Episode 698 · September 4, 2025 · 23 min
Seduce a Woman FAST With This POTENT "Law of Attraction" Routine (Rizz Mega Hack)
About this episode
In this episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals one of his most powerful attraction "cheat codes": spirituality. By leveraging the Law of Attraction in a specific 21-day, 9-affirmation routine, you can not only transform your own life but also spark intense attraction in women. Mark explains how women are magnetized by spiritual conversations and why teaching them this practice makes them emotionally invested in you. He walks you step-by-step through his "I Command, I Am" method — a potent manifestation framework designed to rewire your mindset, amplify confidence, and manifest what you want from life.
Key Takeaways:
- Why spirituality is one of the most powerful (and underrated) attraction triggers.
- How to use Mark's spiritual "Law of Attraction" routine as a powerful tool for sparking instant chemistry with women.
- The power of using present-tense "I Command, I Am" statements to manifest results.
- The science-backed logic behind why affirmations shift your mindset and results.
- How to leverage spiritual conversations to craft irresistible attraction-building moments.
Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] – Episode Preview [00:01:57] – Women love spirituality (and why it's a mega rizz hack) [00:04:16] – How Mark exponentially improved his life using the Law of Attraction [00:05:02] – The universe is nothing but a mirror [00:08:30] – Writing out your 9 intentions [00:10:32] – Storytime: How Mark got his job as a bouncer [00:11:53] – The "I Command, I Am" formula and the power of belief [00:15:00] – Step-by-step process to teach this to women (9-3-21 sequence) [00:16:58] – Multiples of 3: The Creation Triad explained [00:18:40] – The logical/science based explanation for why affirmations work [00:20:50] – Closing challenge: Write your nine "I Command, I Am" intentions today
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Did you guys know that one of the biggest ways to riz a woman is to talk about spirituality? I have found through my decades of experience that anytime I go in a spiritual direction, they absolutely fall head over heels for me. Women absolutely love this shit. Now, I'm going to give you a gambit, a routine right now that you could teach a woman that is going to absolutely amplify her attraction for you. It is going to make her more invested in you. In addition to that, if you're open to this, I'm going to teach you how to completely change your life in 21 days using this very gambit.
I double dog dare you to put this to the test. It will absolutely change your life. The Unapologetic Man Podcast. You are about to learn one of the most effective ways to seduce a woman fast. And in addition to that, boys, I am going to give you the key to absolutely change your life in 21 days. So stay tuned until the very end. I have tons to drop in your lap. This is absolute magic, both with changing your life as well as seducing a woman. What'd you guys think of that?
I've been watching a lot of Mr. Beast lately. You ever hear of this guy? He's like the biggest guy on YouTube. He always says, I am going to build a life-size pirate ship and put it into a bottle. And my buddy Jason here is going to have to escape. In addition to that, I built six other pirate ships and put them in even bigger bottles. And my friend Jason's going to have to escape all of them. If he does, I'm going to give him $10 million. And then you're just like locked in, right?
So that's what I tried to do to you. But honestly, guys, this is going to be a game-changing episode if you implement what I'm about to teach you. Did you guys know that one of the biggest ways to Riz a woman is to talk about spirituality? I have found through my decades of experience that anytime I go in a spiritual direction, teaching her about spirituality, making her life better, basically giving her hope, because I believe that the ultimate intention, the ultimate purpose of the universe is indeed positive, they absolutely fall head over heels for me.
Now, for me personally, I'm just interested in this stuff naturally. I mean, I have Buddha tattooed on my arm right here, for God's sakes, and I have 1111 tattooed on the inside of my wrist. Whenever a woman asks me why I have an 1111 on the inside of my wrist, I always say it's the code to my garage door. I have a really bad memory. But then I'm like, nah, I honestly believe when I see 1111 on the clock, it's spirit talking to me. So anytime I see it, I'm always cognizant of what I've been thinking about, what I've been doing, and it's a sign to me that I'm on the right track.
Now, it took me several years to realize that women absolutely love this shit. I just happen to be into it naturally. Some of you guys listening are like, yeah, right, that's all woo-woo bullcrap. I don't want to talk about that shit. But guys, don't sleep on this, because it is one of the most effective ways to seduce a woman. And I'm going to give you a gambit, a routine right now, that you could teach a woman that is going to absolutely amplify her attraction for you.
It is going to make her more invested in you. In addition to that, if you're open to this, I'm going to teach you how to completely change your life in 21 days using this very gambit. So the best way for me to teach you how to tell this to a woman is to teach you how to do this on yourself. So we're going to start with that, and then I'm going to teach you how to do it to a woman to get her even more attracted to you.
Now, for you naysayers out there, for you haters that don't like this kind of like woo-woo shit, this spirituality stuff, this new age bookstore where you walk into it, and there's females in there who look like soap dodgers. They hug trees on the weekends, and they haven't taken a shower in 15 years. Bear with me, because I'm going to tell you the logical reason that this works. So even if you're more logical, you can still run this on a chick and tell her the science-based, logical reason this works, rather than the woo-woo stuff.
Although I will say, this has absolutely changed my life, boys. I mean, 10 years ago, I was poor, I was unhappy, I was really struggling, and since using this stuff, since yes, discovering that very movie, The Secret, which I'm sure a lot of you guys have seen that talks about the law of attraction, my life has completely blossomed and changed in ways I can't even explain to you. And again, if you deny that we work on intention, that our thoughts become things, that what you put out there comes back to you, that the universe is basically a big mirror, then that's okay, because there's still reasons why this will work for you if you are indeed one of those more logic kind of people.
So let me run you through this, let me teach you why it works, and then I'm going to teach you how to run it on women. All right, so here's how it works. Basically, what I want you to do is I want you to write down nine different ways that you want your life to change in the next 21 days. Now, before you bust out that pen and paper, I need to run you through how you're supposed to write these things. Now, for those of you who have listened to any of my spirituality podcasts, you know that I very much believe in the law of attraction.
I very much believe in the fact that what you think and what you say literally comes back to you in way of your reality. Everything that is around you right now, brother, started with a thought. First, you think it, then you send it out there, and then it manifests. It congeals into your reality. Yes, guys, even the bad shit, even your struggles with women, even your struggles with money, everything, I hate to say, it's your creation. Now, is it your fault? Not really, because you don't know what you're creating.
As Jesus said in the Bible, and I'm not Christian, but there's a lot of wisdom in the Bible. As Jesus said in the Bible, they know not what they do. Well, let me clue you into a little secret, and you'll never convince me that this isn't true, so for you haters out there, don't email me. I don't want to hear it, but this is the way I am 100% convinced reality works. What you're thinking is coming into your reality. It's as simple as that. First, you think it, it goes out into the universe, and it comes back to you via law of attraction.
As I said, the universe is nothing but a big mirror. So for those of you who are victims, who are complaining, who say your life sucks, money's hard to get, money is stressful, chicks are hard to get, no girls like you, you're not enough, that's right, the universe says. You are creating that reality because the universe just says, yes, you are right. So if you think that money's hard to get, you're right, money's hard to get, says the universe. If, on the other hand, you say money comes quickly and easily, the universe says you're right, money comes quickly and easily, and you get lots of money.
Now, obviously, there's elements that we're not going to jump into here on this episode where perhaps you have subconscious thinking patterns that will overwrite your intentions, but at the same time, if you do something enough, if you really believe in it, and if you really put emotion behind it, which I'm going to discuss in a second, this will work for you. So what did we just learn? We learned that the universe, your life, your reality works like this. First, you think of the picture, then you paint the picture, then you step inside of it.
That's how your life works. So let me ask you, man, before we get into the technique, how's your life going, brother? How are things manifesting for you? I know a lot of you are like, yeah, not so good. I'm not very pumped. Well, here's a harsh truth for you, man. You created that. So the first step is to be very careful about what you're thinking. If you have a victim mentality, if you tell yourself over and over again you're an idiot, the universe, and in fact, your own subconscious, says, yeah, you're right.
That's the way it is. This is why begging for money or praying for money never works. Because think about it. If the universe is nothing but a mirror and you say, please give me more money, it is going to reflect that reality, which is, please give me more money. So you put it out there and it will reflect back to you exactly what you say to it. Please give me more money, which means you're going to be stuck in that level of scarcity of begging for money.
If, on the other hand, you say, I am making, say, for example, $20,000 per month, it will manifest into your reality. So we first understand that you need to tell it exactly what you are. And the second tip is to say it as if it's happening right now. So since we're talking about money, and since I'm a dating coach, I'm going to use two examples, money and girls. So writing out your nine intentions, first of all, needs to happen with the statement, I am. And it needs to be in the present tense.
So we're going to use money as an example. I am making $20,000 per month. And then I always like to say thank you, because appreciation also invokes the law of attraction, appreciating what you have, acting as if you have it already. As I said, the universe is a mirror. Going on the line of women, you might have a sentence that says, I am dating two new girls each week that are at least eight or above. Thank you. So we understand the I am principle. When you make a statement, you don't say, I want this.
Because again, the universe is a mirror. It's going to give you what you say. So if you say, I want it, the universe is going to say, you're right, you want it. You're like, no, no, no, I want it. And he's like, yeah, I know, you want it. And you're like, no, give it to me, bro. And he's like, okay, you want it to be given to you. Okay, there you go. Here's more wanting. Here's more scarcity. Instead, you say, no, dude, I am getting all these hot girls.
I am laying on my back in my bed with a solid fucking nine riding my dick. She's got these kind of tits. She's got this kind of hair. She's got a little belly button ring. And she's making these kinds of noises. And here's the third tip, boys. You have to feel it as if you're experiencing it. Now, I know a lot of you guys are going to jizz in your pants when you're imagining this girl riding you. So be careful with that. But at the same time, you need to feel what it would be like if you are indeed dating two solid nines per week in a constantly rotating schedule with the intention I am dating two solid nines per week with a constantly rotating schedule of new girls coming in and the girls who I don't like, they just basically get lost.
Guys, this is how I attracted my bouncing position. For those of you who don't know, I was a bouncer for five years at a cowboy bar and oh my hell, that position got me more ass than a toilet seat. Well, that was my intention. Before I got offered the opportunity of the bouncer position, I had the intention. I am dating three new really hot girls per week in a constantly rotating roster. And when I'm over them, they get lost and I never see them again. I swear to God, boys, that was literally my intention.
I sent it out for probably like 20 days is probably how long I did it. Then I met a guy who was a bouncer and I was like, oh, you're a bouncer. That's interesting. Do you have to be like tough and know how to fight and be like huge? He's like, look at me, man. I'm 5'10". I'm skinny as a rail. No, you don't need to know how to fight. You just need to know how to get on the mic and say, hey, I need help over here and how to get drunk people out of the bar.
And I was like, well, could I maybe do that? I don't want a full-time job. I just want to work like once or twice a week. And he's like, yeah, dude, we're hiring. So the next week I get hired. Next thing I know, I'm in a situation where I'm managing a constantly rotating roster of super hot girls who, when they get mad at me, which a lot of them did, got lost and never came to the bar again. And I was like, yo, this law of attraction thing really works because you have to put it in the statement, I am.
All right, now we're going to add another potent layer onto this. And remember, guys, you're going to teach this to girls, which I'm going to tell you about in a second. You add in the statement, I command. So here's how it goes. I command, I am dating two new super hot girls who are eight or above every single week. And when I don't want them anymore, they don't bother me or something like that, right? Or I command, I am making $20,000 per month quickly and easily working a maximum of 20 hours per week in a state of joy, peace, and enthusiasm.
For example. So what you're going to do is you're going to write out all of your statements in this format. I command, I am. And then you state it as if it's happening right now. You're going to write out nine of them. You're going to say them out loud. And it's really important that you say it out loud three times per day. When you say them, you have to feel what it feels like to actually be experiencing this reality. How good will it feel, brother, to be making $20,000 per month?
And listen, if you're like, yeah, right, $20,000 per month, that's way more than I ever feel like I could justifiably make, then be just slightly outside what you think is possible. So if you're making like, I don't know, five grand a month right now, then put it up to 10 grand. That's possible, right? You don't know how it's going to happen and how isn't the important thing. You don't need to figure that out. The universe will figure that out. But you need to at least think it's possible.
So if you're making like five grand a month right now, you're not going to say, I command, I am making a million dollars per month because obviously that would be slightly unbelievable. We need to work up as we are able to believe. But when you say these things, you need to feel good. How would it feel, brother, to have that girl right in your dick and you know you got four more girls lined up? Or how would it feel for some of you to meet your dream woman, to see her walking down the aisle in her white dress as you're about to marry her, to visualize your children and you guys having a family together as you go camping?
Which actually, after this podcast, I'm about to leave and go camping for four nights for the Labor Day weekend. Super excited. My girlfriends are coming with me and Lindsay, one of my friends, is like, how are you going to stay warm in your tent? Because they're being pussies and staying in a fucking RV. And I'm like, give it up, chick. I know what the hell I'm doing. I'm a fucking woodsman. I got this shit. Meanwhile, I'm going to tote along my portable heater and be like, that's how I'm going to do it.
I'm going to bring a portable heater into my Kodiak canvas tent. But yes, imagine your life how you want it to be and say that statement. I command, I am, then put it in the present tense. Don't ever ask for something. Can I please have a super hot nine right in my dick? And then when I blow myself up for ISIS, I want to arrive in heaven and get 27 virgins. Do not say you want, say you are already experiencing. So you're going to write down those nine.
You're going to say them out loud three times per day with passion behind them. You're going to do that for 21 days. Now we're going to get into how to teach this to women. And what you guys are going to do is you're going to tell women, this is the way to completely change your life. Have you heard of the law of attraction? She's going to say, yes, I have. I've seen the secret. Well, have you heard of the 9-3-21 rule? And she's going to be like, no, I haven't.
You'd be like, oh my God, this has completely changed my life. Do you want to learn about it? She's going to say, yes. Then you're going to teach her exactly what I told you. You have to make it in the I command, I am statement. Has to be in the present tense. Has to have passion behind it. You're going to say your nine affirmations three times per day out loud with feeling behind it, really feeling what it would be like to be living that reality. And you're going to do it for 21 days.
In the 21 days, the universe, which is basically a big mirror, is going to reflect back to you what you tell it. And in so doing, your life is going to completely change. And she's going to be like, oh my God, are you sure this works? And be like, is there a mustache in Mexico? Of course this shit works. I have completely changed my life. I am making the money I want. I have the health that I want. I have the friendships I want. I have everything that I've ever desired because I'm putting this into action.
And you basically teach her what I just told you, which of course, for some of you, you might think is complete woo-woo. But you have to ask yourself, am I willing to get a little woo-woo in order to get laid? Because this shit fucking works, as Uncle Mark Singh can attest, as well as thousands of my clients who all know this works. Spirituality is probably the biggest riz out there. Once I started getting into spirituality, started talking about this shit, girls would jump in the air, triple backflip, gainer, swan dive, right onto my dick.
I'm just talking to her. And she's in the air doing flips. And I'm like, oh my hell, here it comes. Rip down my pants, create a really quick boner, the size of the Statue of Liberty. And then right onto that bad Jackson, because this shit works. All right. So a couple things that I want you to tell women about when it comes to spirituality. Why multiples of three? Did you guys notice that? You're doing nine affirmations, which is a multiple of three. You're doing it three times per day, which of course is three.
And then 21 days, which is a multiple of three. The reason that is, is because three is the creation triad. Mind, body, spirit, father, son, Holy Ghost, thought, word, deed. So three per the universe is the holy triad. And it's the way the universe works. And the Tao Te Ching, he says, first there was one, then there was two, then there was three, then there were 10,000 things, which means from three, all of creation manifests. And this is why we do it in multiples of three. The nine equals completion or an amplifier.
In numerology, nine is the end cycle. It goes from one to nine. It symbolizes harvest, generosity, and release of resistance. I'm telling you, boys, girls like this shit. So if you're not taking notes, you're an idiot, because this fucking works. Why three times per day? Solar checkpoints. Listen to this shit. Morning programs the day, midday realigns, and evening imprints before sleep, when the subconscious is most suggestible. So three times per day represents morning, afternoon, and night, all multiples of three. Why 21 days? Three times seven. Seven is a complete cycle in lots of systems.
Seven days of the week. Seven days of creation. Seven chakras. Seven notes. Three full passes. 21 is said to weave the intention together so that it can congeal into reality. They love this shit. Trust me, boys. They love this shit. Now, for those of you who are a little bit like me, where, yeah, you're open-minded to this stuff, but at the same time, you have a science-based mind, and you're kind of like, I don't know about all this. Here's the way it works because of just concrete science.
When you send intentions, such as three times per day, nine intentions per day, that's getting a lot of your attention. That's getting a lot of your focus. What happens then is your reticular activation system is engaged, and you begin picking up on evidence of these things manifesting in your life. When you get evidence of these things manifesting, your belief about the efficacy of it begins to realign, and you start to put power behind it. That creates motivation for you to actually go out and do the thing.
So if you tell yourself three times a day for the next 21 days, I am making, say, for example, $20,000 per month, you're going to start seeing opportunities. You're going to start being more motivated, and that will probably manifest. Because if you tell yourself something, it's a basic use of affirmations enough times, you're going to start to act that way. So getting hotter girls, for example, if you're continuously intending that, your reticular activation system is going to start noticing hotter girls, you're going to be more motivated to attract them, learn how to talk to them, and it's probably going to manifest in your life.
So we have two different variables here. The logical one, which is basically tell yourself how you want to live, and you're going to make it happen, and then the woo-woo one, which is like 21 days in the astral cycle where your heart chakra goes down to your anal chakra, and they both blossom together, creating internal bliss and continuous synchronicity. And then that girl's like, oh my God, you're so spiritual. Jumps in the air, triple backflip, grabs onto the beam at the top of the bar, backflips off that, goes off a trampoline that's somehow on the bar, triple backflip, swan dive, almost hits another guy's dick, doesn't realize it's not you.
She got a little bit out of sorts as she was flipping in the air, readjust and right onto your dick. And you're like, oh my God, this riz is so effective, and it is, boys. So here's what I want you to do. I double dog dare you to put this to the test. Right now, boys, even if it's just on your notepad and your phone, write down nine statements. I command, I am, and then list it out. I list out things like making money. I list out things like my health.
I list out things like what do I want to accomplish as far as triathlons and doing different challenges is concerned. I send intentions around my family and my relationship with them. I list out intentions for my business, how many of you champions I get to meet, how many people I get to help, and this is what's important to me. What's important to you? What do you want your life to look like? Write it out, brother. Plan it. Write the script. Because remember, first you think of the picture, then you paint it, then you step inside of it.
This is how reality works. And I want to ask you, how intentional are you being with your reality? Or are you just like a fart on the breeze and just go wherever life pushes you, thinking that you're a victim and complaining to yourself about it? What you complain about, you manifest. So immediately stop talking about that shit. Focus on only that which you want to create and use the I command, I am, present tense principle, nine intentions, three times per day for 21 days. It will absolutely change your life.
Say it to women. It will absolutely change your penis's life as well. So boys, I hope you've gotten a lot out of this. As a reminder, I'll drop podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays. So please stay tuned for the next one. And I will see you in the next episode. What is up, brother? Just wanted to thank you sincerely for watching this episode. If you've gotten any value whatsoever out of my content, the single best way to help me is to like, comment, subscribe, leave me a review.
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