a compliment. When's the last time you did that? Build somebody up. Tell somebody they're a champion. Make somebody's dream come true. Or if they want something that you want, give it to them. Like you guys are both fighting over a girl. Be like, you know what, bro? You can have her, man. There's plenty of abundance. There's more than enough in this world. So be that go-giver and you will get. The second law, gentlemen, is so important.

11:44 You have to be careful what you think. And anytime you think anything negative, you have to get rid of that shit immediately. And here's a quick NLP trick to do so. If you think something negative about yourself, such as, I'm not enough. She's too good for me. I'm too short, fat, bald, ugly, look like a chicken McNugget with tits or a turnip standing vertically with a penis on the thing. Say to yourself, erase that. Erase that. And then what you do is you focus on three things you like about yourself or three things you could be appreciative for.

12:16 So, for example, you're like, dude, I fucking hate my apartment. This thing is a piece of shit. The people above me, it sounds like they're rolling bowling balls all night long on my ceiling. And it's so annoying. Say, whoa, whoa, whoa, erase that. Because what you focus on, you manifest. Just like my forerunner, right? All I did was envision that car driving out of the shop and my reaction to it. We have a video of it. I literally had that in my head. Not with a cane, of course.

12:43 I broke my hip recently and I was walking with a cane. But the whole scene, I envisioned that. I had that car in my head for months, man. And it turned out exactly as I thought it would. Well, when you focus on the bowling balls rolling on your ceiling from the idiot neighbors who live above you, and that's constantly what you think about, you're going to manifest more of that. Whereas if you get pissed about that, you're like, erase that. I'm not even thinking about it.

13:08 And instead, you think about what you can be appreciative for in your apartment. At least I have a roof over my head. At least I have a refrigerator with food in it. At least I have a job. At least I have ears to listen to this podcast and eyes to see beautiful women. Whatever it is, you cannot let those negative thoughts overcome your consciousness. Because what you think about, you become and what you think about, you attract. And that goes into my third one, appreciation. The third and perhaps most important law in these four laws that I'm giving you.

13:40 When you appreciate what you have, you realize just how many blessings you've been given and how abundant your life really is. Now, some of you listening, once again, are focusing so much on your lack, so much on your scarcity, you don't even see your abundance. But when you actually sit down, and I do this every morning after I meditate. I meditate for about 30 or 40 minutes. Then I sit there for about 15 minutes just thanking things. Thank you for Marissa. Thank you for my daughter. Thank you for this house.

14:08 Thank you for this epic 4Runner. Thank you for this sweet mic. Thank you for the Unapologetic Man podcast. The phone I'm filming this on. Audacity that records it. Zoom over here. That's recording it from the side. My sweet posters. My black walls. My time in Japan. My awesome logo. My awesome unapologetic neon sign. There's so much to be appreciative for. It's insane, boys. Then you start feeling abundant. And when you feel abundant, you attract that abundance to you. So I want to give you a test.

14:36 Every morning, just as I do. Even if it's just while brushing your teeth or in the shower. Give thanks for that toothbrush. Give thanks for that shower. Give thanks for the fact that you have a job. Or at least you can have Spotify or iTunes or YouTube to even watch content like this. Do you know the kind of time we're in compared to the time back in like the 70s and 80s? The technology we have, the AI, your ability to get all this information. And yes, your ability to come work with a coach like me who has all this neuro-linguistic programming technology to remap your brain to make you into a girl magnet.

15:12 We never had those opportunities before. Life moved slower than pond water. It was like you were riding on a glacier back in the 80s. Now we're riding in a fucking Ferrari and yet you complain? It's like 311 said, you're a rich rock star you are, yet still you complain. That's insane. Brother, you live the life of a rock star compared to 99% of the other population, especially if you're listening from the United States, Canada, England, or Australia, which most of you are. So the complaining, you have to get rid of that shit.

15:44 Focus on what you have. As the old saying goes, count your blessings. It's easy to focus on what we don't have. But once you start counting your blessings, you start attracting more of your blessings to you. The universe loves appreciation. The universe loves for you to focus on all the gifts that it has given you and it has given you a lot. The last one, boys, and this too is so important, is the be, do, have principle, which goes a little bit about what I was talking about regarding appreciation.

16:15 When you are appreciative, you are being abundant. When you are being abundant, you're going to do abundant things, such as give a homeless person money. And when you are doing abundant things, then you can have abundance in your life. So it doesn't start from having and then being. For example, you have a lot of girls. Now you're a girl magnet. No, no, no. That's not the way it works. The way it works is first you have to be a girl magnet in your head, developing the skill set, remapping your brain, becoming, being that girl magnet.

16:50 Then you will have the girls. It doesn't happen the other way. Same with money. And this is the one secret I figured out that made me a multimillionaire within five short years, boys. Five short years. And what I started doing is just envisioning money coming into my account, envisioning helping all these men, feeling what it's like to be a multimillionaire. And then what happens? Money comes. As it's coming, I'm giving 5% of my revenue to others. I'm helping out people. I'm giving, giving, giving. And I get more, more, more.

17:19 So the principle is be whatever you want to be. And whatever you want to do and have, you have to be it first, even if it's not true. Here's a huge secret that I learned that absolutely changed my life. People who are successful, I'm talking the billionaires and multimillionaires, the girl magnets, the guys who have lives that you want. Here's what they do. They spend almost half their time living in a quote-unquote illusion by visualizing and daydreaming about the life that they really want to have.

17:51 Just like me with my 4Runner, visualizing driving that thing, visualizing it coming out of the warehouse and my reaction to it. Visualizing a bunch of hot girls on it, all my hot friends posing on it, which, by the way, we're doing a photo shoot next month because my Instagram team's like, yo, you need more girls on your Instagram page. And I'm like, all right, let's get the ladies together. I'm going to do this epic photo shoot. And that, too, is going to manifest because I'm just focusing on it.

18:16 I'm spending like half my life just focusing on what I want to happen and experiencing it as if it's happening now. And that's part of the secret, which is to experience it now as if it's happening now. Because when you put that energy out there of experiencing it, being joyful with it, it manifests and comes back to you. So whatever you want to manifest into your life, be it girls, money, whatever it is, first you have to be the version of yourself, the vibration that is in alignment with that which you want to manifest.

18:51 What does a girl magnet feel like? How does he live his life? How does he walk? How does he talk? How does he behave? How does he dress? What does he say to girls? Does he get needy when a girl gives him a phone number and texts her over and over again? Fuck no. And this goes into my rule. What would I do if I were dating four girls? The bracelet I tell you guys to pretend to wear. That bracelet is to communicate. You already have abundance.

19:15 You have to feel it before you can have it and before you could do it. It's the same thing with money. How would I feel if I was making X many dollars per month if I was a multimillionaire? What does that feel like? Feels fucking good. What's financial freedom look like? What's it feel like to live in a big, beautiful house next to the mountains? Which was another intention that I sent out. And I just kept feeling it. What would it be like to walk into this sick house and look out the window?

19:40 And there's the Rocky Mountains right outside my window. I live that reality now. Because I was being it first. I was being appreciative. I was feeling what it was like. Then I could do it. Buy the house. Move in. And finally have it. Live in this house. Be appreciative. Get the forerunner I want. The money I want. The women I want. The child I want. The partner I want. The fill in the blank. What's next, brother? What's next? Is it going to be you and me doing something together?

20:07 Who knows, man? Crazier things have happened. That's why, too, when clients come in, I don't feel like I'm better than them or I'm like the leader. It's like we're equals, dude. And I can learn from you just as you can learn from me. And I have had many friendships derive out of guys coming into my program. 10 out of 10 sales process? No. It's just that I care, man. And I give before I ask to get back. So let's go over them. First and foremost, give what you want to get.

20:35 Secondly, eliminate all negative thinking, whether about yourself or about your abundance or scarcity. Third, you have to be appreciative. Appreciate every single day what you have because, brother, you have a lot more than you think you do. And the last one, be first. Then you will do. Then you will have. Be the energy. Because like energy attracts like energy, like a magnet. You can only be a multimillionaire when you feel like one first. So live a large part of your life daydreaming. Yes, I give you permission to daydream and think about and fantasize and really get deep down into it.

21:13 Daydreamers attract what they want because that daydreaming energy is just that. It's a vibration that's going to draw to you the same vibration back to you so you can finally do and have those things that you really want. So, gentlemen, remember the four laws. Deploy them today. Right now, your life is going to change. And I promise you, your life will blossom in ways that you never even thought possible. Thank you again for listening, boys. And I will see you in the next episode. What is up, brother?

21:43 Just wanted to thank you sincerely for watching this episode. If you've gotten any value whatsoever out of my content, the single best way to help me is to like, comment, subscribe, leave me a review. You have no idea how much that helps me. Also, if you're struggling with women and you want to talk to me personally about how I can help you achieve your goals with women, sign up for my three-month coaching program below and you and I will talk. Join us in the unapologetic army.

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