Get What You Want OVERNIGHT With This Ancient Manifestation Secret (It's my Birthday!)

0:00 Mark Sing, this is the terrorist organization Jihad Jamboree, and we have a special message for you. As we speak, we are sitting outside your home in a Volkswagen Talavan. Here is our message for you, Mr. Sing. We are going to blow you up. Some balloons for your birthday. Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, gentlemen? Happy Monday, February 3rd. It's actually my birthday today, and I'm recording this because this is something that I've really wanted to share with you boys, wanted to wait for a special occasion.

0:56 That is indeed my birthday. Of course, right now, I'm probably not working. I'm probably doing something fun, but I'm recording this on Friday, and my birthday is on Monday when you're listening to this. I thought that intro was pretty funny. I yanked that from a podcast I did about three years ago. Jihad Jamboree coming at you from the reality of a Taliban, and they're going to blow me up some balloons for my birthday, which I thought was pretty funny. So guys, today I want to talk about a concept, which is to bless what you want to become.

1:26 And I'm going to illustrate this with a little story. I'm going to tell you about a friend of mine who basically has it all. And I want you guys to pay very close attention to this story because it's an important story. And not only is the story itself important, but it's going to clue you in into how you feel about certain things. So pay attention, get your thumb out of your butt, stop picking the lint out of your belly button, and let's get into the story of my buddy, Brian.

1:53 So my friend Brian is a complete fucking champion. You have never seen a dude who has accomplished so much in his life as Brian has. First of all, the dude is an absolute girl magnet. He's not necessarily good looking. He's not necessarily blessed with a lot of innate abilities to attract girls, but he, just like you, trained and he got good at attracting girls. And now the guy pulls nothing but bonafide tens. He is always surrounded by hot girls. He travels constantly. He's got hot girls with him all the time.

2:25 He has banged some of the hottest girls you've ever seen in your life. I'm talking Instagram models. I'm talking lingerie models, actresses, famous chicks, cheerleaders, you name it. This guy has been with them. Furthermore, he is a multi, multi-millionaire. He's worth well over $15 million. He used to have car dealerships and he sold them. And now basically all he does is what he wants to do. He travels around the world, eats at the best restaurants. He has a private jet. He gets all these chicks. He gets all this money.

2:56 The guy is living the good life. Now you may think to yourself, okay, the reason why he pulls girls is because he has all that money. That's not the reason he pulls all those girls. He does it with frame and game. Exactly what I teach you guys to do. Doesn't matter what you look like because like I said, he isn't that good looking. Doesn't matter how much money you have. Most of the time when he meets girls, he hides the fact that he has money, but yet he still pulls them because he has frame and game.

3:21 In addition to this, the guy is completely shredded. He's optimized his diet. He's optimized his workout routine and he has the body that he's always wanted. So look at this guy, boys, and think about this. Like really think about this dude's life. He gets all the girls he wants. He has utmost freedom to travel, do whatever he wants in his life. He's completely shredded. He lives the life that all of us want. Now, here's my question for you. How did you feel when I was telling you about Brian?

3:52 Were you feeling a little bit resentful? Were you feeling a little bit jealous? Were you feeling like you hope the guy is unceremoniously launched out of a catapult into the middle of the Atlantic Ocean? I want you to be down to the penny honest with yourself, and I want you to be honest with me. How did that make you feel? Like right now, think about it. How did it make me feel to think about this dude who gets every single girl I want, who gets all the money, he's got all the freedom, he's shredded, he's living the life that, frankly, boys, we all want to live.

4:22 How did that make you feel? Because the way that you felt is going to clue me as well as you into what your psychology is when it comes to trying to get to the level that you want to get to. Now, here's the whole point of this podcast. If you had any resentment towards this dude whatsoever, if you were hating on him and or if you were jealous of him, that is a problem. Because if you hate on something that you want to become on one level, another level of you is not going to let yourself become that.

4:55 It's going to prevent you from becoming that because it resents it. So if part of you resents money, for example, you say things like filthy rich, money is the root of all evil, filthy lucre, you are never going to allow yourself to become rich because you have resentment towards it. This is true a lot of the times with men that I coach. They are resentful towards guys like Brian who are good with women because they want to be good with women and because he has what they want, they're pissed off at him about it.

5:27 What does this show about their psychology if they're pissed off at Brian about him pulling? Well, a couple things. First of all, we automatically know that they have some bad belief systems around guys who are good with women. But secondly, when we go down to the root of the thing, it shows that they actually don't want to be like Brian because they're resenting him on some channel. So the way to get what you want, boys, and this is a huge secret that once I discovered it completely changed my life, is to bless those who you want to be like.

6:00 How many times have you seen a dude driving a nice car down the street and you're like, fuck that guy. I hate that guy. I hope his car gets keyed. I hope he gets into an accident. I hope he gets diarrhea later. I'm talking the kind of diarrhea where you're like trying to run to the bathroom and it starts spraying out of your butthole and it hits the fucking ceiling. The kind of diarrhea that you get in the middle of the day, you fall down in the kitchen and you're spraying it and you're spinning in the middle of your kitchen because the diarrhea is flying out of your butthole at such an alarming rate.

6:31 This is the kind of resentment that a lot of you guys are putting on to people who on one level you want to become like. Is your subconscious mind going to let you become rich if you believe that money is the root of all evil? Of course it won't. Will your subconscious mind allow you to get good with women if you believe such things as sex is wrong, guys who get lots of women are pieces of shit, and or the only way to attract lots of women is to break lots of hearts.

6:59 If you have these kinds of belief systems and you resent people who have what you want, once again, you're not going to get it. So what's the secret? The secret is to first of all recognize this, and I'm hoping is that what I'm saying here is giving a lot of you guys that kind of aha moment like, oh shit, he's right. I have been resentful towards XYZ thing. Once you realize that, you can wake up to the fact that you need to bless the people, honor them, respect them, congratulate them for accomplishing what you want.

7:29 In order for you to become a person like them. Now, on this note, there's a lot of you who felt jealousy about what Brian was able to accomplish. You're jealous that he doesn't have to work anymore. You're jealous that he has a G5 jet and he can fly anywhere he wants. You're jealous that he gets all kinds of girls. He's shredded. He has the dream life. If you're jealous, what does that communicate to your subconscious mind? That communicates that not only do you not have it, you don't believe you can have it.

7:59 And that's where jealousy kicks in. Look at this example. If you walk into a five-star restaurant and you know you're going to get a delicious porterhouse steak and you walk by a table and you see another dude eating a porterhouse steak, are you jealous of him? Of course you're not because you know you're about to have the same experience. Instead, your emotion is that of celebrating what he has, blessing him for what he has, saying, yeah, bro, get that steak because I'm about to eat it too.

8:28 So the fact that some of you may have felt jealous about what Brian has been able to accomplish communicates the fact that you fundamentally do not believe that you're going to have that experience. I get it. Envy is natural. Okay? I, too, want to be completely financially free, have a private jet because, dude, standing in TSA is one of the most nightmarish experience of our entire lives. I would love to avoid that at all costs. So, yeah, I'm envious of him too. But when it comes to my psychology about Brian, I'm always celebrating the guy.

9:00 I'm always saying, dude, you're a champion. You're a legend. Bless you, brother. Fucking get it, bro. Let's get some. And I celebrate with him because I know that I'm going to be there one day too. And you, brother, are going to be a girl magnet. You, if it's your desire, are going to be a multimillionaire. You're going to be completely shredded once you start blessing those people that have what you want. And that's the secret. You have to bless them. You have to celebrate them. You have to congratulate them.

9:30 And if any jealousy at all comes up, you have to understand that it's because you don't believe deep down that you could really have it. But once you realize that, as I always say, awareness alone is curative, you could take steps to remedy it simply by recognizing it. So the next time you see somebody pulling hot girls, bless that person. The next time you see somebody with money, say, hell yeah, bro, get some. The next time you hear about an actor getting paid $220 million to do a film, instead of saying, oh, man, you're a freaking thief.

10:02 Why don't you help people? Why don't you be better? Say instead, get them. Get some. Let's get that money and celebrate that person. Now, this also goes into giving value, which is the second part of this episode. Giving value means giving to others what you hope to get back to yourself. I teach this all the time in my coaching that if you want to get a girl's phone number, you first have to give her something. I get so many takers who come into my inbox. Mark, give me this.

10:30 Mark, answer this question for me. Mark, just let me take more from you, as if I haven't given enough already in this podcast. I know immediately when somebody comes to me with that kind of psychology that they're doing that in all aspects of their lives. And what is the universe? It's nothing but a mirror. So what you put out there, you're going to get back. So if you're a taker, what's going to happen? That's right, man. You're going to get taken from. If you're a giver, on the other hand, you are going to be given to.

11:01 Gentlemen, I make no apologies about how successful I am as a dating coach. I've been working extremely hard over the last decade to accomplish what I've been able to accomplish. And I'm going to be honest with you. It's been very lucrative. I've been very blessed, and I'm extremely appreciative for that. Not only have I been appreciative for the money I've been able to get, and by the way, I get that money because my coaching program is so damn effective, but I'm also extremely appreciative for you guys.

11:26 I give thanks every single day for each and every single one of you guys listening. And if you and I haven't met yet, brother, thank you. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart, man. I'm going to continue to try to give you value just like I'm doing now because I know when I give value through this podcast, I get back value in the form of money. But more importantly, in the form of clients who get successes that I could feel good about. So when you're going through your life, one of the most important concepts is to give what you hope to get back.

11:58 If you want to smile, you have to give a smile. If you want a girl to like you, you have to like her and see her for something that's of value. If you want to get money, you have to give money. Yes, boys, you should be donating at least 5% of your income to charities every month. And if you guys are living paycheck to paycheck, as I know some of you are, then you could give at least something to what you can afford. Even if it's a dollar to Habitat for Humanity or to St.

12:22 Jude or I like to donate to Action Against Hunger, give that money and it will come back to you. Because just like my previous point about blessing what you want to become, when you give what you want to get back, the universe is a mirror that gives exactly back to you what you give to others. I had a record month in January and to those of you who gave me any money whatsoever in January, sincerely from the bottom of my heart, I thank you. I hit a number that I never thought I'd be able to hit.

12:55 It's because I give value, I care about my clients, I try to give more than I ask for in return and I'm just getting so much back in abundance. So because I had that record month, my heart was open, I was feeling great and I was walking through the parking lot of Whole Foods the other day. And these two migrants came up to me and they had a little stroller with a baby in it. They looked like they were from like Mexico or Colombia or Venezuela or something.

13:19 They looked really migrant, like they've only been here for a couple of weeks and they were straight from Mexico or something. So I knew what they were going to do. They were going to ask me for money and I was going to give it to them because I always give money to homeless people. It doesn't matter what they do with the money. It's the act of giving that's most important. So as I expected, they came up to me and they're like, excuse me, sir, could you spare any money?

13:40 So I walked over to them and I could tell they were really struggling. They had a little one-year-old daughter in their stroller. You could tell they just got here from whatever country. And I asked them, what country are you guys from? And they're like, oh, we're from Venezuela. So I was like, yeah, okay, I'll kick you some money. So I opened my wallet and on one side, I had like three ones and a five. And at first I was like, I'll just give them all that, right?

14:01 I'll give them eight bucks. But then I look on the other side of my wallet and there were three 100s. And something inside me said, brother, hit them with the hundred. So I pull out the hundred and I give it to them and their eyes just get huge, man, like saucers. And then they both come up and hug me. First, the dude grabs onto me like he's like fighting for his life and I'm like a life raft. Next, the girl starts hugging both of us. And meanwhile, the baby's kind of in its stroller and they're sitting there hugging me in the middle of the parking lot for literally 10 seconds.

14:32 It felt like two minutes, man. I'm just like, um, is this going to end soon? And you know, like when someone's hugging you and you think it's going to end, you kind of let go. Like you pat them on the back a couple of times and then you release. But they just kept holding on to me. It was like dude was hanging off the side of a building and I was the ladder that he was holding onto for dear life. So he's holding on to me and I'm kind of like in the parking lot looking around.

14:55 And then finally they let go and they both had tears in their eyes and they're like, thank you so much. We really needed some food. We got to get food for our baby. And man, I just felt amazing for the next half an hour. I literally couldn't get the smile off my face. And this is why boys, I always suggest, as I just said, give money to homeless people, give to charities, give somebody a compliment who perhaps doesn't get complimented very often, like an unattractive girl or an obese girl.

15:23 Give value to other people in your life. Always be trying to give what you hope to get back. And for God's sakes, boys, stop being resentful of the guy who you want to become. Instead, start blessing him. And I'm going to tell you this. If when I said January was a record month for me, if when I said I got a lot of money from clients and a lot of people showing me appreciation and love through my coaching program, if that bothered you, that's another sign to you that you have some work to do inside your head.

15:54 You need to get your belief systems right. For those of you, on the other hand, were like, hell yeah, Mark Singh, you deserve it, bro. Great work. So proud of you, man. You worked for a decade, failing time after time after time, then finally creating the Unapologetic Man podcast and having it be a huge success, creating a coaching program that gets guys 10x the results with women, and you're being monetarily compensated for that in a very big way. Good job, bro. I celebrate you, man. That's the vibe you need to have, boys.

16:24 To get what you want to get, because if you keep resenting it, and more importantly, if you keep closing yourself from giving somebody what they need and what they want, you're not going to get what you need and what you want. The way to get what you want in this life is to give it. The way to become the man that you want to become is to bless those who have already achieved what you're trying to achieve. And the way to happiness is to give value selflessly.

16:51 There was a story of a guy who was a multimillionaire who retired and just wanted to get rid of everything. So he started giving his money to charities. He started giving his money to family, to the homeless, to anybody who needed it. And when he died, he actually died with more money than that which he had before he started giving it away. I'm convinced that what the Bible said was true. What you give, you get back 7x. And what you bless, you become. If you resent something, you're not going to allow yourself to become it.

17:23 So from this day forward, bless the girl magnet. Bless the guy with the Ferrari. Bless the guy who walks in the nightclub with all these hot chicks with him. Bless the dude who's ripped. Bless the dude who has freedom in his life, who's doing a job who he wants to do. And finally, boys, give what you want to get back in return because that's the way the universe works. It's a gigantic mirror. What you put out there, you get back. Whether it's negative, positive, or neutral, you decide your future reality by your present actions.

17:57 Are you giving or are you taking? Are you blessing or are you cursing? Are you appreciative for what you have or are you only focusing on your lack? What you focus on expands, what you bless, you become, and what you give, you get back. That's the lesson in today's podcast, my birthday. Final note. I know a lot of you guys have sincere intentions to wish me a happy birthday. My carpal tunnel is going to kill me if I have to reply to thousands of birthday messages.

18:24 So if you wouldn't mind just sending out kind of a private happy birthday in your heart, not emailing me about it because I'll feel bad if I don't email you back. And again, my carpal tunnel is already like, yo, we already have to reply to so many emails. So thank you for the birthday wishes. I know you guys are all sincerely wishing me that. I sincerely wish you the best and I'm going to continue giving you value in this podcast because once again, boys, I understand the universal law that what you give, you get back.

18:51 If I give you guys enough value, I will eventually attract you to come sign up to my program and then we could give each other value the way it should be. I want to give you more than you want to give me. You want to give me more than I want to give you. And then we both went in the end. That's the way life should work. So gentlemen, I hope you have a great day on this Monday. February 3rd, 2025. I will see you guys on Thursday.

19:13 Please stay tuned for the next one as it's a great one. And I will see you in the next episode. We'll see you next time.

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