Episode 585 · August 5, 2024 · 20 min
How to Cause a Girl to Have a Sex Dream About You (Embedded Commands & Psychic Dark Magic)
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What if I told you that it's possible to quite literally will a girl you like into having a sexual dream about you.
Through the power of manifestation and projecting the right type of energy out in the world, not only is this completely possible, but it's actually a great tool to get a girl sprung on you.
Does having the girl you like experiencing sex dreams about you sound appealing? Then you need to listen to today's episode as Mark will walk you through step-by-step exactly how to achieve this.
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How to catch a lizard in the woods. Well, first of all, a lizard is very difficult to catch with your bare hand. You try to approach that lizard and he's going to scurry right away. So what do you do? Well, go into the woods and grab yourself a stick that's about the size of your arm. Then dig up some roots from a coniferous tree or perhaps a deciduous tree. My favorite tree to use is sear. Once you got that pliable string-like root, what you want to do is tie a little noose at the end.
Now you got yourself a lizard fishing stick. Go over to a lizard and slowly, very methodically, swing that loop just around his head. You'll be amazed he won't even realize what's happening. Why is that? It's because lizards are used to foliage as well as trees, grasses, and different kinds of sticks getting right next to their head so he won't even notice. Once you got it over his neck, give it a big tug and you got yourself a lizard. Take that lizard over to the fire and skewer him just like he's a little green shish kebab.
Cook him over the fire until he's crispy black and then go ahead and dig on in. A jar of moonshine is optional. Welcome to the Unapologetic Man podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, you champions? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. You clicked on this because you want to learn how to make a girl have a sex dream about you. Little did you know that instead I was going to teach you how to catch a lizard in the woods.
I thought that was pretty funny and yes, that was me. Don't know what you think of my southern accent, but I probably just saved your life, bro. If you get stuck in the woods and you need to eat something, it's actually true. You just make a little loop out of some natural foliage and you can just swing it over their neck and yank them and catch lizards that way. It's crazy. I've actually done it myself. But did you guys know that the most common way people die in the woods is hypothermia, freezing to death, getting too cold?
That's why it's important to always carry a lighter with you when you go into the woods or some kind of way to make a fire. Because if you ever get lost in the woods, the thing you want to do is build a big fire, just stand next to it the entire night, and then try to affect self-rescue or wait for somebody to rescue you. So I just told you two things that are going to save your life. First of all, bring a lighter, matches, a feral rod, some kind of way to start a fire in the woods.
Secondly, if you see a lizard and you're starved mania and devil, you can catch that fucker with the strategy that I just taught you. So you're welcome. But you didn't click into this to learn how to survive in the woods. No, you want to cause that hot little girl to have a sex dream about you and brothers, I got you on this one. Little warning about this. First of all, we are going to get into some esoteric, psychic, woo-woo kind of shit. So if you don't like that stuff, then kick rocks with your head down.
Don't let the door hit you where the good Lord split you. Beat it, you sea donkey, because this isn't for you. If, on the other hand, you're open-minded to these kinds of things, or at the very least, you're interested in hearing what it is, then stay tuned because this is some interesting stuff. So to begin this episode, I want to ask you, have you ever had a sex dream about a girl? That's almost as obvious as asking you if you've ever beat off before because we both know the answer.
Of course, you've had a sex dream about a girl probably waking up in a pool of your own cum, and you're like, God to the hell, bro, this is such a Hasselhoff. Got to change your underwear. Got to change your sheets. And you're like living at your mom's house, and you're like sneaking your sheets by your mom so she doesn't know. A lot of crazy shit happens because of our goddamn sexuality, man. And I know some of you guys are so horny you'd fuck a snake if you could hold it straight.
So obviously, you've had a sex dream about a girl because when you're attracted to somebody, it's quite natural. We go into sleep, and we subconsciously want to have sex with this person. So what does our brain do? It creates a sex dream about that person, and sometimes they can be pretty damn good. I'm sure a lot of you guys have had really good ones. But the question is, can we cause a girl to have a sex dream about us? And the answer to that question is unequivocally, yes.
Absolutely, you can do it. I've done it myself, and this shit is pretty woo-woo, pretty freaky. And when it works, it's even more freaky. You're going to be like, oh, my hell, that shit actually worked. Because, boys, there's a lot more happening behind the curtain. There's a lot more psychic connections, I believe, than what we think we have. A lot of people just think that your thoughts are your own. You're not psychically connected to people. You can't exchange energies in a way where you can pick up on their vibe.
But look at the evidence in your life. Have you ever known something was going to happen before it happened? Have you ever thought of somebody, and they called you? Have you ever had a situation where you just knew what the person was thinking, and you were able to tell them what they were thinking before they even spoke up? Or coincidences happen in your life that you think are just too damn crazy to be coincidences? Now, when it comes to my own belief systems, I believe there are no coincidences.
I believe that you're putting energy out there. You're attracting like energy. There is definitely such things as psychic abilities. We even have what are called etheric cords that are psychic cords that go between people, especially those that you love. And that's why you have these quote-unquote coincidences. So we're going to leverage this stuff. We're going to use this stuff to hopefully get this girl to have a sex dream about us. Now, obviously, boys, the more the girl is attracted to you, the more likely this is to happen.
That's why you need to be constantly attractive using the gambits that I use, using the techniques that I use to try to get her attracted to you. Now, if you're trying to make some chick have a sex dream about you and she doesn't even know who you are, sorry, brother, this isn't the podcast for you. If you're obsessed with like Ariana Grande or Jennifer Lawrence or some shit like that, and you're like, oh, I want to make them have a sex dream about me. Come on, bro.
Let's get realistic. This is a girl that you know, probably a girl in your friends group, maybe a girl you know at work, or hopefully and even better, a girl that's already mildly attracted to you, who you're talking to. Obviously, it goes without saying, the more attracted she is to you, the more likely she's going to have this sex dream about you. But I have used this effectively corroborated later by her admitting it to me on a girl who had absolutely no attraction for me until the sex dream happened.
And that's the beauty of this causing her to have a sex dream is it can ignite a very deep sense of attraction for you. And then when that happens, you want to act on it. So preferably we're being constantly attractive. She's already attracted to us, but let's go with the general situation. Where it's a girl in your friends group, a girl at work who probably isn't attracted to you yet, and you want to get her to have a sex dream about you. That's going to be the basis.
You can pivot and leverage depending on your own situation with this girl, but that's the basic situation. So first and foremost, we have to, as I mentioned, be as attractive as possible. That includes showing a high-value lifestyle, being charismatic, being confident, making her laugh, and giving her less of us than what she actually wants. Let's say, for example, it's a girl at work who you talk to and you make laugh. You want to be walking away while she's laughing. This is going to make her want more from you.
It's going to build attraction slowly over what I call a campaign, which is multiple touches over a somewhat long period of time, days, weeks, or even months, where you're dropping charisma bombs, making her laugh, and then dipping out before she's had enough of you. So that's the foundation. We have frame. We have game. We're constantly trying to get her attracted to us by using these techniques. Second thing you're going to do, especially if she's just a friend, a coworker, a girl that you're not dating, is I want you to ask her for advice about a girl that you are dating.
And this, by the way, boys, is one of the best ways to get out of the friend zone. How do you get out of the friend zone? Treat her like a friend. Start asking her advice about other chicks that you're dating and showing her that you're attractive. So one of the biggest things that I do when I'm trying to get a girl attracted to me who's just a friend or an acquaintance is to ask her advice and talk about how the girl's really pretty. She's a model, but she won't leave me alone.
And the advice that I ask the girl is, how do I get this girl to step off? How do I get her to leave me alone? Because she's like stalker Texas ranger in this shit. I literally feel like she's probably in my backyard right now in a ghillie suit with the sniper rifle trained on my forehead as I'm dancing naked in my window, which I do every night at 9 p.m. So we want to communicate that pre-selection. We have other girls in our lives. Those other girls like us.
And boys, I always use this on girls who I'm targeting. I ask them advice about other girls I'm dating who, and I just slip this in, real innocuous, who are really pretty, who are models, but who are just coming on too strong. I can't get them to step off. How do I get this girl to relax? How do I get her to step off? Could you please teach me that? So now when you're asking her that kind of advice, she's starting to see you in a different light.
Rather than just being Mark her friend, I'm Mark the dude who girls are sexually attracted to. This unlocks something in her subconscious mind to give her the potential to equally be sexually attracted to you as well. Once you have that going and you feel like you have a nice foundation, we're going to use a couple embedded commands. Embedded commands are things that we use in NLP to command somebody to do something. Here's an example. Hey, bro, don't love my podcast. Don't do it. Just don't love my podcast.
Don't love me. Don't fall in love with me now. When the subconscious mind hears anything with don't in the sentence, for some reason it drops off the word don't. And when I say something like, don't fall in love with me now, what the subconscious mind hears is, fall in love with me now. This again is called an embedded command. We use it in NLP to give a command that's embedded inside a sentence that otherwise looks like an innocent sentence. So what we want to do is tell her subconscious mind to dream about us.
And one of the ways to do that is to say, I always dream about me traveling to Greece. For example, I always dream about me traveling to Greece. Did you hear that? Dream about me. That's the embedded command. And what we used to do in NLP, I don't really do it anymore, but in emails, we would change the entire email to one shade lighter than black, just one shade lighter. And then all the embedded commands would be in dark black. But looking at it with the naked eye, you can't really tell, but things would be dark black, such as like me, trust me, connect with me, fall in love with me, whatever it would be, we would put those into our writing and you could do that in speech.
Another example would be, yeah, I always dream about me water skiing around the world. It's one of my big dreams. I dream about me water skiing. I dream about me having all kinds of money and just doing whatever the hell I want. So obviously what you're doing is you're saying dream about me over and over again. And I'm telling you boys, though it's very subtle, though it's very subliminal, I have seen this work in crazy ways throughout my life. That's why I kind of call it black magic is because when you do these in the right way, people will behave as you want them to.
There's an illusionist in the UK called Darren Brown. Some of you guys have heard of him, some haven't. But what he does is he seemingly reads people's minds. So he says, I want you to think of a number between one and 10. And then he's like, you're thinking of nine, aren't you? And they're like, what the fuck? How did you do that? Well, when I first started watching him years ago, I used to think there were subtle cues in their mannerisms, maybe their eyes shift a certain way.
How does he do it? The way he does it is he's controlling their experience before he actually asks them the question, what number are you thinking of? Leading up to that moment, they are seeing nines all over the place in their environment. So he's literally setting up nine wallpaper. He has a nine teddy bear on his couch. He has a nine next to his garage. Maybe his address is a nine. So they're constantly seeing nine leading up to that moment where he's like, what number are you thinking?
Because they've been seeing it the whole time, they act on it. And by the way, this is the way advertisers get you. Coca-Cola, Pepsi, and everything else, they're constantly subliminally showing you messaging so you act on it unconsciously. And this too can be done in embedded commands in language. If you tell a girl over and over again, don't fall in love with me now, what her subconscious mind hears is, fall in love with me now. And yeah, man, it's some black magic shit to make a girl sprung on you.
And it does work. The next step is gonna be a psychic visualization that's definitely gonna make you masturbate. All right, so prepare yourself, bro. Have whatever masturbation station you got set up for yourself ready to go because this is gonna fuck you up. The process is like this. You're gonna lay in bed and you are gonna think as clearly as possible you having sex with this girl that you wanna have a sex dream about you. You're gonna think about what she looks like in your bed, her naked, the noises she makes.
You need to feel her. You need to smell her. You need to hear her in the clearest way possible. And I want you to imagine that for 15 minutes. Yes, I know, boys. Your dick is coming out. You're gonna rub one out. And hey, that's okay. What you're doing is putting out energy into the universe of you and her having sex. So this needs to be as clear as possible. And I want you to consistently ask yourself one of the most important questions when it comes to manifesting your desires.
What would it feel like if? I talked about this in one of my all-time favorite podcast episodes, which was tactical visualizations. I've literally listened to that thing five times because in my opinion, it's one of the biggest secrets to unlock your desires. If you haven't heard that yet, search tactical visualization. It's so good. But the premise of that theory is when you ask yourself what would it feel like if you begin to feel the feelings of whatever it is that you want to experience and then it manifests in your reality because the way life works is this.
First, you think of the picture, then you paint it, then you step inside of it. Thinking of the picture and painting it is you literally experiencing it. You want to be rich? You have to feel what it's like to be rich first. It's the be, do, have methodology. First, you have to be rich, then you'll do rich stuff, and then you'll have riches. It doesn't work the other way around. Once I get rich, then I'll feel rich. No, no, no, no, no. You have to feel rich first.
You have to feel like a girl magnet first. And when having sex with this girl in your mind, you have to feel it as if she's there, almost to the point where you don't even need to have sex with her anymore because you've done it so clearly in your mind. That is going to put energy out towards her soul, her spirit, that psychic etheric cord that's connected between you and her is humming. And that vibrational energy of you imagining this is going straight into her and it's going to start popping up in her head.
The next thing you do is send her a message and you say 10 different times, have a sex dream about me, Sarah. Have a sex dream about me, Sarah. Sarah, I want you to have a sex dream about me. Dream about me, Sarah. Dream about me. And you just put it out there 10 times, 20 times, whatever feels right and really push it into the ether, push it through that psychic etheric cord if you're like me and you believe those exist all the way to her subconscious mind. You're going to do this at a time that you think she's going to bed.
So if you believe she goes to bed 10, 30, 11, you'll do it at like 10, 30, 11 because then you're getting into that window of her subconscious. Now, you've been constantly attractive, hopefully. You've talked to her about other girls. You've done some embedded commands. You've visualized for 15 minutes having really great sex with her. And now you're calling her through that etheric phone cord, if you will, telling her to have a sex dream about you. I am telling you, gentlemen, this shit works. I have proven it by doing it to girls and literally asking about it later, saying, hey, so when we were starting to talk, do you ever have a sex dream about me?
And they'll be like, oh my God, yes, I did. And I'm always like, yeah, I had one about you too. I wonder if we were already connected. Girls love that kind of stuff. So if and when she has that sex dream about you, she's probably going to act a little bit differently around you, at which time you would be wise to execute trying to get her phone number, trying to push the relationship to the next level, because this dumps a lot of attraction into the female mind.
For those of you who have had sex dreams, which I'm assuming is about 95% of you, you know what it's like too. Even if the girl isn't that attractive, if you have a sex dream about her, you kind of want to see her the next day and you kind of look at her differently, don't you? You're like, damn, dude, like I wasn't really attracted to Sarah, but goddamn, that dream kind of fucked me up. I kind of want to get her now. But that window only lasts a couple of days, as you know.
So if you see some different behavior on her part, violated pupils asking you personal questions, coming into your personal space, wanting to hang around you more, laughing at jokes that aren't funny, blushing a little bit, and all importantly, licking her lips, then you need to execute, maybe go for a number, say, hey, we should hang out sometime, because that sex dream has made her more attracted to you. Now, does this work 100% of the time for every single guy? Obviously not, bro. This is some woo-woo shit, some psychic shit, some like dark magic, quote unquote shit.
But in my opinion, why not stack the chips in your favor and do everything you can to yank that girl that you really want? If Marissa broke up with me and I happened to be chatting at a girl at the gym that I really wanted to bang, I'd do this. Straight up, I'd do this. Because it does work, especially if you have a high level of concentration. Always asking yourself, what would it be like if, dude, what would it be like if that girl was just on my dick right now, in my bed?
What would it smell like? What would it sound like? What would her tummy look like? Her skin? What would she feel like? I want you guys to feel it. And then yes, before you rub one out, just have a little bit of patience, control that red-helmeted warrior in your underwear, and do the entire visualization. And then I give you permission to rub one out. And maybe while you rub one out, you're focusing yet again on her. And then afterwards, you say, have a sex dream about me, Sarah.
Have a sex dream about me, Sarah. And you give her a command psychically to do so, it freaking works. Gentlemen, this is obviously the most woo-woo that I get in this podcast, but we as unapologetic men are willing to explore different things. We have an open mind. And as we evolve more as a society, as a race of humans, I believe that psychic abilities are coming to the forefront and more and more people believe that they exist. I am 100% convinced that they exist because I've had some crazy shit happen in my life, namely with my woman, Marissa.
I can read her mind, bro. I know what she's going to say. I think about her. She calls me. We can almost like communicate telepathically. It's fucking crazy. And that shit exists. So use it to your advantage. I hope you enjoyed this episode. As a reminder, I drop podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays. So please stay tuned for the next one. And I will see you in the next episode. I'll see you in the next episode.
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