FRAME CONTROL: THE SINGLE MOST IMPORTANT ELEMENT OF SEDUCTION!!!

0:00 Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, you legends? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate you joining me. And today, we are going to go over frame control, the single most important part of seducing a woman. If you've been left before, if you failed to get a phone number, if you've been cheated on, if a girl wanted to divorce you, if you've been blown out in any way whatsoever, brother, I can almost assure you it was some issue with your frame control.

0:39 Now, here's the problem. Most people have no idea what frame control is, especially the majority of men who are going out there trying to date women, trying to possibly start a family. And then the woman leaves him and he's like, what the fuck did I do wrong? I wish they taught this to more men. I wish they pulled this aside in high school and said, all right, brothers, here's a frame control masterclass because guys, this concept will change your life. When you truly understand it, when you go on a deep dive and you fully understand the fundamentals of what frame control is, how it works, how to control the frame and how to use it to get girls insanely attracted to you, everything changes.

1:18 Girls get more attracted to you. You make more money in your job. People respect you more. You make better friends. You just have a better life because frame control is one of the most important social dynamics that you will ever learn about either from me or other coaches. And frankly, if I'm completely honest, I teach the most comprehensive, the most thorough, the most gangster level frame control that you will ever come across. So not to toot my own horn, not to go down Flex Avenue, but brother, you have clicked on the right episode.

1:53 Now, the reason I'm recording this is because on Friday the 26th, Saturday the 27th, and Sunday the 28th, I am giving a two-hour frame control masterclass. You, me, and a couple other brothers are going to get on Zoom and I'm going to teach you everything I know about this all-important frame control. Yes, brother, the most important thing about seducing a woman. Those tickets are available right now. If you look in the description below, I have made the link live as soon as this morning when this podcast first went out.

2:25 And I can guarantee you, I don't know what's exactly happening when you're listening to this, but I can almost guarantee you there's already seats that are sold out. That's how popular my podcast is. That's how gangster my coaching is. And that's how limited I'm making the seats in each of these classes because I want it to be me, you, and a few other brothers to get this frame control masterclass down pat so that a girl never fucking leaves you again. A girl gets attracted to you every time you speak to them.

2:51 And when they throw bullshit at you, also called frame checks, which we're going to go over a little bit in today's episode, you will know how to pass them with flying colors. First, getting a challenge from her, turning it around on her, making her laugh and making her more attracted to you when in fact, her words usually would blow guys out. She would challenge you in a way where most guys would explain themselves. Most guys would trip over their own boners and get themselves blown out so hard when the concussion hits, their balls fly up and hit the brim of their hat.

3:20 But it's not going to happen to you, brother, because we are doing this frame control masterclass. Now, I cannot stress A of all, how gangster this masterclass is going to be, and B of all, how quickly these tickets are going to sell out. What's the price you ask? Only $97 for a two-hour event. And I'm also giving a bonus, which is a two-week coaching experience with yours truly, where you get to come into a Zoom call with me and a few of the other brothers, where I answer your questions and I give you personalized coaching based on everybody's questions.

3:53 I'm really fucking good at this, where I'm like a DJ answering everybody's questions, getting everybody involved. You also get that bonus, a two-week free VIP coaching experience with me, Mark Singh. Brothers, if you're too cheap to invest $97 in yourself for a two-hour frame control masterclass and two weeks of coaching calls, I'm afraid I can't help you with that. I honestly wouldn't understand if every single one of you tried to sign up. And the last time I did this, they sold out within hours, not days. I had people hit me up, pissed off, being like, dude, what the fuck?

4:27 I couldn't get into this class. Sorry, guys, I'm a limited asset. I limit the number of dudes who have access to me. So if you're interested in doing this, I would suggest doing it now as you're listening to this episode. If for some reason you still need convincing that frame control is the single most important thing of seduction, and then I'm going to teach you literally everything I know in this two-hour masterclass, then listen to this episode. I'm going to give you a bunch of 10,000-foot perspective on what frame control is.

4:50 I'm going to give you a couple tips here and there, but the real creme de la creme, the tier one shit, that's obviously happening in my masterclass. I cannot wait for you guys to experience this. There's one link in the description. It's the link to the page. As of the recording of this episode, there are three open days available. Look on that page to see what times they are. I can guarantee at least one of the days is sold out because they sell out within hours, not days.

5:17 So if you're interested, brother, shit or get off the pot, man. Execute. Pull the trigger. Be a masculine, unapologetic man, and let's meet. Let me teach you just how powerful frame control is. So this is going to be, once again, a 10,000-foot explanation of what frame control is, just in case some of you are like, dude, I don't even know what this guy is talking about. I need to know first what it is that he's selling before I pull the trigger on it. So let's get into it.

5:44 Frame control means you have the power in the conversation, you are leading the conversation, and you are not to be fucked with. If a woman determines that she has a stronger frame than you do, which has happened to so many of you guys, and you probably didn't even know it, she will not get attracted to you. She will not give you her phone number. She will not text you back. She will not go on a date with you. And yes, boys, she will leave you, cheat on you, and leave you like a shivering embryo stuck in a fucking gutter, having no idea what you did wrong.

6:13 It's because you didn't lead the woman, you didn't take the power in the relationship. Let me ask you this. Is it important for you to have the masculine or the feminine role when you're in a relationship with the woman? Obviously, you are a man, therefore you must be in the masculine role. Now let me couple that question with another question. If you're a leader, are you in the masculine or the feminine role? Obviously, you're in the masculine role. So do you not have to lead the woman in order for her to become attracted to you?

6:46 Yes, you do. Yet so many guys make the mistake of giving her what she wants, buying into her frame, letting her lead the interaction, because they think, most logically, if I just give her what she wants and let her lead, she's going to like me, right? No, she's not going to like you. She's going to lose attraction for you and lose respect for you. And this gentleman is one of the ways that guys get put in the friend zone. They're too nice. They do her too many favors.

7:08 They give her the frame. And the frame, once again, is who's controlling the conversation, who's defining the underlying meaning of the interaction, which means her and I are talking, who's defining what we're talking about, who's defining the interpretation of what she just said, which I'm going to get into in a second. Who's the one who's least affected? Who's the one who's least reactive? Who's the one who wants less? Who's the one who's less butthurt about what happens? The person who's least affected, who's putting in less energy, who cares less about what happens and is less try hard, is the one who's controlling the frame.

7:49 And gentlemen, I have to reiterate, you have to control the frame in order for women to get attracted to you. Let me ask you another question. If somebody says something to you and you get butthurt, do you think they control the frame on you or you control the frame on them? That's right. They control the frame on you. If you get insulted, put off, or offended by anything anybody says, whether it's a friend, your parents, a politician, you have shown that you have a weak frame and they're getting into your reality.

8:18 Why is that? Going back to masculinity. True masculinity is what? It's internally validated. You only care about your own opinion of yourself. Everything that comes in goes through five different filters before you interpret it the way you want to interpret it. That's having a strong frame. If, for example, a woman says something to you and you change your opinion to meet hers, is that a weak frame or a strong frame? It's obviously a weak frame. So as we look at this, frame control is all based in masculinity.

8:50 Masculinity leads. It's internally validated. It doesn't give a shit about what other people think. It puts less energy and care into relationships and social interactions. And whatever happens, happens. If you don't like it, I'm afraid I can't help you with that. That's the masculine frame control philosophy. And that's the essence of frame control. Now, a lot of us have weak frames. We do get butthurt about what she says. We do buy into her belief systems, what she wants to do, what her suggestions are, or if she insults us, we try to explain ourselves to her.

9:28 If you are truly internally validated, you were what I call on your inner balance point, which I'm going to explain deeply in the masterclass because it's so important. Do you think you'd give two shits about what she says about you? Even if she straight insults you, which I've had girls do, do you think you would explain yourself to her or get mad about it? Of course not. You'd laugh as if she just complimented you. That's what a guy with a strong frame does. So if a woman throws some bullshit at you and you laugh and like pat her on the head, rhetorically speaking, she's going to get more attracted to you because she understands you are masculine.

10:05 You have a strong frame. What she says cannot affect you. Gentlemen, the way you need to be with women is this. You are the rock of Gibraltar in the middle of the ocean. You are ensconced in the bottom of the sea into the bedrock. She is the ocean, her waves slapping up against your rock. Is that rock movable? Does that rock have any effect whatsoever by the waves that hit it? Of course not. That's having a strong frame. Let me ask you another question. Who is leading an interaction?

10:37 The person who wants more or the person who wants less? The person who's more invested or the person who's less invested? The person who's more reactive or the person who's less reactive? Of course, the person who wants less, who's less reactive, who cares less about what happens is the one who's leading it. You gentlemen have to lead the interaction in order for a woman to become attracted to you. This is frame control in its essence. Now, let me ask you another question. And I think a lot of you guys are going to look back on your past and have an aha moment.

11:06 You're going to realize like, oh, that may have been why that girl didn't get attracted to me. Have you ever had a girl kind of ask you a question, ask you to explain yourself to her or worse yet, kind of insult you. And then you did explain yourself to her or you did get angry. You did get butthurt. And then you notice she didn't get attracted to you. That's because she just proved to herself that this man has a weak frame. This guy is off his inner balance point.

11:33 I can affect him. Do you think a woman wants to be with a man who she can push around? Or does she want that rock of Gibraltar where she tries to push and it doesn't move? It's completely ensconced in who it is, its own masculinity, its own frame. Of course, she wants the guy who's ensconced into who he really is. Now on that point, if you can get her to explain herself to you, do you think that's a good or a bad thing? It's obviously a good thing because she's buying into your frame.

12:03 A frame can be looked at kind of like a picture frame that goes around a painting. The painting is interpreted by your own reality. The frame is that which surrounds it and keeps it within, as it were. So if she has a frame that your pants are stupid and you have a frame that your pants are awesome, the pants being the painting, whoever has the stronger frame is whose interpretation is going to be accepted by both parties. So if she says something stating her opinion, let's say about your stupid pants, and you think your pants are the shit and you reframe it in a way where she's kind of an idiot if she doesn't think these pants are awesome and you have a strong enough frame that is a strong enough belief in yourself and a belief in your interpretation of that reality, she's going to buy into that interpretation of reality and get attracted to you.

12:52 Now, fortunately, after that explanation, which I'm sure lost about 60% of you guys, I have simple reframes that teach you words you can say, templates you can use, lines you can spit at women in conversations when they do this shit to you. And even when they don't do this shit to you, just in regular conversation, I have a vault full of them that, of course, I'm going to give you guys in my frame control masterclass. But make no mistake, gentlemen, women understand this concept intuitively. If you ask a woman, what is frame control?

13:22 Is it important that a man has a stronger frame than you do? She's going to be like, what the fuck are you talking about? I have no idea what frame control is. I don't know if he needs to have a stronger frame than me. What the hell is a frame? But here's the cool thing about women. They understand this stuff intuitively ingrained in their lizard brain or their DNA, if you will, over 200,000 years of evolution to determine very quickly whether this guy has a strong frame or a weak frame.

13:49 Is he high value or low value? Is he masculine or feminine? So women are going to throw shit at you. And in this masterclass, I'm going to teach you all my reversals, all my lines. And I'm also going to show you how to prove your frame to her by asking her certain questions, putting her through certain challenges, letting her justify herself to you, how to use your energy correctly in order to show her that you're less invested in the interaction that she is. She's the one reacting more to you than you are to her.

14:19 You are less outcome dependent, meaning you're not trying to get anything from her. You're just giving value. And if she doesn't like it, your philosophy is, I'm afraid I can't help you with that. Do you guys ever get butt hurt if you're rejected? Or perhaps a better question is, are you scared to get rejected? Honestly, brother, if you're scared to get rejected, that's because you have a weak frame. You have a weak sense of reality. You are essentially saying that her opinion of you is more important than your opinion of yourself.

14:46 Is that feminine or masculine? It's feminine. If you care so much about what she thinks about you, you're being feminine, externally validated. What your opinion means really matters to me. Bullshit. A true masculine man, a guy with a really strong frame, doesn't give two shits what other people think about him because he's internally validated. What I say about myself is what goes. I am the shit because I say I'm the shit. Everything I like, everything I do, and everything that I am is the shit for me.

15:20 And if you don't like it, I'm afraid I can't help you with that. So you have guys who are afraid of rejection because they're in their feminine energy. They're afraid of not being approved by her because they don't approve enough of themselves. So they get butt hurt by it. They're afraid of it. A guy with a really strong frame, which by the way, I'm going to give you in this two hour masterclass, doesn't give a shit about what she thinks. Says to himself, dude, at least I had the balls to go approach that girl.

15:45 For that, I'm proud of myself. And that too is a reframe, isn't it? You have a frame around a picture of approaching. You could have the picture either say, if she accepts me or rejects me, is how I'm going to feel about myself. Or you have a picture that says, the fact that I approached her is what I'm basing myself worth on. That's the one I'm going to choose. So you see two different pictures being framed by two different frames. Choose the one that works best for you, brother.

16:13 That is frame control in its essence. And this is why women get attracted to it. This is why it makes you successful. This is why it's one of the keys to being socially effective. And yeah, bro, to being happy. All right. So here comes the fun stuff, boys. Women are going to throw shit at you. They're going to test you. They're going to ask you for favors. They're going to try to get you to jump through their hoops. So I have a bunch of lines and things that you can say to women when they try to throw this shit at you, including reframing.

16:38 So gangster. Ignoring. Agree and amplify. Misinterpret. Reframe into a joke. Reframe into a qualifying question. Asking her why questions. Using the is that what you do method. So gangster. Being a politician. Mark Sting's politician method. Absolutely love this one where you ask yourself questions. So gangster. I'm going to give you guys tons of information about that. Making it all about the other. I'm going to teach you something real quick that, yes, I'm going to teach more in depth in the masterclass. If somebody questions you, the best thing you can do is turn it around on them and make it all about the other.

17:12 They ask you, for example, why are you wearing those hideous pants? You make it all about the other. Why are you staring at my legs? Why are you looking at my crotch? You trying to take off my pants? Why are you so obsessed with me? A little creepy, bro. You're really obsessed with me. That's all about the other. It's not about you, bro. She questions you. Flip it on her ass. Just like when she asks, is this what you say to all the girls? You say the real question is, is that what you say to all the guys?

17:40 Guy approaches you in the nightclub and that's the first thing you say. Did you learn that in the girly books? Is that what you learned? You just turned it around on her, making it all about the other. Another gangster ass technique, which I'm going to go over in the masterclass is asking girls why questions. I'm going to give you guys a vault full of questions to ask girls to make them explain you. So good for building attraction. I'm going to show you how to get compliance with the girl by putting your frame on top of hers immediately from the first interaction so that she knows this is a masculine alpha silverback.

18:11 And oh my God, I'm attracted to him. And this too, boys, is why a lot of you guys get hung up on like, how much money do I have? How tall I am? How bald am I? Am I ripped? Oh, that guy over there who's six foot two and super ripped is better for her than I am. Bullshit. If you have a stronger frame than he does, you will get that girl every single time. And I will die by that statement. Frame control. The single most important part of seducing a woman.

18:40 And lastly, gentlemen, why is it that so many guys go into the friend zone? There's one reason and one reason only. Hoop theory and requests. Girls ask guys for favors. Guys do them the favor and boom, they get put in the friend zone. They're not leading the interaction. They're not masculine. They're off their inner balance point. They're asking her to validate them and accept them. And ooh, maybe one day my tears will be used as lubricant for sex. It doesn't work that way. Hoop theory and requests is what to do when a girl tries to challenge you, tries to make you into her lapdog, tries to take the power in your interaction with her.

19:19 Gentlemen, if you've ever been divorced, you've ever been cheated on, you've been left, or again, even as simple as not getting a phone number or a text back, lack of frame control. All these concepts I'm going to teach in my two-hour frame control masterclass at the stupid rate of $97. My mentor is like, dude, are you fucking high? This is at least a $500 program. I'm like, yeah, dude, I want to get more guys into this. I want you to see what I'm able to do in my coaching so that, yeah, I'm going to admit it to you.

19:46 I want you to come into my three-month coaching program because this is the most gangster program that's ever been created about how to attract, seduce, and land a woman that will never leave you again. And I'm going to show you in this two-hour masterclass exactly what I can do. And I'm giving you a bonus, two-week coaching experience with me where you get to come to the coaching calls and see what it's like to be in my three-month coaching program. No brainer, gentlemen. And because I have a strong frame, I'm going to tell you this.

20:14 If you don't sign up for this, I'm afraid I can't help you with that, bro. I don't understand what your philosophy is. I don't understand what you're doing. And frankly, I doubt whether or not you are going to be able to achieve the results that you really want with women. Just being straight up. And listen, if you get butthurt about that, look at that from a frame control perspective. Why am I getting butthurt about this? Am I letting Mark Singh's perception of me affect the way I feel about myself?

20:37 Hmm, maybe that's because I have a weak frame. And that too is the essence of frame control. And yeah, you need to come into the program. Here's a secret, gentlemen, that very few people will tell you. Those guys who are making the most money, who are getting the most chicks, who have the lifestyle that each of us really wants, they do one thing and one thing only. They invest in themselves. They get coaches. They get mentors. They get people who have been to the top of the mountain to show them the way.

21:07 I am doing a one-time VIP frame control masterclass, and you are invited to join me. All you need to do is click the link in the description below. There's a short video on there, a quick explanation that I wrote up about this masterclass, as well as all the times that are still available, or perhaps they're already all sold out. I don't know. All of it is there. Check it out. Pull the trigger. Let's meet. Let's work together. And let me teach you the single most important part of seduction, frame control.

21:33 If you master frame control, you are going to get more ass than a toilet seat. I don't care what you look like, how many failures you've had in the past. I don't give a shit about your past. I'm going to show you what's available in your future. That's with frame control. Sign up right now, gentlemen. I drop podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays. I have another awesome one coming up on Thursdays, so make sure to stay tuned for that one, and I will see you in the next episode.

22:18 We'll see you in the next episode.

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