3 Attraction Building Conversation Mind Reads to SEDUCE A HOT CHICK FAST

0:00 I don't know, I guess for me it's mainly like going through the NLP stuff just been really helping me. I guess the word's the gestalt, isn't it? I really feel like I'm getting rid of stuff out of my mind. I just feel a lot better generally. So I guess that's probably the biggest win, just feeling so much sort of freer and more able to do things. Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women and being a man without making any apologies for it.

0:38 What is up, you champions? Happy Thursday. I hope the week's been treating you well. And last weekend I was out talking to girls and it always occurs to me how much stuff I have to talk with with women. Just been doing this for two decades. You accumulate a lot of stuff. And one of the things that my clients always tell me, even clients who have done other programs from other dating coaches, they always tell me, bro, you have so much fucking content, more stuff to talk about with girls that you could get through in three lifetimes.

1:04 And that's kind of what I pride myself on. In addition, of course, to the NLP, which in my last episode, we did a little NLP protocol, a tier two kind of protocol. If you haven't checked that out, I strongly suggest it. So I'm talking to this chick and she asks me questions that always evolve into podcasts, right? Because this is how you talk to girls. And I feel one of the things that separates me is I give you guys actual stuff to talk about, not just theory, which is one of the biggest things that frustrates me about other dating coaches.

1:34 They're always like, be fun, talk about interesting stuff, intrigue her, get her to chase you. It's like, great, bro. Thanks for the 10,000 foot perspective. But how, you fucking moron, do I actually do that, you kook? What do I actually talk about? So I'm going to give you guys three, actually four, because I always over deliver things that you should talk about with women. But the reason why I thought about this podcast is because I ran one of these on this chick. I'll tell you which one I did.

2:00 She absolutely loved it. Jumped into the air, slid onto my dick, was super attracted to me. I'm kidding, of course, about the jump in the air part, but damn, she got attracted. And I literally just ran this one thing, which I'm going to teach you today. She also asked me what my nationality is and something that I say, which may work for some of you guys, for others, you may have to think of your own spin on this. But I told her, I'm like, yeah, I'm actually multicultural.

2:27 I'm half white and half dark white. And then she started cracking up. And some people ask me where my last name Singh came from. Actually, we don't really know. But I always tell girls a bullshit story that like my grandpa came over from Europe and he had one of those crazy last names that you'll see in like Russia and Czechoslovakia. It was like Swikhovitovich or something like that. So he comes over from Europe on the boat and he doesn't speak any English. And the guy at the border is like, all right, what's your last name?

2:57 And my grandpa, not knowing any English, thought the guy asked him to sing. I don't know why he thought that. So he belted out and started singing in the middle of the immigration department. And the immigration officer was just like, whatever, dude, your last name is Singh. So that's what I tell girls. But the truth is, I don't fucking know. In fact, I have done some genealogy and apparently I am half Dutch, 20% French, 20% Danish, and 20% Mexican. So I actually have some Hispanic in me. So who knows?

3:24 Maybe like somebody flew to Mexico from India, got fucking stuck there. Their last name was Singh. Somehow the H dropped off the end. And now I have this stupid last name and people always ask me if I can sing. And I'm like, hell to the no, bro, I cannot sing. Have you heard my voice? Have you listened to my podcast? I definitely do not have a voice for radio, but fortunately, I have good information. And I'm going to share that with you boys today. All right.

3:47 So we are going to go over four different games, psychological techniques. This kind of shit gets girls super attracted. And I know a lot of you guys worry about running out of things to talk about. So when I share this with you guys, I always get emails of appreciation, like, thanks, bro. You actually teach me what to talk about with these chicks, because as a lot of you guys have experienced, oftentimes you run out of things to talk about. Then she politely excuses herself and you go home and masturbate in a puddle of your own tears wearing a helmet as you hit said helmet against the fucking wall, because you don't know what to talk about.

4:21 We have to elicit emotions, as I always tell you guys. So let's go ahead and do that and get into the content. So the fourth one is actually the one I told to the girl, and that's actually my favorite one. So I'm going to save it till the end. So you don't blow out my analytics like a fucking sea donkey and click away before the end of this episode, absolutely ruining me and completely destroying my business. I want you to stay on. So I'm saving that one for the end.

4:45 But this first one is really fucking funny. You could do this on the first date easily, even in the first conversation. All right. So what you do is you get a glass of water and you set it down on the table and you get a towel, a little towel, and you put it over the water and you say, so, hey, I'm going to drink that full glass of water without touching that towel. And she's like, are you serious? You'd be like, yeah, I'm going to drink that entire glass of water.

5:08 I'm not going to touch the towel. Do you know how I'm going to do it? And she's like, no. So what you do is you grab a straw. And if you don't have a straw, you could just do this with your mouth. And you kind of go under the table and you push the straw into the underside of the table and then you start sucking and you go, done. So she thinks that somehow you went from under the table and drank the glass of water. Now, obviously, this is impossible, right?

5:33 Here's the trick. You want her to grab the towel to try to see if the water is gone. Once she takes the towel away, you grab the glass of water and you drink it. And you did what you say you were going to do. You drank the water without touching the towel. She's the one who touched the towel. And if you don't have a straw, what I'll do is I'll like go into the table and like push my lips up against the table. Just make sure there's no boogers under there or somebody's old piece of gum.

5:57 And then just be like, all right, it's done. Check it out. And if she's stupid enough, I've had a few girls catch me. But if she's stupid enough, she'll grab the towel and be like, what? And then you grab the drink and drink it. And she's like, ha ha. And then she jumps into the air and slides onto your dick. All right. The second one is really good. It's kind of like a cold read where you're going to tell her about her personality. When it comes to cold reads, you reading her personality, you telling her certain things about her disposition, you revealing things that you know about her, even though she never told you about those things.

6:30 This builds a ton of attraction. So I got a lot of emails a few weeks ago when I did my handwriting analysis podcast. And that's because girls absolutely love this shit. Anytime I've run handwriting analysis or anything like I'm going to teach you today on girls, they get super attracted. And yes, boys, jump in the air, backflip, gainer right onto my dick. And it's going to happen to you as well. All right. So this one's called the first memory trick. You're simply going to ask her, what's the very first memory you can think of as a kid?

7:01 And I want to ask you guys this question because I'm going to run you through it. So me, surprisingly, and I swear to God this is true, I remember walking. And me having a kid myself, my kids started walking at like one years old. And you always hear that your first memory isn't until you're like five years old. I swear to God I remember it. And here's what happened. And my mom confirms this. I was in my room and I was practicing because I wanted to reveal my new skill set to my family and really blow their minds.

7:30 And this is so how I am. It's so my personality. I like to like master things and then show people like all my hard work. So I remember walking through my room and going from the crib to the bed. And then I started eating shit. I like tripped over my foot or whatever. And I remember grabbing onto this bed. It was like this yellow bed sheet, yellow seventies makes sense. It was like this yellow bed sheet. And I just remember grabbing on for dear life. And my mom later confirmed.

7:57 She said, yeah, we used to walk by the room and see you practicing. But anytime we would watch you, you would stop doing it because I'm a showman, dude. I want to master the skill and then reveal it at the most opportune time. So everybody can get blown away. I like to do that stuff. So you ask her, what's your first memory that you can think of as a kid? And as you think about your own memory, I want you to know that the read that you're going to do on the girl and you can do on yourself right now is early memories often reflect core emotional themes such as abandonment, freedom, safety, et cetera.

8:29 So you can say something along the lines of it's wild how our first memory is usually symbolic of how we move through life. That memory that you just told me says you probably deal with, and then you insert the general theme, control issues, need for validation, craving, stability, et cetera. Doesn't that hit? So your first memory, bro, what is it? What does that tell you about yourself? Using my memory as an example, it reaffirms the truth that I like to practice it and reveal it because probably I care about what people think about me.

9:01 So if you really dig deep down into why you have this memory, you're probably going to find that it's true about your personality. And as I always tell you, boys, whenever you do these cold reads on these chicks, whenever you analyze their personality, et cetera, you always want to make it a good thing. So say, for example, her first memory, which is akin to one of my first memories is my mom gave me a balloon and I accidentally let go of it. And as it was floating up, I asked her, can we just get a ladder to get it down?

9:30 And what I'd say to a girl, if she had a similar memory to that, is I'd say, you're always resourceful. You're always thinking of solutions. You're always trying to solve problems. Isn't that true? Doesn't that hit? So you ask her what her first memory is. She tells you what it is. Then you throw her some absolute fucking bullshit out of your ass. You're just BSing her, but maybe it might be right. And then she jumps in the air, triple backflip, slides onto your dick. Number two, the favorite season decode.

9:59 You ask her if you had to pick a favorite season, spring, summer, fall, or winter, which one would you pick and why? Would anybody pick winter? I absolutely hate winter. I don't know if you guys heard my joke from several months ago where I'm like talking about how the Lord is talking to Archangel Michael and saying, you know, earth is not shitty enough. We need to make this more painful. How can we do that? I have an idea, Lord. Why don't we shock them every time they fucking touch a doorknob or kiss their girlfriend?

10:27 Every time I kiss Marissa, we get like massively shocked. And maybe it's just Colorado because it's really dry out here. But dude, winter, God, I hate winter. Yeah, snowboarding, skiing is cool. Snowshoeing, some snow is pretty when it comes down. But dude, I fucking hate winter, man. That's why I go to Arizona every February. So which one's your favorite season? I want to ask you. All right. So if it's spring, you're optimistic. You love fresh starts. You're emotionally intuitive. God, this is such a bunch of BS.

10:57 But it's kind of true. It's kind of true. Let's just roll with it. Summer craves excitement. Social butterfly. High energy. Guys, chicks eat this shit up. Tall, deep, nostalgic, possibly a bit melancholy. In winter, you're just nothing but a fucking psychopath, dude. Like why would anybody choose winter? But what you can tell her is she's independent, strong boundaries, reflective. I'm telling you guys, this works. Like girls love this shit. So your cold read could be, you didn't just pick a season, Amy. You picked a mood.

11:29 And that mood mirrors the energy you naturally bring into other people's lives. As you're saying this, you're going to like have to hold back your smile. Just be like, dude, I am bullshitting this chick into bed. And then what happens? She fucking runs at the wall, jumps on the wall, off the wall, double backflip, takes off her pants, takes off her panties, which fly around your face, slides right onto your dick. But that time she misses and she actually breaks your boner. And then you end up in the hospital as a retarded guy walks next to your stretcher yelling over and over again, he was masturbating.

12:02 He was masturbating. If you get that reference, it's from the movie Something About Mary. Definitely one of the all time funniest movies ever made. Fucking genius. Remember that part? He's like, he was masturbating. Dude, he's getting wheeled out. God, that movie's funny. If you guys haven't seen it, some of you young bucks maybe haven't seen it. It's from the 90s, so funny. Go watch that tonight. And Cameron Diaz, smoke show, dog. That chick's almost a 10, in my opinion. Very solid nine. All right. And the last one, boys, the three animals game.

12:32 This is the one that I ran on that chick the other day. And she's like, oh my hell, what's your phone number? And I'm like, blow yourself out, you fucking sea donkey. I've got a girlfriend and she's way harder than you. But it was fun talking to you. Now, kick rocks with your head down. Don't let the door hit you with the good Lord splinter, you fucking sea bass. So, what you do is you have her name three animals. Your favorite animal, your second favorite animal, and your third favorite animal.

12:56 So, I want you fucking kooks to do that right now. What's your favorite animal, bro? I know it's one of those monkeys with the big ass pink butthole because you think about getting your dick into it. You sick motherfucker. But really, what's your favorite animal? What's your second favorite animal? What's your third favorite animal? All right. Here's a psychological read. Your first favorite animal is how you see yourself. So, if you pick the sloth, that's because you're a lazy son of a bitch. And all you do is sit around watching Netflix and masturbating.

13:25 What's your second favorite animal? That's how others see you. And your third favorite animal, who you really are deep down. So, I'm going to tell you my three favorite animals. Straight up, my favorite animal is the flying fish. Why? Because that motherfucker says, look, I'm a fish. I'm not going to just walk. I'm going to fly, you fucking sea donkeys. And then he flies out of the water. Something you would never expect a fish to do. I absolutely love those bastards. I've actually been hit with one once when we were out on the open seas.

13:57 They got chased by some marlin or something. And they came up and flew into our boat. And I got hit on the arm by one. And I was like, yeah, that's my bro Tendo right there. The flying fish. My second favorite animal is the lion. The male lion. Because he kicks ass and takes names. My third favorite animal, probably a dolphin, dude. Especially those dudes that do the flips and shit. They seem pretty happy, right? Those guys seem pretty pumped on life. I think that's my third favorite animal.

14:22 So, what's your three favorite animals, dude? The first one, again, how you see yourself. Second one, how others see you. And then the third one, who you really are deep down. So, here's the cold read. And we're going to use my three favorite animals just as examples. So, you're saying, that's interesting, Kelly. So, you want to be perceived as a flying fish. But you're seen, actually, as a lion. Strong, independent, powerful. But when no one's watching, you're actually a dolphin. You're playful. You just want to have fun.

14:52 Guys, girls love this shit. The chick who I was talking to, her favorite animal was a fucking dog. And I'm like, what an idiot. And her second favorite animal was a monkey. And then I think number three was a bunny rabbit or some shit. So, I just pulled BS out of my butt. Told her what she wants to hear. Read her personality. And seriously, guys, she got attracted just that quick. A lot of the issue that you guys have is that you have nothing to talk about.

15:16 This is where you need to get these in. So, to remind you of the four. Going over them very quickly again. Number one, drink a glass of water. You put a towel on it. You get her to take the towel off. You drink it. Number two, the first memory trick. What's your first memory? What their answer is, is symbolic of how they move through life. What it tells me about them. Number three is the favorite season decode. You ask her what her favorite season is. And if it's winter, you just fucking push her right off the balcony.

15:43 Like, just fucking shove her until she falls off the third story. That's just what you do. Winter, horrible, man. And the Lord has said unto them, I will shock them each time they touch metal, just to make that winter a little bit worse. And then the last one's a three animals game. What's your favorite animal? Second favorite animal. Third favorite animal. First one's how they see themselves. Second one's how others see them. And then third one, who they really are, dude. So cheesy, but so effective.

16:12 And gentlemen, if you tell your friends about my podcast, I am going to give you a bunch of perks. I've been talking about my perks program in addition to my three-month coaching program. Over the last several months, I'm trying to get guys to do this. And a lot of guys are doing it. And boys, I sincerely appreciate that. So as I said at the top of the show, I've been accumulating stuff for two decades. And I remember back in like 2005, I did a massive search on like funny one-liners to tell the chicks, right?

16:40 And there was nothing. The only one I found was we need to get you a sippy cup. So I went to work creating my own. And that's how I created the Conversation Sniper, which gives you over 150 deadly one-liners for building attraction. Such things as you and my grandma should totally go pick up guys together. Stand down, Sergeant Hader. Relax, Captain Negatron. If you are smart, you know you're dumb. You need to shut up when you're talking and then pointing a phone at her and trying to turn down the volume.

17:09 And she's like, what are you doing? And you're like, I'm just trying to get you to be quiet. How do I do that? And there's 150 of those lines, boys. If you just tell friends about the podcast or even leave a review of my podcast on iTunes, on Spotify, subscribe on YouTube, which is growing slower than pond water because I've been sandboxed. The other day, I got an email from a dude. He's like, Mark, I don't get it. Your information is so awesome, but you're so unsuccessful.

17:34 You have no views on YouTube. And I'm like, look at my fucking Spotify, you canyon mule. This thing's the biggest dating podcast for men. YouTube has sandboxed me. I'm actually gonna get on an app called Rumble and I'm gonna ask you guys to join that once I am. But yeah, YouTube sandboxed me. So if you could like videos there, comment on them, subscribe, I'd really appreciate that. But boys, talking to girls about interesting shit is gonna make them fucking go up to the 10th floor, jump off the 10th floor, quadruple backflip, swan dive, open legs right onto your dick because that's how attracted it gets them.

18:08 So guys, please help a brother out. Tell your friends about my podcast. It's good quality content. Nothing to be ashamed of that you're listening to a dating coach, but instead something to be proud of because you're trying to build yourself up and you wanna help your boys too. So please tell them about it. Email me at coachmarksing at gmail.com and I will send you all that cool shit, including The Conversation Sniper, Three Texts to Build Massive Attraction to Women, Guide to the Female Orgasm, and a myriad of different masterclasses, courses, templates, cold reads, the whole lot of it, gentlemen, to get girls insatiably attracted to you.

18:43 Insatiably, that was good. I like that. Keep it in there, Liam. All right, boys, I do appreciate you listening. I draw podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays, so please stay tuned for the next one and I will see you in the next episode. We'll see you in the next episode. I was spooky on that one, boys.

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