Instantly 5X a Woman's Attraction For You With "Jealousy Plot Lines" And "Preselection"

0:00 Welcome to The Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, you champions? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate you. And today, we are going to talk about what's called jealousy plotlines, as well as pre-selection. In my opinion, one of the most important things that you will ever learn about attracting women. So gentlemen, make sure to stay tuned until the very end, because I'm going to basically divide up this episode into two different segments.

0:43 The first segment is going to be a story about jealousy plotlines, as I call them, and then how they work. And the second half of this episode is going to be about pre-selection, which again, in my opinion, is probably the most important thing about attracting women next to frame control, and maybe next to things like giving value and having confidence. But so important and so underutilized by most men. Honestly, probably about 80% of people listening don't utilize this. And it is so ridiculously important to not only get girls attracted to you, but especially attractive girls attracted to you.

1:19 Because attractive girls take a different kind of approach as far as laying on the seduction strategies that you're going to use. You need to lay them on pretty thick, bro, because she's got a lot of suitors. She's got a lot of dudes who want her attention. She's got a line out the door, and you know this is true, of guys who want her attention. So you need to be that dude that has that extra thing about him that all other guys don't have. Now, most guys don't use this.

1:45 So if you do use this, you're going to separate yourself from the rest of the sea donkeys who don't know what the fuck they're doing. And that's why you're listening to this podcast, because I give the good information. I give you guys what actually works. And I know this because not only have I been in the field for dozens of years myself, but also because of all the testimonials I get from my three-month coaching program. And even you guys writing me just listening to my podcast saying, like, bro, I have, like, 5X my results with chicks just by deploying all the strategies that you teach.

2:16 And I appreciate that. I appreciate that so much, in fact, that if you leave me a review and or tell friends about this podcast and email me at CoachMarkSingh at gmail.com, I will send you a bunch of cool shit, including the conversation sniper, 150 deadly one-liners for building attraction, guide to the female orgasm, how to make a woman look like a screaming demon that just got hit with a tornado, and three texts to build massive attraction in women, impress your friends, baffle your enemies. I'm also going to send you a masterclass, something that I used to sell for $297, but I'm going to give to you, which is a masterclass about frame control, attraction building tactics, and there's even an NLP protocol included in there.

2:57 If you leave me a review, if you tell your friends about it, preferably more than one friend, if you could be so kind to text a couple friends and say, hey, check out this dude's podcast, the guy knows what the fuck he's talking about, then just email me at CoachMarkSingh at gmail.com, and I will send you all that cool shit. So your action item list is to leave a review, please, preferably a five-star review with some writing behind it, or tell some friends about it, which is actually my preference.

3:22 Or if you could be so kind to post it to some kind of forum where there's a lot of people on there and say, hey, I listen to this podcast, it's really good, you guys should check it out, I'd really, really appreciate that. All right, so jealousy plot lines, what is this? It's exactly what it sounds like. You create an instance where she can get jealous of another girl. Oftentimes, women will not realize they're attracted to you until they feel jealousy for you over another girl.

3:49 Because unlike us, attraction for women happens very slowly sometimes. It takes time to assess whether or not you're confident. It takes time to assess whether or not you have those attractive qualities like being ambitious, being passionate, being funny, being charismatic, and all these different things. So it takes a lot longer for women to become attracted to us than it takes for us to be attracted to a woman. So oftentimes, a girl will be attracted to you and not really know it until she sees another girl hitting on you, flirting with you, or you flirting with another girl.

4:21 Then immediately, she realizes what's going on, and she's going to be much more likely to try to get in the way of that, try to commit to you, and then that puts you in the power position. Now, as I oftentimes like to do, I'm going to relate this to you via a story, and this is a really interesting story that actually happened to Marissa's sister, Amy. Now, Marissa's my woman, and just like Marissa's really beautiful, Amy is absolutely gorgeous. So Mike, who's now Amy's husband, first hit on Amy when they worked together.

4:53 So what happened is Amy was basically interviewing people, and Mike's friend already worked at the company. And Mike's like, oh, dude, you're going to interview with Amy? She's a total babe. And it's always funny we laugh about it because that's literally what he said. He's like, she's a total babe. So Mike, being one of the most charismatic people I've ever met in my life, went into the interview and was just dropping the charisma bombs. And it's funny because he actually did something I don't recommend, which was he hung out after the interview, and he wouldn't leave.

5:22 And she's like, okay, the interview is done. You could go away. And he's like, yeah, so anyway, let's talk about you. And he started talking to her, kind of flirting with her, which I don't necessarily encourage. However, he's so damn charismatic that he was able to get away with it. Well, he was hired by the company. And from that point forward, anytime there was a meeting, he'd go sit by her, he'd drop by her desk and drop charisma bombs. He's just a very charismatic individual. So it doesn't surprise me that he was eventually able to land Amy, who's notoriously picky.

5:54 She would blow out guys left and right. She's super picky, just like her sister, Marissa, because they're hot girls, dude. They can be picky, but it wasn't until Amy and Mike went to a party and Mike was flirting with a different girl did Amy finally realize that she was attracted to him. So he's flirting with this chick, and Amy says, and she's told this story many times, she saw him flirting with that girl and got fucking pissed and realized at that moment, that's my man. And that's how she explains it.

6:24 She's like, the moment I saw him flirting with that other girl, I realized that's my man. Think about that gentleman. He had her attracted, but it was so subconscious that perhaps on some level, she didn't realize it. Certainly the conscious level. Until he was flirting with a different girl, showing that he's charismatic, he's attractive, and she felt those emotions. This is the epitome of jealousy plotline. Plotline, like the story that the movie follows, and you're putting jealousy into it. And you can do this quite purposefully.

6:56 In fact, this is something that I strongly recommend if and when you're doing a campaign on a girl, for example. A campaign is exactly what Mike did to Amy. He did multiple touches over several months, dropping charisma in the meetings, maybe taking her out to lunch, going by her desk and dropping some funny joke or whatever it was. Then she gets more and more attracted to him over time. And like I said previously, women's attraction usually takes longer than our attraction, which takes, what, 0.3 seconds? You see a girl, she's hot, you're fucking attracted to her.

7:27 There's no questions. But with women, it takes time. So we oftentimes nurture that attraction with a campaign, doing multiple touches over multiple days, weeks, or months. And then when the time is right, you deploy the jealousy plotline. Simply talking to another girl in front of her. Flirting with another girl in front of her. Asking her advice about a girl who you're dating who's kind of getting Stalker Texas Ranger on you. And this is something I strongly suggest, particularly if you want to get out of the friend zone.

7:58 Do you know the best way to get out of the friend zone? It's to make her a friend, push her away, show her you're no longer interested in her, stop doing her favors, stop fluffing her feathers and blowing smoke up her ass. And asking her advice about another girl. And here's how you do it. You say, so, hey, Amy, and this is something Mike could have done. So, Amy, I'm dating this girl right now. Do you mind if I ask your advice about something she's doing?

8:22 And Amy's like, oh, yeah, sure. And you say, well, this girl's name is Kelly, and she's a model. She's really pretty, and she's kind of full of herself. But anyway, she keeps fucking texting me. I can't get her to stop. It's like 10 a.m. to 2 a.m. It's just endless. Good morning text. Good night text. What are you doing right now, text? And I'm like, oh, it's 3 a.m. I'm sleeping. How do I get this girl to back down? Now, what you're doing is not only creating that jealousy plot line, but you're also showing her that you get hot girls.

8:52 You're asking about a situation, about a girl who's really attractive. She's a model. And then you kind of diffuse the bragging aspect of that by saying she's kind of full of herself. What do I do in the situation where this girl's basically stalking me? Which communicates what? That girls get really attracted to you. They can't hold themselves. They lose their shooter, marble, bro, because you're such a legend. That's how attractive you are. And this is sub-communicated with, again, that jealousy plot line instilled on top of it.

9:21 Now, even better than this is talking to other girls in the nightclub when you're working on a target. Now, there's always a diminishing level of returns where if you flirt too much with a girl, you get too handsy. Or worse yet, you start making out with the chick in front of the other girl who you're trying to get. It's going to blow up in your face. But if you're hands off, you're just charismatic the way Mike was when Amy was watching him, just dropping charisma bombs, making girls laugh, obviously getting that girl attracted to you, but not acting on it, so, so powerful.

9:54 So, jealousy plot lines are done in the way of storytelling. You ask her advice about something. You tell stories about a girl who you went on a couple dates with, and now she won't stop stalking you. She just showed up on your LinkedIn and Facebook profile, and she won't leave you alone is really powerful. But again, better yet, is talking to a girl in front of her at a party get-together nightclub. So, in the case of Mike and Amy, Mike, and I don't even think he realized he was doing this, was talking to those other girls because he was probably running the campaign on Amy.

10:27 Thought that Amy maybe was not interested in him. So, he's like, fuck it. I'm a charismatic guy. I'm going to go talk to other girls. In so doing, he inadvertently fell ass-backwards into this concept. A girl oftentimes will not realize that she's attracted to you until she sees you flirting with other girls and sees that other girls are interested in you. So, Amy told me that at that moment, she's like, that's my man. I'm going to get him. And she actually invited him to go on a date, to hang out, whatever it was, and they hooked up that night.

10:58 So, this is how powerful it is, gentlemen. When you set up a story or a situation where women can get jealous of another woman, it works to your favor almost every single time. The only caveat is when you make it too obvious. When you make it so obvious that you're trying to make her jealous that you will touch the girl in a way that isn't correct or kiss the girl for God's sakes or tell the story in a way that's so obvious you're trying to get her jealous, then it blows up in your face.

11:27 So, it's one of those things that works really well if done very subtly. And you have to be intelligent, socially intelligent about this. You do it very subtly. You don't lay it on too thick. You don't make it obvious the way some people do. And you only do it in limited supplies. This is like hot sauce. Just a little bit goes a long way when you're putting it in your soup, bro. When you go to your favorite faux restaurant, probably name something like faux sure. You ever notice that?

11:53 They always name faux restaurants like faux sure, faux real, faux get about it, right? These stupid fucking play on words. But you go into that faux restaurant, you just need a little bit of that sriracha sauce. It's the same thing. Just a little bit. You guys have all seen where females in particular will really try to get you jealous. Like, oh, yeah, my friend Mike, he's so into me. Aren't you threatened by him? And you're like, no, I'm glad he's into you. It's just a compliment to me.

12:20 That's the way I take it. Obviously, boys, you never want to show jealousy when a woman's trying to get you jealous. But you do want to get women jealous in a very subtle way with those things called jealousy plot lines, which, again, are stories you tell or talking in a very charismatic, value-giving way to women at the nightclub, party, bar, wherever you happen to be so that they get attracted to you and the girl who your target is gets more attracted to you because of it.

12:48 The mistake happens when you act on it. You start touching her too much. You show too much interest. That's the mistake. So what Mike did correctly was talking to those girls at the party, dropping charisma bombs as he's apt to do. They get attracted to him. They start making eyes at him. And then Amy realizes that Mike is attractive. The rest is history. Now we're going to get into pre-selection, part two. Pre-selection means when you have women with you, particularly attractive women, women will get attracted to you.

13:20 Brothers, I cannot express to you how powerful this is. If I take any single one of you guys listening, yes, brother, even you, the dude who thinks he looks like a chicken McNugget with tits or a turnip standing vertically with a penis on who's bald, who's bald ugly, has warts all over his face, and who looks like an unfrozen caveman, put three hot girls on his arms, send them into the nightclub, and watch what happens. Because if you walk in with three hot girls, all the other girls are like, what is it about this guy?

14:01 Almost better, gentlemen, and listen really closely to this. Almost better if you're not attractive, if you shouldn't, quote unquote, have hot girls with you. Does it work if you walk in with three hot girls into a nightclub? So oftentimes guys don't have three hot girls to walk around with. Probably 90% of you listening right now are like, great, okay? I need pre-selection. I don't have anybody. And I will tell you this too. If you grab a girl off the street and say, hey, will you take a picture with me?

14:28 And she takes a picture with you. You can tell in the picture that she's not really your friend. She's just some chick who you grabbed off the street to take a picture with. So that too won't work with you. By the way, why is it that we can tell that she's just some chick off the street? There's no compliance. She's not facing you. She's not touching you. Her smile is not really genuine. She's not super into you. So women can tell when they look at that picture that it's a staged picture.

14:54 It's not really legit. So that stacks the chips further against you. Well, you might say, I don't have chicks in my life. I can't go on the street or in the nightclubs and ask random hotties to take pictures with me. So what do I do? Here's what you do. And this is what I suggest for any guy who's starting and who's struggling. And before I say this, I want to let you know that this is probably the third most powerful thing you could do to up your game.

15:18 First most powerful is, of course, fix the belief systems in your head. So you act with complete natural confidence. That alone will get you laid. Second most important thing is frame control. Third most important thing is probably value or pre-selection. So what you do is you invest a little bit of money and you go to one of the following websites. One of the websites is Model Mayhem. Most cities in our country, at least the United States, have a Model Mayhem in them where you can hire models to come out with you.

15:46 The second website is Seeking.com where hot girls will get on that website in order to find sugar daddies. But they're also open to being a model for you. The best I've ever found on Seeking.com are probably an eight or a nine, but a nine is good enough for what we're doing. So what you do is you hire these girls to come out with you. Make sure they have compliance. One of the best ways to do that is you don't touch them, but you have them touch you.

16:12 So for example, their arms are on your back and your hands are kind of in your pockets. Or you're standing with your arms crossed and they're trying to kiss your cheek. Do you know how gangster that is? If you have a picture of you with your arms crossed and you kind of have a grimace on your face like your aunt is giving you a kiss, but there's two super hot chicks kissing each cheek, you are going to get so much status from that. You have no idea.

16:36 So you hire these girls to come out with you or you have hot friends just by virtue of like your sister has a hot friend and you can sit her down and tell her about this and say, hey, I really want your help, maybe even kick her some money, whatever it is, or you just happen to have hot friends at work that you could tell about this. However you can angle it, get like two to three hot girls come out with you. Take a bazillion pictures.

16:58 Whether you hire a professional photographer, which is what I suggest, or you have your buddy come with you and take pictures with your phone, whatever you decide to do, you take 450,631 million fucking pictures so that what you do, bro, and here it is, post them on Instagram. Instagram is literally the pre-selection nuclear bomb that is being dropped in her lap every time a hot girl follows you. So you go out, take all these pictures, show pre-selection. You can even take these three hot chicks into the nightclub, paying them like 150 bucks each for four hours of work.

17:35 They bring a couple different outfits, you guys get changed, you bring some outfits, take 60 million pictures. Meanwhile, you're in the nightclub with these three hot chicks, you're yanking phone numbers from girls who are there. Then you post all these pictures to your Instagram, making it look like time has been spent in the nightclubs, you got hot girls with you. I would even do it where we bring some skateboards or like some golf clubs and do a bunch of different scenes. Then you post it to your Instagram, then when you get a girl's phone number, you don't even go for the phone number.

18:06 You go for the Instagram. You say, hey, you seem pretty cool. Do you have IG? And she's like, oh yeah, for sure. Be like, cool, follow me. And then you type it up in her phone. She follows you. You follow her. Bam. Pre-selection nuclear warhead that gets dropped on her fucking lap. Now she's looking at it. And what did I just tell you? Women often don't know they're attracted to you and tell two things, jealousy plot lines and number two, pre-selection, other hot girls with you.

18:32 She sees now that you have high value. You have high value friends who are into you. Doesn't really look like you're hooking up with them. You're just fun. You're going out, having a good time. You're with all these hot girls showing that you're pre-selected, which of course is where that word pre-selection comes from. Then she's going to DM you back when you DM her. Gentlemen, if I was broken up with by Marissa today, which I hope doesn't happen because I absolutely love her, or if God forbid I lose my shooter marble and I break up with her, the first thing I would do is exactly what I just told you.

19:04 Fortunately, I have very attractive friends who I would say, hey, let's go out, take a million pictures. I'd restart my Instagram with all these hot girls with me and then watch the new chicks come in. So if you can post those to your Instagram by, worst case scenario, hiring hot girls come out with you, gangster level shit. How much do I have to pay? A lot of you guys are asking. I think 150 for four hours per girl. We're looking at 450 bucks there. Then maybe another 100 bucks for a photographer.

19:32 You're looking at 550, 600 bucks. I know for a lot of you, that's a lot of money, but for some of you, it's doable. And if I were single, that would be the play. Then I would go out and cold approach. Then I'd get on probably about five different dating apps and hit up tons of girls and say, hey, I don't really talk on here. Let's move this over to Instagram. Your Instagram is your pre-selection funnel, bro-tendo, where you send girls into it. You are filling the top of that funnel, just like pouring gasoline into a funnel into the tank on your motorcycle.

20:04 You're putting them in there as much as you can. And then all of them are seeing that pre-selection. All of them are getting that slight jealousy plot line. And then they're getting more attracted to you because of it. So that if you hit them up with something totally boring over DM, like, hey, they'll actually reply. Rather than having a picture of you on your Instagram sitting in your grandmother's lap during your 14th birthday where she's feeding you a fucking piece of cake, or you driving your mom's Astrovan with AYSO soccer mom sticker on the back, looking low value.

20:36 We have to look high value. We do interesting things. We have access to scarce resources. And gentlemen, we are surrounded by hot girls. Even if, yes, you have to fabricate it in some way, fabricate it correctly. Do not be the dude who goes out and says, hey, can I get a picture with you? Meanwhile, the chick is standing, not facing you with her arms folded with a grimace on her face. And you're like, hey, and you're all stoked and shit. You could tell it's staged and you could tell it's low value.

21:02 So invest in yourself, gentlemen. If at the very least you don't have hot friends around you, such as co-workers or even family members, then fucking hire them. I am telling you, this is so unbelievably powerful to get girls attracted to you. Pre-selection is a part of the jealousy plot line. Sometimes women will not know they're attracted to you until they feel jealousy. Think about that one. They won't even know. You've been dropping value, charisma bombs. You've been crushing it. But it isn't until that other female shows up in your life that this female realizes she's attracted to you.

21:39 And look what happened with Mike. As I've said, he's one of the most charismatic people I've ever met in my life. And he probably didn't even know that he was deploying the jealousy plot line. But he did because he's social. He's talkative. He's an extrovert. And now that you know this, you always want to talk to girls around girls, gentlemen. And this too is mapped into women's subconscious mind where women are actually attracted to guys who women are attracted to. Even, we could say, a player.

22:10 Because if a player is getting attraction from a ton of girls, it's a cognitive shortcut. If a girl's standing there and she sees you talking to all these girls and they're all attracted to you, she's like, okay, he's high value. I don't have to assess his confidence. I don't have to assess his passion, his personality, his risk-taking, his ambition, his ability to lead me, to frame control me, to pass my requests, and to do all the things that I teach you guys, he's already approved of.

22:36 He's pre-selected because all these other girls are getting attracted to him. Therefore, I'm attracted to him. And I want you to understand, this isn't a logical thought. Logically, women may say to you, I hate the fact that you talk to girls all the time, which has been told to me a million times. But yet, I'm attracted to you, Mark, is what they'll say after they say, I hate that you talk to all these girls. Boys, I have literally heard this sentence on multiple occasions. I fucking hate you, Mark, but I'm in love with you.

23:05 Think about that, boys. I hate you, which is conscious level. I hate that you talk to girls. I hate that you're a player. All the girls want you, but I'm in love with you and I can't help it because you're pre-selected, because other girls want you. And yes, because you have good belief systems, you've worked on yourself, you've manned the fucked up and faced your traumas, bad beliefs, and everything else with NLP. You have a strong frame. You have confidence. You know how to lead me to where I want to be led.

23:32 Mix all this together and add in the Instagram page with all these hot girls on it, showing compliance to you. And they're all eights and above. Dude, you're done, bro. You are done. I will take a mountain troll and put three hot women on his arms. He will get laid that night, even if he doesn't have game and frame. But throw game and frame on top of it. Throw the belief systems on top of it. It's over, brother. It's like killing an ant with a nuclear warhead.

23:58 And I'm very careful about how I say nuclear, which is funny because so many people get butt hurt if you say nuclear rather than the way it's supposed to be pronounced, new clear. So it's new and then clear, like a clear glass of water. You can't say nuclear because you'll literally get 10 emails from people who get butt who have nothing better to do with their time than to email a coach like me correcting me because nothing feels better to the ego than feeling like you're right.

24:26 So if any of you guys email coaches or people like, oh, you said that wrong. You shouldn't have done this. You're incorrect here. I question your ego, brother. You should question your own ego because dude, if you're taking time to do that, there's an issue there. But for the rest of you champions, consider this jealousy plot line. Set that up either by talking about other girls or talking to other girls in front of her who are attracted to you. And then number two, pre-selection. Hiring if you have to hot girls to take pictures with you that you post on your Instagram.

24:56 Or even just hiring them to come out with you to make you look like a complete boss. If you have three hot chicks with you and a freaking cameraman with a bright light who's video recording you and taking pictures of you, girls are going to open you. Hot girls are going to open you. Ever want to feel like a rock star? That's how you do it, brother. I just gave you the ticket to get your rock star status. Yet still, tons of you guys won't do it, which boggles my mind.

25:24 It's just like my coaching program. I just can't understand why more people don't apply. I'm getting a shit ton of applications, but it's like doesn't make sense to me when I feel like I have a once in a generation program that changes every single guy's life who comes through the program. Literally 10x is his results with women, yet people still don't apply. There is a lot of fear out there, a lot of procrastination, lots of mistrust out there. And that's what I base it on. You simply don't trust me.

25:51 You don't trust yourself. You're too prideful. You don't think you can do it. You make the money excuse, even though I have financing. It's all these excuses that we hear time and time again. So don't let yourself make the excuse of, I can't do that. I can't do that pre-selection thing. I'm too old to have Instagram or too young to have Instagram. Whatever your excuse is, all your excuses are lies. So I want you to think about how you can deploy this shit because it's just that powerful.

26:17 Watch how this will at least 5x your results with women in literally a snap of the finger. Gentlemen, I do appreciate you listening. As a reminder, if you leave me a review, if you tell a couple friends about this podcast, if you spread the love and let everybody know just how quality the content is that I drop on this bad Jackson, email me at coachmarksing at gmail.com. You can also find my email address in the description below. I will send you three awesome programs and a masterclass to show you how to attract women on command, flip attraction hot switches unconsciously.

26:51 She won't even know what's happening. And then you drop the pre-selection in. It's over, brother. You're going to be like, Mark, I haven't seen the light of day for three weeks because I've been just having constant sex. It's just like they come in, they leave, and the next one comes in. I haven't even washed my sheets. My sheets look like a brothel, dude. That's how much ass I'm getting. And I'll be like, told you, bro, pre-selection works, frame control works, what I teach works. So tell your friends about it, email me, and I will send you all that awesome shit.

27:19 I drop podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays, so please stay tuned for the next one. And I will see you in the next episode. I'll see you in the next episode.

This transcript was made automatically, so a few words may be off.