Stop turning Women's Body Parts Into Gods You Worship

0:00 Why did the man fall into the well? Because he couldn't see that well. Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, gentlemen? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate you. And today, boys, we are going to talk about how you, as well as me, turn women into gods. If you're anything like I am, when you see a hot girl, you go into fucking screensaver mode.

0:40 Can't remember your own last name, loss of communication with the spinal column, flappy hands, gas with oily discharge, your hair hurts, and you go into what I call screensaver mode. Can't think, bro, because we are idealizing these women way too much. And something happened in your childhood, and this totally happened to me, which is why I know a lot about it because I've done tons of work on this. Something happened in both our childhoods where we started idealizing women. So if you're not able to talk to a hot girl, if you get stifled, if you go into that screensaver mode, this is probably happening to you.

1:12 And I want to give you some resources to overcome this because it's absolutely unnecessary and awareness alone is curative. Once you understand this, once you realize that, holy shit, I was put in a post-hypnotic trance by the freaking hotness of some chick's badonkadonk butt when I was six years old, and now I'm so intimidated by hot girls, I can't even go up and approach them and just be myself. I get stifled. I don't know what to say. There's so much adrenaline running through my body that I essentially behave like I'm ahead on a morphine drip, unable to function.

1:46 And boys, I know this so well because it used to happen to me. And I've gotten a lot of training on this. I've worked on this extensively with my own mentor, and I want to teach you what I've learned, which will hopefully help you out. So first of all, boys, I want you to imagine a really nice ass. Okay. If you're anything like me, you love women's asses, especially when they're in black yoga pants. Something I want to say, and I think a lot of you guys will agree with me.

2:15 Thank you to the good Lord above for creating yoga pants. They are, in my opinion, as well as the opinion of all my boys listening, at least most of my boys listening, the greatest gift given to men since the bikini. Oh my hell, when I'm in the gym and I just see a perfect ass in some black yoga pants, my red-helmeted warrior stands up and salutes and says, thank you, young lady, for rocking those yoga pants because God bless America, they are sexy. So I want you to imagine that butt in those yoga pants.

2:47 You know you want to take those yoga pants off. You know you want to get her doggy style. And brother, that's okay. That's naturally within you for a reason. I talk about it all the time in this podcast. It's so that we can procreate. It's so that we can continue the lineage of our species. You are designed to want to have sex. But here's the thing too. It's a butt. It's full of fat. It farts. That thing really stinks sometimes. It shits too. Are you attracted to shit unless you're part of the 0.01% of men who are attracted to shit?

3:19 And yes, boys, this actually is a real thing. They have these things called scat houses where literally people shit and dudes go fucking crazy over this. I used to drive strippers, quick side story, where the stripper told me, dude, I went in there and the guy literally had me squat over his chest and shit on him. And I was like, are you serious? I can't imagine any torture that would be worse. But some people get off on this. But since you probably don't get off on it, the 99% of you, I want you to know that that butt that you're idealizing literally shits.

3:56 You were put in a post-hypnotic trance at some point during your childhood to idealize and make God of a woman's ass, a woman's tits, a woman's face, her eyes, her teeth, her hair. Oh my God, this happened to me. Somewhere in my past, and I'm going to talk about an NLP concept called the anima in a second. Somewhere in my past, I started idealizing blonde girls. I wanted to get every single blonde girl I possibly could. And it's because I later found out my grandpa idealized blonde chicks and my best friend growing up idealized them.

4:31 I didn't even like them. It was because I was trying to get into rapport with somebody else that I started getting attracted to that. Did you know that the kind of girl that you're attracted to might not even be what you're really attracted to? You just bought into some societal ideal of what's attractive. Maybe you bought into a friend or a relative's ideal of what is perfect. And you just did that because you were trying to get into rapport with them. Boys, the mind is a very malleable and impressionable device inside of you.

5:06 You would freak out if you knew some of what I know about what NLP does to remap those kinds of belief systems, to remap those kinds of desires. So the first thing I need you to realize is that they're just body parts all put together and they are essentially disgusting. They're full of fat, bone, tissue, blood, and lymph that drained on the floor would make you throw up. Yet when it's all put together in a perfect kind of way in a woman, we idealize it. We make it into a God because you're focusing on individual elements, which going into point number two probably isn't even your own desire.

5:44 It's somebody else's desire that you unconsciously chose to adopt because you wanted to get into rapport with that person. Now that we're starting to kind of see how this really works, we're starting to get some of our power back. Because yes, when you idealize something as a God and you worship it the way a lot of us worship tits, ass, hot faces, and beautiful vaginas, and I know, I've been there myself, when we start to do that, it has power over us. But you have to understand it's just a human body.

6:11 And once again, brother, you need to question whether or not that really is your type. And I'm actually going to give you an exercise to understand what actually is your type. So firstly, we have to understand that they're just body parts. They're disgusting just as you are disgusting when you get that from under cheese under your ball sack after playing football for six hours. She gets the same thing. Did you know that the vagina is basically a penis just rearranged? It's all the same skin. It's all the same nerves.

6:47 It's all the same stuff. A clitoris is literally a little penis. Did you know that? And there are as many nerves in the clitoris as there is in the penis. Can you imagine how good it would feel to have your penis shrunk down to the size of a tiny little bean and some chicks in there licking on it? This is why chicks go fucking demonic when you go down on them in the right way. I should actually do a podcast about how to go down on a girl.

7:09 I might actually do that. It's been a while since I've talked about that. But basically, the vagina is like a penis rearranged. It's the same skin. You know that smell that you like, that fucking BO that girls get in their vagina that kind of smells like a burnt taco that got shit on by a tuna. That's a very similar bacteria of the way your ball sack smells and my ball sack as well as a sumo wrestler's ball sack smells after exercise. Yet we're so attracted to it.

7:39 I love what Marcus Aurelius said when he was asked, why don't you rape your slaves? Which literally, people were shocked that Marcus Aurelius, the emperor of Rome, chose not to rape his slaves. It's because he saw it as what it really is. It's just you rubbing a member, a body part into a woman, and then a discharge comes out of it. When you break it down to that kind of simplicity to see it for what it really is, to see women for what they really are, just a conglomerate of body parts, it doesn't have so much power over you.

8:12 So now we understand that a butt shit, hot lips have throw up come out of it, as well as that white stuff that accumulates on the side of your lips when you talk too much. Lips have super bad morning breath. Believe me, I've smelt it on many different girls. Vaginas are basically just the same skin as penis, just in a female form. A butt? Dudes have butts. Have you ever accidentally looked at a butt and you're like, yo, that's a nice butt, and then you realize it's on a dude?

8:43 I've had that happen to me a couple times, and you're like, bro, why am I so obsessed with asses when guys have asses? Why am I so obsessed with breasts when guys also have chest like that and nipples? It's like we've been hypnotized to be attracted to these body parts, but essentially, when you really look at it logically, getting your penis and your horniness out of the picture, it's kind of illogical, isn't it? It's kind of disgusting if you really think about it. So if you are idealizing women, if you get stifled in front of them, this understanding, this realization can help you move past it because you realize, oh, I'm making a body part into a god, a breast.

9:22 I'm making that into a god. What is it? It's a little weird if you think about it. It's a chest, just like my chest, with a bunch of fat in it, a nipple just like my nipple. Why am I so obsessed with this thing? Why, when I look at cleavage, do I get a bone or the size of the Sears Tower? Of course, you're programmed to be that way to an extent, but if it starts stifling you and you can't even fucking function, you are in a post-hypnotic trance caused by something that happened in your childhood.

9:49 Now we're going to get into what's called an NLP, the anima. The anima is a female version of yourself in NLP. We do what we call parts theory. So part of you is masculine, part of you is feminine. For most men, we're about 80% masculine, 20% feminine. Now the 20% shouldn't be judged. We need that in order to be compassionate, nurturing, help people out, in order to have interpersonal relationships. That's where our social intelligence comes from. So I often liken it to black and white marbles, and we work on this in NLP.

10:24 Black marbles are masculine, white marbles are feminine, and you have about 20 for every 80 black marbles that you have. Now, the anima is the female inside of you. Yes, that's right. You have a female inside of you. And what we do sometimes in NLP is we have that woman step outside of you. So I want you guys, even if you're driving, lifting, walking, whatever, just imagine that the female part of you steps out of you and goes across the room. Now, obviously I'm not able to work with you guys one-on-one.

11:00 If what I'm about to tell you to visualize doesn't pan out perfectly, that's because you would need some other guidance in that respect. But for the most of you, I am going to guess when she steps out of you and steps across the room, she's going to be banging. She's going to be attractive. And if she's not, don't worry. You have something else to which we don't have time in this podcast episode to address. I'm talking to the majority of guys, 90% of you, she's going to be banging.

11:22 That girl that you see right there, your anima is your type. That's the type that you really want. And here's what was surprising to me and perhaps is surprising to you too. When you see that girl, I always thought I wanted blondes, but my anima was a brunette and Marissa, my woman also is a brunette. But for some reason, I had this obsession with blondes. After doing work with my mentor, my NLP coach, as well as doing some NLP on myself, I realized that I idealized my best friend growing up.

11:52 His name was Ira and he was obsessed with blondes. His perfect version of the perfect girl was blonde, fake tits, thick lips, banging ass, thigh gap in black yoga pants. So that became my ideal, even though it wasn't really my ideal. It's because I was in a post-hypnotic trance because of my rapport with him that I decided subconsciously to make that girl my ideal. So I chased blondes for years, boys. And yeah, I'm still attracted to them, but my real type is exactly what Marissa is.

12:24 So that girl who you're looking at, your anima is your type. Once again, if she's a mountain troll, a canyon mule, or a sea donkey, that's a different thing. Don't worry about it. Perhaps if we ever work together, we can discuss that. But for the vast majority of you, that girl is hot. Now, as a little side experiment, I want the man part of you to step out. Have him step out of your body, in your imagination, and go stand next to your anima. This is your animus.

12:52 This is the masculine part of you. What's that motherfucker look like? He looks like a champion, doesn't he? He looks like a warrior for a lot of you. That dude is freaking shredded. He's fucking confident. He is a legend. Guess what my animus is? That's right. A shredded Spartan soldier after battle, blood spattered, tanned, ripped, and full of muscle and bronze. That's who the fuck my animus is. And my anima is just hot as shit. Okay, now you can have them step back into your body.

13:23 As a future little hint about this, if you're ever having some uncertainty about a decision that you should make, and you feel like it's a fight between your anima and your animus, you might want to have them step out of your body, both give you the perspective on the thing, and then you ask them to work it out and step back into your body. That is a down and dirty explanation of a deeper NLP process that we do to get your parts, as we call it in NLP, in alignment so that there's not the foot on the gas, foot on the brake phenomenon that a lot of you guys experience.

13:57 I'll sometimes include that in my client's three-month NLP protocol, getting your parts in alignment to work together. So now that we understand what your type really is, do you see that perhaps you've been under a post-hypnotic trance, being attracted to a woman who perhaps you're not really that attracted to? You've just bought into things like butts are sexy. I don't know about you, but when I was a kid, I thought butts were gross because poop will come out of them. And if you think about it logically, as I explained previously, it's kind of true.

14:24 It's kind of disgusting. Mouths are often gross. They often stink. Why are we so obsessed with them? So the next time you look at a woman who has power over you, what I want you to do is deconstruct her in your head. Now, this isn't degrading to women. This is simply getting yourself to see her for what she really is, which is a fucking person. You're not sitting there idealizing me like, oh, his black hat is amazing. His big ass nose is so attractive. No, because I'm another dude.

14:51 You haven't been put in that post-hypnotic trance to be attracted to a dude. So somebody like me has no effect on you. Whereas if you see a hot girl, you're automatically affected because you've built her up in your head into a God. So the next time you see a hot girl and you get stifled by her, deconstruct her. Be like, yeah, it's just a butt. I mean, it looks good in the yoga pants, but ultimately, what is it? It's a bunch of skin, muscle, and fat, and I'm not going to let it have power over me.

15:18 Yeah, her face is hot, but let's be honest. She kind of has a five head, not a forehead, but a five head. Her hairline starts way back here. It's kind of unattractive. Yeah, she's got some nice tits, but let's be honest. What are those? They're just a bammary glands full of fat, and they're really just there to provide milk for the baby. Why am I so obsessed with this? And then ask yourself, is that girl really my anima? And even if she is, she shouldn't have power over you because it's just a human being, boys.

15:49 And that's the overall point of today's episode. It's just a human, just like you, just like me. There's faults. There's fallibility. Yeah, she's beautiful, but is she perfect? No. Is she going to age just like all women are? Of course she is. And that's something else you should know, that when you get your wife, be very careful not to select a girl just because she's hot. I've made this mistake myself. I almost married this freaking banger of a girl, but I finally woke up and realized, dude, she's insane.

16:19 She has a horrible personality. All she does is complain, which is a big thing that hot girls do. They complain a lot because their version of reality is totally different than ours. They get everything served to them on a silver platter. So when something doesn't work right, when they get a headache, they fucking complain, bro. I don't want to be with a girl like that. So when you see a hot girl, don't get it twisted, dude. That's one tick off 10 boxes, and it's only going to last you a couple of years.

16:44 What happens when she gets older? Is she a good person? Does she have a good head on her shoulders? Does she have a good soul? I always tell Marissa, my girl, I love your soul. I am in love with her soul, boys. And I'm going to be honest with you. She's gotten a couple of miles on her. We're in our mid forties. She ain't no spring chicken anymore, just like I'm not. But dude, I love her. I love having sex with her. We are bonded. She turns me on.

17:09 Not because she has perfect tits, which she does. Oh my hell, her tits are from God himself. No, it's because I love her soul and I'm attracted to her femininity. Her and I are bonded. So even when she becomes haggardly, which make no mistake, she will, as well as your wife will, once you marry her, she's still going to be beautiful to me because I haven't turned her tits into a God. I haven't turned her ass into a God. And even when we're making love, when she looks like a prune who's been left out in the Arizona sun for three days, I'm still going to be attracted to her because I've reframed where the attraction comes from.

17:44 And I don't turn her body parts into a God or better yet, a goddess. It doesn't have power over me as it shouldn't have power over you. When you see beautiful women for what they really are, just human beings with lots of faults, with lots of issues, with bad breath in the morning and stinky farts in the night, they don't have power over you. You understand that you've probably been put in a post-hypnotic trance because of somebody else's belief system of what's beautiful. They're not even really your anima most of the time.

18:12 So why are you letting it put you into screensaver mode? Having you losing your communication with your spinal column and going to dipshit-ville. Don't live in dipshit-ville, boys. Persevere past it. Realize women are just women. Men are just men. Let's stop turning them into gods and just see them for what they really are. A human being. So, gentlemen, I hope this perspective has helped you out a little bit. As you see these hot chicks in the gym with their freaking candy-striped yoga pants and all their Christmas garb on, just be like, yo, it's makeup.

18:44 It's smoke and mirrors. She's going to grow old just like everybody else. She ain't perfect. Let me go meet her and see if she's cool. Then if she has a beautiful soul, you can like her for that, not just because of how she looks. Stop turning them into a god. Gentlemen, I do appreciate you listening. I drop podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays, so please stay tuned for the next one. And I will see you in the next episode.

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