WHY YOU SHOULD CHEAT ON WOMEN

0:00 So we understand that cheating is always a dysfunction, it's not healthy, but yes, we have to understand that unfortunately, women will oftentimes be more attracted to a dude and more likely to stay with him if he cheated on her. Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, you champions? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate you. And today, boys, we are going to talk about why you should cheat on girls.

0:44 Now, you guys know how I roll. I like to put those controversial titles to get some clicks. So do I really believe you should cheat on girls? Of course I do. I'm just kidding, boys. No, absolutely I don't. But there's some interesting studies that have come out that I'm really excited to share with you guys because it's come out that women are actually more attracted to dudes who cheat on them or, with my angle on this thing, who have the ability and who can cheat on them, which I think is a better way to put it.

1:14 So as I often do, boys, I'm always researching. I'm always keeping my thumb on the pulse of this community, my thumb on the pulse of what makes women tick and what makes women attracted to men like you and me. And it's come out in a recent study that women who have been cheated on are actually more likely to stay with their partner. Now, as I research this, I kind of disagree with that because obviously a woman who would stay with a man who cheats on her obviously has some internal issues.

1:46 What usually happens is she's had some issues with either her mom or her dad where she felt betrayed as a child, so she's attracted to that kind of dynamic. Oftentimes, and you may see this in your own life, we are attracted to and or drawn to certain women who emulate the dysfunctions of our parents. So say, for example, your mom never gave you love. You always felt like you wanted more love from your mom. You always felt like she was slightly out of your grasp. What are you going to be attracted to?

2:17 The answer is obvious. You're going to be attracted to women who, too, are slightly out of your grasp, who you feel like don't really love you, and you're going to chase after them because subconsciously you want to change them because if you change them, then you believe you will have changed your mom or your dad. So we understand that in today's society, there's a ton of dysfunction. You know it. I know it. Hell, even Kim Jong-un knows it because this society is fucked up. There are lots of dysfunctions.

2:46 There are lots of people doing effed up things to their children, to their siblings, to their parents. It's all over the place. This is just a big toxic society. And my belief, because we haven't evolved in our consciousness to understand that what you do to another, you do to yourself, and negativity only equals more negativity. But because where we're at as humanity in our evolution of our consciousness, we haven't quite figured that out yet. So people do effed up things to each other. Yes, even to their children.

3:16 And oftentimes, it's completely unconscious. We don't know what we're doing to our kids because it's simply what our parents did to us. So you have a kid, and this may even be you, who didn't get love for their parents, who were insulted by their parents, whose dad didn't approve of them, whose brother was a complete douche canoe the way my brother was, instilling fear and doubt in myself I can't even explain to you. And then you're attracted to people who do the same thing. So while this study is probably accurate that a lot of women are attracted to and drawn to men who cheat on them, it's always because of dysfunction if a woman is going to stay with a man who cheats on her.

3:57 And it's the same thing for you, bro. Have you ever been cheated on? I know a lot of you guys listening have. Did you stay with that girl? Did you let her know that what she did was okay? And now are you regretting that decision? Obviously, you are because here's how it works. Once a cheater, always a cheater. And if you condone that behavior, if you let her get away with it and she promises you it'll never happen again, it's going to happen again because she got away with it the first time.

4:21 So we understand that cheating is always a dysfunction. It's not healthy. But yes, we have to understand that unfortunately, women will oftentimes be more attracted to a dude and more likely to stay with him if he cheated on her. But again, I have to put a caveat on this. It's those women who are dysfunctional, which unfortunately the majority of society is. So the majority of society, according to this study, would stay with a man who cheated on her. Now, I want to spin this out and apply it to a healthy woman because a healthy woman, as many women listening right now who are getting all fired up and who are about to email me, bro, while their fingers are hovering above the keyboard ready to send me that hate mail, hold off for a second, let me explain.

5:09 Because women who are healthy obviously do not want you to cheat on them. What they want is for you to have the ability to go get another woman if things don't work out with you and her. Let me explain. So as we know, gentlemen, the way female psychology works is this. Women are attracted to what women are attracted to. What in God hell does that mean? It means that a woman is going to become attracted to you when she knows that other women are attracted to you.

5:38 And this is called pre-selection. And this too is why in my coaching program, I teach you how to subtly signify that women are attracted to you. You have women in your life. Women want to be with you. You're an absolute legend, which is what we need to convince women we are before they can get attracted to us. It's a cognitive shortcut. If she knows that other women are attracted to you, if she knows, for example, you're married and a high quality woman has approved of you, she's fucking put the stamp of approval right on your forehead.

6:10 She's going to get more attracted to you because you've been pre-selected. Look at that word. Pre-before-selected. You have been selected. You are the big winner. Just like I want all you guys to be, which is why I have my boys emulate and even pretend that they have hot women in their lives, even if they don't. Then once they do get hot women in their lives, it's a snowball and they get more and more success. I was just reading a post in our Brotherhood Facebook group where dudes like, I'm getting too many girls.

6:38 I've got stalker Texas Rangers. These chicks are stage five Klingons. How do I get rid of them? This is what's going to happen to each of you guys if, of course, you come into my three-month coaching program. But even if you don't, if you show pre-selection, because it goes back to that female psychology, she wants to know that you can cheat on her. And I stand behind that. The other statistics that say women are more likely to stay with a man who does cheat on her, I'm actually going to disagree with that because that's a subsection of society who is unhealthy.

7:10 But I will say they will stay with you if you can cheat on them. Don't get it twisted, gentlemen. Marissa, my woman, knows that I could go out tonight and pull a girl. She knows I could probably go get laid tonight if I wanted to. Even just not knowing anybody in the city, if we fly into fucking Detroit and I go out to a nightclub, I could probably get laid. And she's attracted to that. No matter how much her logical mind wants to fight it, attraction is not a choice.

7:37 Attraction is not logical. What women are attracted to and what they think they actually want and what actually adheres to their morals from a logical perspective is not what gets them emotionally attracted. What gets them emotionally attracted? A dude who has game. A dude who has options. A dude who, yes, could go cheat on her. Could I go cheat on Marissa any day of the week and twice on Sunday? Could you go cheat on a girl who you're dating? Hopefully you could. If you can't, it's something that you want the ability to do.

8:11 Now, am I telling you to do it? Fuck no. I would never cheat on Marissa. I don't give a shit how hot the girl is, how fine that ass is that gets thrown at me. And believe me, I've had plenty of super hot girls offer me to cheat on Marissa. And I was like, kick rocks with your head down, chick. I have more honor than a phalanx of Spartans, which too is extremely attractive to women. So we have this juxtaposition where she wants you to be able to cheat on her, but she doesn't want you to do it.

8:39 She wants other girls to be attracted to you, but she wants you to say no to them. She wants to know that if you broke up with her, you could go get laid tonight, but you wouldn't do it. It's that bad boy, nice guy juxtaposition that I'm actually going to do a podcast about here in the next few weeks. Why nice guys finish last. I'm going to teach you how to be a bad boy, but also a nice guy at the same time, which is what women really want.

9:05 They want you to have the player ability, but not act on it and choose her every single day, which I do with Marissa. So with Marissa, she knows I could cheat on her, but I don't. And that's the combination, boys. You can, but you choose not to. Now let's roll this out and compare it to all the examples I've given you in this podcast, but better yet in my three-month coaching program. What do I tell you guys to do when you go into the nightclubs and you talk to chicks?

9:32 I tell you to make each girl feel like she's the special one and you're denying all the other girls who really want you. What do I tell you to do on your Instagram page? I tell you to take pictures with chicks, but not you hooking up with those girls, simply those girls wanting you and you being the alpha who denies all the girls and then only picks your queen. This is why you should take pictures of you standing with girls who are all looking at you or like kissing you on the cheek, but meh, you're kind of disinterested.

10:01 You're looking for your queen. And this is what I say to girls all the time who accuse me of being a player. They're like, I see you talking to girls all the time. You're flirting with all the girls. And I'm like, yeah, I'm looking for my queen. Do you see me kissing them? And they have to say no. Do you see me yanking phone numbers? No. Yeah, I'm looking for the girl for me. Now she's thinking, ooh, I might be that girl, but don't get it twisted, boys.

10:23 She's also thinking, hmm, it's kind of sexy that he could have sex with all those different girls, but he chooses not to. This is the ideal calibration. So yes, girls who are dysfunctional, they are attracted to, and yes, they will even stay with a dude who cheats on them. But that isn't the ideal situation, obviously. What they really want is a dude who can cheat on them, who has pre-selection, who other girls want, and he chooses not to cheat on them, but he actually stays with her and he's loyal to her.

10:56 He has more honor than a phalanx of Spartans. He has more honor than Maximus on his final day when that asshole Commodus stabbed him in the fucking kidney and he still died on behalf of Rome. That's what women want. They want that strength. They want that honor, but they still want to know that you could go out and get it if you really wanted it. What kind of girl wants to be with the dude who couldn't get another girl? Think about it. What does that say about you?

11:22 If you settle for a girl and you can't yank girls on command, it's unattractive, bro. And she's going to have a higher chance to leave you because a woman wants a man who has what? What have I told you guys a million times in this podcast and obviously in my three-month coaching program, what is the most attractive trait a man can have? That's right. And I think some of you missed this question. And if you did, you need to come join us in the program. It's survivability.

11:49 The ability to survive and thrive in today's society. Not because she wants you to take care of her, although the option is attractive to her. It's really because she wants your genes to pass on to her children. So what is a dude who can't pull other chicks? Does he have high survivability? No. He's lazy. He's not motivated. He's not ambitious. He's not confident. A guy who can't pull girls is essentially unattractive. Now, I know that's an obvious statement, but really think about it. You are unattractive if you can't pull girls.

12:22 You are attractive when you can pull girls. And this too goes into my concept, from quantity comes quality. I want you talking to lots of girls. I want lots of girls attracted to you. I want you to friend zone chicks. I want chicks to be on your tip and you to be like, yeah, yeah, whatever. And then from that, quality is going to come because you have abundance. In this program, it isn't a sniper approach. There's the girl. I'm going to get that one girl. I'm going to talk to nobody else.

12:50 This is the only one for me. And I'm just going to be a shut-in with that girl. We're going to lay in bed, smoke pot, have sex all day, and nobody else matters to me. That isn't the way this works, boys. The way it works is I'm talking to all girls. All women are attracted to me. I have options all over the court, but I choose that one. And she knows that you have options all over the court, and therefore, she stays attracted to you because an unattractive man is an unattractive man, which, again, sounds obvious, but really think about it.

13:20 It's because you're not pulling girls that if you do get a girl, she's going to leave you. She's going to cheat on you. Women cheat on men who have no game. Women cheat on men who have no confidence, ambition, men who aren't trying to make something of themselves, men who have no purpose. So your job is to be that next-level dude who has purpose, who has ambition, who's confident, and yeah, bro, could cheat on her any day of the week and twice on Sunday. This is why some married men, guys in relationships, listen to my podcast.

13:53 They hit me up, and they want the NLP that I do. I don't typically sell the NLP separately from my three-month coaching program, but for guys in relationships and for guys who are married, I do it occasionally. So if you're a married dude or a guy in a relationship and you really don't have the game that you want to have, you don't have the confidence you want to have, and you know that because of that, your wife or girlfriend might be losing attraction for you, I'm here for you, bro.

14:19 Write me. Email me. We will talk. We'll see about getting you a custom three-month NLP protocol. But this is only for men in relationships, only for men who are married. For those of you who are single, you must come into my three-month coaching program. As I talked about on my previous episode, what are you going to do when you're 80 years old and you look back and you're like, man, I wish I had sex with more girls. And it's funny because Marissa's parents are in an old folks' home, and we go and visit them sometimes.

14:46 And I was actually talking to a dude, and we were talking about dating, and we were talking about his past, and I was like, be honest with me, Vern. Homeboy's name was literally Vern. I was like, dude, what kind of name is that? His name is Vern. I'm like, be honest with me, Vern. Do you wish you banged more girls? Now, obviously, I asked that question in a less direct way, but he told me. He's like, yeah, I really wish I did. There were some girls throughout my life, like 1970s, this chick at the discotheque with the 1970s poof in her underwear.

15:15 I never saw the poof. I never got to take down the underwear and let it go. And a big poof shows up because I didn't have game to get that girl. Now, think about your grandparents, boys. Did they have a program like this available to them? No. Think about your dad. Was he able to train in the way that you're able to train? No. Stop being a podcast jockey. Invest in yourself. Come join us in the program because I'll tell you, if you get to the end of your life as Vern is, and you have regrets about all the missed opportunities you've had, believe me, that is going to be hell on earth.

15:47 What would it be like if you could attract women on command? And think about this. If you're just a podcast jockey waiting to get your girl, getting a few tips here and there and hoping you can hold on to her, the best way to hold on to her is your ability to cheat on her. And I'm sorry, but that's just the way it works. Female psychology. Women are always looking for the upgrade plan. And she knows that you are the top tier dude who she can get because you could get any girl you want.

16:17 That's the way to keep a woman is to let her know that you could cheat on her if you wanted to, but you choose not to. You choose to stay with her. You choose to be loyal. You choose to have more honor than a phalanx of Spartans on the battlefield. That's what the fuck I'm talking about. So when these reports come out that women want to be cheated on, quote unquote, I disagree. Only dysfunctional women will stay with the dude who cheats on her. But make no mistake, she wants you to be able to cheat on her.

16:46 Women are attracted to what women are attracted to, which means you have game, you have frame, you've worked on yourself, you've dealt with your bullshit. Because the lineage of dysfunction that has made guys like you and me needy for women's validation, needy for women's love, needy for women's attention is just that. It's a dysfunction that we have to put the stop to, not to pass it down future generations to our kids and then to their kids. You need to work on what's going on inside your head.

17:17 This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity that nobody throughout history has ever had for you to work directly with me, an NLP coach who can remap the bullshit inside your head, give you game and frame so that you have choice, you have abundance. And when you do pick your queen, she's going to stay with you because she knows that you choose to stay with her from abundance rather than from scarcity. Because if you stay with a woman from scarcity, she's going to cheat on you. And then if you keep her, horrible, bro.

17:48 Worse thing you could do because she's going to keep cheating on you. She's going to lose respect for you. And eventually she's going to leave you. You're like, oh, she cheated on me one time with a guy who graduated Mark Sings three-month coaching program. I'll just let that go. I'll forgive her. She'll be good. I can convince her logically that she won't do it again. If I beg her enough, she won't do it again. Then what happens? She does it again and again and again. Then she loses respect for you.

18:13 Then she leaves you. Then your self-esteem is in the gutter and you have to build yourself back up again. Don't be that dude. Be the guy who took the hands he was dealt in life, made the meanest hand possible, and won this game by having abundance, by getting in with all those girls that you've wanted to get in with. What would it be like, bro, for you to have every single girl that you've ever been attracted to you in your bed? I can give you that power.

18:39 The only question is, will you apply? Will you take the step to invest in yourself in 2025? Come join us in the brotherhood. It's at least worth exploring. So put in your application by clicking the link below. You and I will talk, and if it all makes sense, you're going to get on a one-hour NLP session with me and my team to see if we can at least 10 extra results with women, which is what we do with every single guy who comes into the program. So guys, once again, women want you to have the ability to cheat on them, but they don't want you to actually do it.

19:10 At least the healthy ones don't want you to actually do it. They want you to stay with her from choice, from honor. That is the most attractive thing. Stay tuned for upcoming episodes, one of which I'm going to do, which is why Nice Guys finished last, an episode that's going to explain to you why nice dudes continuously get blown out, how you can be the bad boy, but a good dude who treats her like gold at the same time. The perfect mix that every single girl wants.

19:39 We're going to turn you into that, guys. So gentlemen, I do appreciate you listening. I draw a podcast on Mondays and Thursdays, so please stay tuned for the next one, and I will see you in the next episode.

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