5 Powerful Strategies to Make a Woman Fall in Love With You

0:00 Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, you champions? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate you. And today, I'm going to teach you how to make a girl fall in love with you. Now, that whole title, Make a Girl Fall in Love With You, don't completely agree with it because obviously, we don't want to manipulate women as it were.

0:32 But if you're catching feelings for a girl, you obviously want her to be into you. In fact, I'm going to talk about just how important that is. So yeah, man, we have to adjust our game. We have to adjust some of our feelings and some of our approaches with women in order to get them to like us, to get them to want to continue being with us. So while making a girl fall in love with you isn't exactly the right verbiage, we do have to admit that if we like a girl, we want to do certain things to make her like us back.

1:06 It's just human nature. And anybody listening, whether male or female, you know you do this shit. Because if you really want somebody in your life, you're going to want to put your best foot forward, do the right things, not blow yourself out, and get yourself hurt. Falling in love with somebody is obviously a huge commitment when it comes to our feelings and we're putting ourselves out there. We could get hurt really badly. And I'm sure a lot of you guys listening can relate. I know I can relate, man.

1:30 My first love cheated on me. I heard her having sex in her dorm room with a different dude. And that was literally the most pain I've ever been through in my entire life. And it was at that moment, I decided that it would never happen to me again. I was going to figure out how to attract women. I was going to figure out how to keep them into me. And yeah, I was going to figure out how to get them to fall in love with me because I didn't want that to happen again.

1:57 I have figured that out. And that is what I do. Obviously, I'm a dating coach for men. And in my three-month coaching program, I teach guys how to approach, attract, keep attracted, and make girls fall in love with them so that they don't get left, they don't get cheated on, they don't get blown out as they have in the past. So that's what we're going to discuss in today's episode, gentlemen. I have a lot of really interesting things to drop in your lap. So make sure to stay tuned until the very end.

2:24 In fact, I am going to tell you something that to me was the most interesting thing I've learned all year. When I heard this shit, and I didn't know it before, but when I heard this, and I only heard it a few weeks ago, I was like, dude, yes, that makes sense. I can't believe I didn't know that as a dating coach. And I'll admit forthright to you, gentlemen, I don't know everything. I try to know everything. I try to get the best information, which is why I take other people's courses.

2:50 I continue investing in myself because I'll be the first to admit I have room for growth. And if you ever meet a coach who isn't getting coaching himself, run the other direction. Anytime you get a mentor, you want to make sure that he too has a mentor, he too is trying to get to that highest level. And that's what I'm trying to do in my life. And I want to tell you about this super fascinating thing that I learned that I think is going to blow your mind.

3:17 Before I get into the content, gentlemen, a lot of you know that I am having a frame control masterclass on Friday, July 26 through Tuesday, July 30. We just had to add some extra times. We just added Tuesday, July 30 at 2pm Mountain Standard Time and Tuesday, July 30 at 6pm Mountain Standard Time. Because as I joked about in my previous episode, I'm like carrot top at the MGM Grand, bro. The demand is insane. People are getting pissed off because this shit is selling out. Seemingly, every time I put up a new date, the shit sells out in minutes rather than hours.

3:49 So I continue adding dates. Right now I have Friday the 26 through Tuesday the 30th. Whatever time works best for you, you sign up for. There are, I will tell you, multiple dates and times sold out already. But my assistant Danielle is playing Jenga with all these different dudes and moving them around. So occasionally some slots will open up and then they'll sell out again and open up again. But right now, gentlemen, we have very few spots left because yes, I am in that much demand. And yes, this masterclass is going to be an absolute game changer if you're just willing to invest in yourself.

4:25 There's one link in the description below. Click that link, check it out. These are the last dates I'm going to add. So it's now or never, gentlemen, if you've been thinking about getting into this masterclass, which honestly, I don't understand why you wouldn't. If you've been thinking about doing it, it's time to shit or get off the pot. I am adding no more times. This is it. It's happening this weekend. If you want to get better with women, if you want to increase your success, and yes, gentlemen, if you want to get a girl to fall in love with you either now or in the future, you have to come to this masterclass.

4:56 If you don't know every single thing there is to know about frame control, the single most important element of seduction, then you have absolutely no reason to not attend this event. And if you don't attend, I have to question your decision-making. The smartest thing that you can do as a man is invest in yourself. And me being the genuine dude that I am, I am going to try so hard to give you absolute gold in this masterclass. I'm really proud of what I've created. I've already written up the PowerPoint for it.

5:29 And let me tell you, boys, it's fucking gangster. I don't talk about on my podcast what I'm about to give you in this masterclass. And I definitely don't give you on my podcast what I give to my boys in my three-month coaching program. You got to invest in yourself, boys. It's how society works. It's how dudes who are the most successful became the most successful. If you think you'd just be a podcast jockey and just get PDFs and get information from YouTube, dude, all the best shit is in people's programs.

5:57 That's why I've invested over $150,000 in myself over the several decades that I've been in this self-development kick. And I'll tell you, that was the best decision I've ever made. It made me successful with women. It made me successful monetarily. I'm happier than I've ever been in my entire life. And I really attribute that to my mentors, to my coaches, to programs that taught me how to get to that highest level. This is such a program. How much is the price? 97 bucks. If you're too cheap to invest 97 bucks in yourself, man, I have to question you.

6:26 And I strongly disagree with the decisions you're making. Try it, brother. If you've never invested in a coach, try this. I guarantee you I'm going to blow your socks off. And by the way, if you're not happy with the program, I'll buy it back from you. I won't even ask you any questions. I'll just be like, hey, bro, here's your money back. All good. Best of luck to you. So what do you have to lose? Absolutely nothing. Sign up today. This shit has been selling out like fucking hotcakes.

6:56 And the two times I just put up, I know they're going to sell out quickly too. It's not going to be available for much longer. This weekend, as well as next Monday and Tuesday, Frame Control Masterclass. Check it out. Click the link in the description below. All right. So we have to understand that getting a woman to fall in love with you requires a very conscientious approach so that you don't get yourself blown out. What gets guys blown out? If you've listened to my podcast for any amount of time, this is very basic information that you should know, especially if you're out there dating girls, especially if you're trying to get girls attracted to you.

7:30 What gets guys blown out is obviously lack of confidence, neediness, hugely unattractive, being a dude who isn't ambitious, doesn't have a strong frame. I'll tell you what, if you don't have a strong frame, you're getting blown out immediately. In fact, you won't even get her attracted to blow you out. She's just going to fucking ignore you and walk away before you get any attraction whatsoever. And that's lack of frame, lack of controlling the conversation, leading her to where she wants to be led, being unaffected, being on your inner balance point, being masculine gentlemen.

8:03 Instead, what gets guys blown out is being a pussy, being a dude who isn't ambitious, doesn't know how to lead her, lets her take the frame, lets her lead both the conversation as well as the relationship. That's going to get you blown out. So to begin with, to get a girl to fall in love with you, what do you have to have? Game and frame, obviously. And dude, I'm teaching a frame control freaking masterclass this coming weekend. What are you doing if you haven't signed up yet?

8:32 It makes no sense to me. Sign up right now, bro. It's going to sell out quickly. You need game and frame to get a woman attracted to you. And that has to be there from the very beginning. Attraction developed into a very high level equals love. Love is simply a chemical. You guys have heard of this. I don't remember exactly what the chemicals called, but it's some long ass name of a chemical that's released in your brain. When you see the person, it literally gets you high.

8:55 You are addicted to that drug that's released in your brain when you see that person. So you have to be confident enough, attractive enough to become that drug for her. And I'm going to teach you exactly how to do that. But the foundation needs to be laid. And that foundation again is game, frame, confidence, belief in yourself, having worked on your bullshit, believing in your reality, being masculine, leading her to where she wants to be led. So from the get go, we are attractive to her.

9:26 She wants more of us and she just can't get enough. And this is my first tip. You must maintain by what I call the 80 100 rule. The 80 100 rule dictates that you only give her 80% of what she wants from you. So if she wants to hang out, say, for example, five times a week, what's 80% of five? Come on, boys, use that thinking cap. That's right. It's four. So instead of hanging out with her five times, you would hang out with her four times. Doing this puts you in the masculine role because the person who wants less is always the one who's in power, quote unquote, and who's the one who's in the masculine energy.

10:07 You obviously have to be in the masculine energy in order for her to become attracted to you and fall in love with you. So you naturally have to make yourself want less. Yes, gentlemen, even if you want more than she does. And believe me, I've been there. I've met girls who was totally sprung over and I wanted to hang out with them way more than they wanted to hang out with me, but I knew the rules. So I managed myself. I told the red helmeted warrior in my pants, stand down, Sergeant Horny.

10:35 I know you're so horny you'd fuck a snake if you could hold it straight, but we need to calm down and only give her 80% of what she wants from us. If she wants to hang out with you two times a week, gentlemen, you can hang out with her once, maybe two times a week. You have to fall within 80%. If she gives you five compliments, you give her four. If she gives you five statements of interest saying, Oh, I like hanging out with you, or you're so fun.

11:03 You're so funny. You only give her four back. Maintaining yourself in this way, only giving her 80%, even if you do want more is what's going to get her sprung on you. Because the second you start giving her more than what she wants, you all know this. You've all been blown out. They blow you out. They're totally over it because you get into the feminine role. The person who's chasing is feminine. The person who's running away is masculine. You have to be in the masculine role, thus controlling the frame in the interaction at every single step of the process.

11:33 You lose that in any way whatsoever. She's going to lose attraction for you. So again, love is simply attraction on steroids, if you will. It's just a higher potency of attraction. So we have to ramp up that attraction as much as possible to get her to fall in love with us. And that includes all the things I mentioned, frame, game, confidence, working on your bullshit, leading her, all that stuff, as well as not giving her enough, leaving her just wanting a little more. And this is a tactic I use from the get-go.

12:11 If I'm doing a campaign on a chick, which means I see her multiple times, she's a barista at the coffee shop or she works at the supermarket or I see her at the gym, whatever, I will make her laugh and walk away. I will always leave her wanting more. I want them being like, oh, I want more of him. Damn it. He walked away. Ooh, I can't wait to see him next time. And then the next time she sees you, her pupils dilate a little bit.

12:33 You're like, okay, this girl's getting attracted to me. So really make note of that, gentlemen. You always want to leave women wanting more. Very fucking important. Now here comes the thing that I just learned a few weeks ago that absolutely blew my mind. For a woman to fall in love with a man, she needs oxytocin. Oxytocin comes from sexual intercourse, cuddling, and affection. Now, we all kind of know that a lot of us have had girls fall in love with us pretty soon after we've had sex with them.

13:04 So we do understand that this is true. But here's the thing that really surprised me. I didn't know this. For a man to fall in love with a woman, he needs to have vasopressin released in his brain. And I think I'm pronouncing that correctly. Don't quote me on it, but it's like vasopressin, vasopressin, something like that. And guess what that's from? That's from stress. Vasopressin is produced in men's brains when they're stressed. So look at this. In order for you to fall in love with a woman, you have to be in a stressed state.

13:32 Now look at this in your own history. Have you ever fallen in love with a woman? You thought that it was the sex was bomb, she was hot, and that does play a role into it. But was probably the key factor to get you to fall in love with her is that she was just out of your grasp. And a lot of you guys are being like, oh, dude, yes, that's what happened. I couldn't get enough of her. I was thinking about her. She was just on my mind.

13:53 And I couldn't really read her. Was she into me? Was she not into me? She was really feminine and hot. And the sex was awesome. But like, I wanted more and I couldn't get that. That produces stress inside of you, thus releasing that chemical vasopressin, or however you pronounce it, and then you fell in love with her. That's the thing I learned that I didn't know before. And it was so interesting. So when it comes to getting a girl to fall in love with you, brothers, you have to blow her fucking mind when it comes to sex.

14:20 Because as I just said, when a woman has sex with a man, oxytocin is released in her brain. It bonds her to that man, as many of us have seen. And through that, she begins starting catching feelings for you, falling in love with you. So you absolutely have to freaking knock it out of the park when it comes to sexual intercourse. Now, if you leave me a review, if you tell a friend about my podcast, or if you go on some forum where dudes are talking about how they're divorced or how they're trying to attract women, and you talk about how the UMP is by far the best podcast ever produced when it comes to dating for men, email me at coachmarksing at gmail.com and I will send you three programs.

15:01 The Conversation Sniper, three texts to build massive attraction in women, and Guide to the Female Orgasm, which you need to read in order to make a girl fall in love with you. Brothers, you have to blow her fucking mind. You have to make her look like a screaming demon that just got hit with the tornado. You need to lick that freaking clam chop for literally 20 minutes until she's getting screaming orgasms. I know. To some of you, especially the inexperienced, the vagina looks like some sea creature that's going to spray you with poison and melt your face.

15:37 I understand it. The first time I saw one of those things, I was like, dude, this thing looks weird as fuck. Where do I lick on this thing? And then I was all licking like around the hole and the lips and like licking her chode and shit. And like, it took me a while to understand that you basically just want to lick on the clitoris while you finger blast her. All of that is taught in my program, Guide to the Female Orgasm. Gentlemen, you need to give her a smashing sexual experience.

16:00 I want her coming multiple times. I want her thinking about you when you guys aren't together. This is so powerful because again, what's released in her brain to make her fall in love? Oxytocin. How's oxytocin released? Through sexual intercourse, through cuddling. How much should you cuddle? 80% of what she wants. Now that begs the question that I know a lot of you guys are asking, well, how do I know how much she wants? Just observe her, bro. Just see how she is. If you're cuddling with her and she kind of turns away, then you can be like, all right, she wanted to cuddle for about five minutes.

16:31 Next time I'm going to give her four. I'm going to give her some awesome scratchies. I'm going to move the hair over her ear. I'm going to make her feel really good. And then I'm going to get up and go get some water. Just leave her wanting a little more. And if you're a woman listening to this and getting butthurt about it, what did I just tell you women? I told you that vasupressin makes men fall in love with you. So you probably want to do the same thing.

16:55 Now I'm not a dating coach for women. I'm a dating coach for men, but it's a game. Whether you're a woman or a man listening, we want to win, don't we? We want to protect our hearts. And gentlemen, on that point, you need to hold yourself back from getting too sprung on this chick until she sprung on you. And again, I'm giving women the same advice until that person who you're dating starts catching feelings for you, starts expressing more interest in you, wants to be your girlfriend, wants to be that person who's in your life.

17:23 And yes, gentlemen, she's going to hint that she's falling in love with you. Do not say you're in love with her. I know this sounds like you're playing games, but I'm telling you, if you tell a woman that you're in love with her before she tells you that she's in love with you, you're going to get blown out. And a lot of you guys are nodding your heads fervently because you've seen this yourself. So we continue to ramp up attraction. We do the 80-100 rule. We blow her mind in the bedroom until she starts catching those feelings.

17:54 And then, yeah, we can tell her we're catching feelings too. That's part of the 80-100 rule. You give her 80% of what she wants from you. So if she's like, I'm in love with you, Mark, then I could be like, I'm in love with you too, because I'm still sticking underneath her having expressed that interest. I'm telling you, though it sounds like you're playing games, you have to want less than she does. Now, fortunately, most women fall in love before men do because, again, women fall in love with that connection, that cuddling, the sexuality.

18:27 Men fall in love, funny enough, by being stressed by the woman, which is absolutely hilarious to me. So usually they'll fall in love first. And guys, when it comes to her wanting to be your girlfriend, when it comes to you guys falling in love, moving in together, getting married, you got to wait until she brings it up. Always wait until she brings it up, she's pushing for it, before you move the relationship to the next step. Here's my next tip. You want to be the sanctuary for her.

18:54 This is so freaking powerful. I really want you to understand this. When you're hanging out with her, when you guys are spending time together, when she sees you, I want her to feel like it's a vacation from her life, and you are that sanctuary. You show her a good time. You give her good feelings. You are that vacation from her life where she feels like she can go to and just feel completely wrapped in a warm blanket. You want to be that warm blanket experience for her where when she comes to your house, you guys are having a good time, you give her amazing sex, and then, yes, again, you tell her to go home before she's ready.

19:32 How ready? About 80% of what she wants. So, if she wants to hang out, I don't know, 10 hours, how many hours are you going to let her hang out? Eight hours. If she wants to hang out five times a week, same question I asked you before, let's see if you can get it. That's right, you hang out four times a week. Be the sanctuary. Show her a good time. Mentor her, which is my next tip. This works into basic attraction, but it's really, really, really powerful to get girls to fall in love with you.

19:58 You want to be her mentor in a lot of ways. This has gotten girls to fall in love with me so many times because what am I? I'm a coach. I do NLP. I'm super into self-development. I like to help people get to that next best version of themselves. So, naturally, it's just who I am. I tend to coach chicks. When I date them and they start complaining, I'll question them. And I'll be like, has complaining worked for you? What does it do for you that's positive?

20:24 Nothing. Have you heard of the law of attraction where what you talk about actually gets attracted to you? So, if you're complaining about things, you're going to get more to complain about. Here's the truth of how reality works. Your thoughts are creative, so choose your thoughts very carefully. When you're positive, positive things will come to you. When you're appreciative, the universe sends you more to be appreciative for. Gentlemen, when I tell women that philosophy, I am mentoring them. They look at me as a bit of a coach, as a leader, as the guy who, yes, tucks her under his wing and shows her a good time and improves her life.

21:02 That's where love comes from. So, we want to be that sanctuary for her. We want to mentor her. We want to give her bomb-ass sex. We want to always be attractive as our foundational elements in our relationship. And yes, guys, we need to give her less than what she wants from us. This is so important to make a girl fall in love with you. But not only that, to make a girl not leave you, because I know a lot of you guys who are listening right now have been left by chicks.

21:30 The reason you were left is a lack of game, a lack of frame. And again, my Frame Control Masterclass will make that your absolute strength from this point forward. And you wanted more than she did. You lacked control in the relationship. You lacked ambition. You lacked giving her that sanctuary where she felt like she could come into your masculine energy, get folded over by it, like being wrapped in a warm blanket, being that rock of Gibraltar for her, where all her drama, all her emotions can't affect you.

22:03 You are imperturbable. You are immovable. You are on your inner balance point. When you're that strong, steady sanctuary for her, that's where she falls in love. The oxytocin is dropping in higher and higher levels, and then she catches feelings for you. And then, yes, you can let yourself go. But so many times I've seen, not only with myself, but my clients as well, guys who let their feelings go too soon, start expressing them and start trying to pull her into the outcome that they hope will manifest, and then she leaves them.

22:36 You cannot pull a woman into the outcome that you hope will manifest. You could only try to build attraction as much as you can with the techniques that I use, and that flower must open naturally. If you try to force open the petals of a flower, you're going to kill it. You have to just stand back, give her 80% of what she wants, be constantly attractive, be that sanctuary, give her bomb-ass sex, let her dip into the cuddle shuttle and make it the best cuddle she's ever had, and then kind of push her away just before she's satiated, now she's catching feelings, now she's going to fall in love.

23:11 So this is the way to make girls fall in love with you gentlemen. You need to be out of their grasp. You need to be the best sex she's ever had. You need to be that dude that she can't just quite get, but she wants more of because you feel so good, and you feel like a vacation from her life. That's the formula. And women listening, all you got to do is be your crazy selves, and guys will fall in love with you. I'm fucking with you, of course.

23:32 Just messing with you. Don't get butt hurt. But I thought that was so interesting that stress makes guys fall in love. It so makes sense to me now, and I love learning new stuff like that. But, gentlemen, I'm going to teach you everything I know in my Frame Control Masterclass happening this weekend, July 26th through July 30th. I'm having multiple days and times, and I didn't mention this in the beginning of the show, but you'll also get a two-week coaching experience with yours truly, where we're going to get on the phone together with some other brothers, and I'm going to answer your most pressing questions.

24:04 I'm going to give you coaching just like I do for my guys in my three-month coaching program. I cannot believe every single one of you won't sign up for this. And listen, if you can't make one of the times, you still get a recording of it. What's the difference? If you're not able to show up, you still get the entire experience via recording. So there's literally no excuses, and honestly, bro, all your excuses are lies, and I would question them. Why aren't I doing this? Hey, maybe you don't trust me, and if that's the case, okay, it is what it is.

24:33 But if you do trust me, if you feel like I'm genuine, which I am, all I want to do is help you, then there's no reason you shouldn't come to this masterclass. And if you don't like it, I'm going to buy it back from you. You get your money back. There's no risk. And I'll let you keep the recording. I'll even let you come to the fucking coaching experience. That's the kind of giver that I am, and that's how much I believe in myself and this program.

24:54 So sign up right now, gentlemen. This shit's going to be sold out within hours of you listening to this. I can almost guarantee it. And if you miss the boat, it ain't coming again, man. This is a one-time event. Frame Control Masterclass, the most gangster masterclass I've ever put on happening this weekend. And boy, am I ready. I got the PowerPoint dialed, son. This thing's going to be sick, and I can't wait for you guys to experience it. And by the way, if you have signed up already, love you, bro.

25:22 I got you, bro. Just wait. I got you. And I read every single one of your names. I send you a silent thank you. Can't wait to meet you guys. Let's get to it this weekend. Gentlemen, I drop podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays, so please stay tuned for the next one, and I will see you in the next episode. I'll see you in the next episode.

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