Why Gorgeous Women Are NUTS

0:00 Because when you have this superpower, you get whatever you want resolved immediately. You have a pain, somebody's going to give you some medicine. You don't like to wait in line. Okay, you could get in for free. Do you want to go to Dubai? I will fly you there and back today. You guys have all heard situations like this. This is the reality of a hot girl. So who wouldn't go nuts? Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it.

0:39 What is up, my unapologetic brothers? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate you and my friend. I want you to imagine something. And so let's kind of get into our imagination here because we are going to imagine what it's like to be an extremely hot girl. And this is going to lead into my point as to why gorgeous women are nuts. And a lot of you guys probably laughed when you saw that title. And a lot of you guys have had experiences with nuts, gorgeous women.

1:07 And I'm going to explain to you exactly why that is with this analogy. So bear with me here. I'm going to walk you through something. All right, I want you to imagine that suddenly when you hit puberty, everything in your life changes. Suddenly, everybody wants something from you. At least half the population wants something from you. People start lying to you in order to get what they want from you. And every single girl out there wants to have sex with you. Now, I know for a lot of you guys, you're like, dude, that sounds awesome.

1:37 Everybody wants something from me. All these girls want to have sex with me. People are lying to me in order to get what they want and make me have what I want. This sounds phenomenal. So I'm going to spread this out a little bit. And I'm going to extend this analogy to make it a little more uncomfortable for you so you can properly relate to what women are going through. I want you to imagine that every single woman in the world has a broomstick and she wants to put it in your butthole.

2:02 And when she looks at you, she's like, I really want to put my broomstick in his butthole. And you're walking down the street and everybody's looking at you weird. And all these girls are just looking at you like a piece of steak. And they all want to put their broomstick in your butthole. They're lying to you. They're giving you every single thing you want. And you begin to realize that you have this immense power. What happens when you have that kind of power? Specifically, when you just go through puberty, which could be as early as 13, 14, 15, usually about 16 years old, and you haven't developed the character yet to deal with this power that you have over all these women that desperately want something from you and who want to put their broomstick in your butthole, you would start to develop some weird tendencies.

2:46 You would start to develop some weird expectations. You would be defensive. You would be creeped out. You would have, as we often say, resting bitch face. Now, gentlemen, you are starting to understand what it's like to be an extremely gorgeous woman. And I'm not talking an eight or a nine. I'm talking a fucking 10. The kind of girl who you just masturbated to on Pornhub.com with your frequent masturbator platinum card, that kind of girl. We've all seen eights. We've all seen nines. And occasionally, maybe like once a year, if you're not in the nightclubs, if you're not seeking it out intentionally, will you see a girl that hot?

3:24 A girl that hot lives in a completely different reality, brother. And here's her reality. Just as I explained with the broomstick analogy, everybody's lying to her. Every single guy wants to have sex with her. Guys cannot hold their water around her. So she thinks that most men are weird. Everybody is giving her what she wants, giving her the benefit of the doubt. She gets a free hand in life. But at the same time, she feels very threatened and she doesn't know she can trust anybody. It's kind of like being the rich guy.

3:55 How do I know who my friends are when I'm super fucking rich? It's the dude who was there before I was rich. But in the case of most women, there isn't a guy there unless it's her next door neighbor or something that was there before she became super fucking hot. So she has to constantly think, why is this guy being so nice to me? Why can't he speak to me normally? And what is he trying to get from me? Does he just want my sex? Yes, probably he does.

4:21 Gentlemen, the one thing that I'm confident about that you know with 100% certainty is just how powerful your sexuality is. Us as men will do just about anything to have sex with a super hot girl. We'll work out. We'll listen to podcasts like this one. We'll join coaching programs. We'll invest in ourself. We will go so far to the end of the world and back in order to have sex with a banging girl that from the woman's perspective, when she is that gorgeous, she's under that kind of pressure of our motivation.

4:53 I mean, think about it, bro. You're sitting here listening to this podcast. I can only assume that you've listened to other of my episodes. Perhaps you've listened to the Ask Women podcast with Marnie. Maybe you've listened to the How to Talk to Girls podcast with Tripp. We put a lot of fucking energy into this because for men, our desire to have sex with an attractive woman is ingrained deep in who we are. And we are highly motivated. It reminds me of that one show, Walking Dead.

5:19 Do you remember that one? It was the show about the zombies where all the people turned into zombies. And there's this one scene where this character who hadn't turned into a zombie yet gets stuck on top of a trash can, one of those big industrial trash cans. And he's standing there and all these zombies are around him trying to kill him. That's what it's like to be a hot girl. But instead of zombies, it's a bunch of dudes with their dicks in their hands saying, you want this dick?

5:45 You want this dick? How about my dick? Not his dick. Take my dick. All these dudes are trying to give her the dick. They're lying to her. They're deceiving her. They're giving her basically whatever she wants. And she is living in a completely different reality. So you might ask the question, is this a good reality or is it a shitty reality? Well, obviously, boys, it's a bit of both. Hot women get a free hand in life, okay? There's no arguing around it. I don't care how many of my hot friends have tried to convince me that they don't get a free hand in life.

6:14 I see it firsthand, bro, tater cuff. These chicks get into all the nightclubs for free. They get free drinks. They get free bottle service. When we go to the diner after the nightclub, they oftentimes get free food. Like, oh, do you ladies want this upgrade? How about this? How about that? And these fucking waiters are completely beside themselves, can't even hold their water talking to them. What does this do to an influential mind of a young woman? Because don't get it twisted. They get this power right around the time they go through puberty or perhaps a few years later.

6:46 So you literally have this 16, 17, 18 through what? 25-year-old who hasn't really developed a lot of character, who's given this immense power to basically get whatever she wants. What do you think her reality is going to be like? She's going to expect to get whatever she wants. She's going to expect people to bend over backwards for her. She's going to expect to affect everybody in society, yes, even women, in a way where they give her the benefit of the doubt. To further elaborate on this point, the benefit of the doubt is not only given to extremely gorgeous women, but also to children who are good-looking.

7:22 There was an experiment where teachers were basically given a picture of either a very good-looking child or a very ugly child. And the synopsis of the child said the same thing. He or she is disruptive. He or she won't shut up. He or she is mean to other students. He or she is a complete terror. Are you able to handle this kid? Well, what do you think the results showed? The results showed when the kid was really good-looking, either a boy or a girl, the teacher said, yeah, I could probably handle him.

7:50 Bring him into my class. I got it. I can handle this child. If the child, on the other hand, was extremely ugly or even average-looking, the teacher said, ah, reading this file, I don't think I can handle the child. So put him in somebody else's class. So we see from the get-go that we as humans automatically default to giving attractive people the benefit of the doubt. But when it comes to women, they literally have a superpower. There is nothing more powerful than an attractive woman among horny men.

8:21 I mean, think about that dynamic. You have a bunch of low-value dudes who want to get laid, which, make no mistake, is the majority of society. Then you get a hot girl moving through society, getting anything she wants from those men. I mean, these chicks get taken on trips to Dubai. They get taken to NBA games, baseball games, all VIP. Anytime they go into a nightclub, like I said, they get free bottle service, free entrance. They're usually in the VIP room. They get a free hand in life in many ways, but at the same time, they don't know who they can trust.

8:52 They know that every single guy wants to fuck them. At least they figure that out shortly after they go through puberty and they get this immense power. So what do they start doing? They start expecting to have that immense power. And when they don't get their way, they are fucking nuts. And a lot of you guys are laughing right now because a lot of you guys have been with hot chicks. And you're like, dude, they're totally insane. They have a warped sense of reality. They complain all the time.

9:19 They expect freebies wherever they go. You know what they remind me of? They remind me of a toddler. My little girl just turned five years old, so I'm kind of out of the toddler phase. But I remember telling all my friends this. I would be like, brother, when you have a toddler, this is what it's like. It's like dealing with an Arabian oil princess who through her whole life got every single thing she wanted. And when you don't give her what she wants, she has an automatic temper tantrum.

9:47 Just this morning, and my girl's five years old now, so the temper tantrums are slowing down. But just this morning, she wanted to tape her jacket to her pants to make a snowsuit and then wear said snowsuit. But because of the way she taped it together, she couldn't get into it. So here we are trying to explain to her, Lucia, you cannot wear this outfit. You can only wear the jacket. We'll buy you a snowsuit, whatever it takes. Just get in the fucking jacket. Get in the car because we're late to school.

10:16 And it immediately flashed into my head, this is like dealing with a hot girl. Guys, I have been with girls that would complain endlessly. I remember one time I was hanging out with this girl, and we were coming back from a ski trip or something. And she's like, what's wrong? And I tried very delicately to explain my perspective, and I said this, which was a mistake. I was like, there just seems to be a lot of things that make you uncomfortable. She got so mad, dude.

10:44 She fucking gave me the silence treatment for the rest of the trip home. But that's how it is. They complain endlessly. Why? Because when you have this superpower, you get whatever you want resolved immediately. You have a pain, somebody is going to give you some medicine. You don't like the seat you're in, and you complain a little bit. Oh, that's okay, ma'am. Let's move you to first class. You don't like the food you have. Oh, I'm so sorry, ma'am. Let me get you twice the food and take care of your check.

11:09 You don't like to wait in line. Okay, you could get in for free. Oh, you like this outfit? Have it for free. As long as you wear it and tell other people about it, you could have it for free. Do you want to go to Dubai? Do you want to go to France and have a real French dinner? I will fly you there and back today. We will not even be in France for more than 24 hours. Just to take you there to get something to eat.

11:31 You guys have all heard situations like this. This is the reality of El Haak, girl. So who wouldn't go nuts? It was said in that movie, Spider-Man, with great power comes great responsibility. How can you give a 16-year-old girl this kind of power and expect her to be responsible with it? You would abuse it, as would I, had I not the character developed in order to handle it. It was also said by Abraham Lincoln, the best way to judge a man's character is to give him power.

11:59 Which unfortunately, when applied to women and their hotness, when you give a woman power at such a young age, of course she's going to be nuts. Now, there is a counterbalance to this and I want to explain. You may be listening thinking, great, dude. So Mark Singh is teaching me how to get girls, but I'm not able to get an extremely hot one because she's going to be nuts, right? No. I'm not saying that every single gorgeous woman is nuts. And I will admit to you that I kind of put that as clickbait, as I am apt to do.

12:28 And I think you guys expect that from me. That I put like a really controversial title, then you click into it and I lay out my argument in a way that says, yeah, some people are nuts, but other people are normal. And this is typically what I found to be normal when it comes to really gorgeous women. A really gorgeous woman who had a steady father presence and who still has a father who is strong, masculine, and who raised her with good morals, she usually is not nuts.

12:58 Also, a woman who has good brothers in her life are usually not nuts. And I'm actually going to talk about how to attract these women in a minute, so stay tuned. So if a woman grows up with a really good foundational family structure and she's able to be taught how to handle this hotness, she usually is not nuts. The other situation where a girl is super hot and she's not nuts is where through the majority of her childhood or perhaps into puberty, she wasn't attractive. It's kind of like the ugly duckling syndrome where she wasn't attractive as a kid, so she got to develop her personality.

13:34 Perhaps she was fat. And then she went through puberty. Maybe she was still a little bit chubby. And then she lost all her weight and she became an absolute beauty. Those girls are usually normal too. Now, here's the thing. Even if a woman is nuts, you can oftentimes kind of snap them out of it because there is a sane person behind the craziness. The problem that we as men do is we give them too much credit. We treat them differently. We put the pussy on a pedestal, quote unquote, and we're like one of those zombies trying to eat the dude who's standing on top of the trash can or saying at least, you want some dick, you want some dick, you want some dick.

14:10 And for guys who are bad with women, when she rejects that guy, he's all angry like an old man trying to send back soup at a deli. And she can't help but think guys are fucking crazy. So if you come along and you just treat her normally, you treat her just like her brothers and her dad does. You can snap her out of that crazy and she could be a normal woman. So the key to get a really gorgeous woman is to learn how to game girls, be used to being around hot girls and not let their hotness affect you.

14:40 Now, do extremely gorgeous women have a higher possibility of becoming nuts than normal women? I'm going to go out on a limb and say, yes, they do. Only because they are given this gigantic amount of power typically before they're ready for it, especially if they have daddy issues, especially if they have mommy issues, especially if anything fucked up happened in their childhood, they haven't yet developed the character to deal with that level of hotness. And I'm talking 10 out of 10 here. I'm talking IG models, runway models, the kind of girl who causes car accidents when she walks down the street, who has an innate dysfunction within her and who doesn't work on it.

15:14 Yes, has a higher probability of becoming nuts because she gets this great power before she has the character to deal with it. Can she come out of it? Of course she can. And unfortunately for all women who are super gorgeous, age is going to make you come out of it because you're going to realize soon you no longer have that power. I can't remember who said it, but somebody said the realest day in a really hot woman's life is when she realizes she's not hot anymore and she becomes a normal citizen just like the rest of us.

15:45 She finally realizes, oh, I don't get everything for free. Oh, I'm not going to be flown to Dubai and taken on a week vacation and told that only maybe I have to have sex with the Prince of Arabia. Hmm. Why isn't this happening to me anymore? Oh, I see. Cause age has degraded my looks and now I have to live in society with everybody else. So this is why gorgeous women are nuts. Sometimes they're nuts because they haven't developed the character to deal with it. They're nuts because everybody lies to them.

16:15 They're nuts because every single dude wants to fuck them, just like you walking around and every single girl's looking at you like she wants to put a fucking hockey stick up your butt. That's their reality. And they get everything they want pretty much. They get free hands, people giving the benefit of the doubt. Everybody smiles at them. Even women treat gorgeous women with deference because we have this innate belief that because she's beautiful, she's somehow the chosen one. Bullshit. All you have to do, brother, is treat her like everybody else.

16:46 Now, obviously, this is easier said than done, but if you could just be completely normal around a hot girl, don't treat her with more respect. Don't be happier around her. Don't even be mean to her, which is another pitfall that guys fall into and another bullshit aspect of life that hot women have to deal with. Guys are like, yeah, everybody's giving her a benefit of the doubt. I'm going to be mean to her. How about that? Will that work? Doesn't work either because you're not being authentic.

17:13 Beautiful women are just like everybody else, brothers. They just happen to be born into a stunning body. Who cares? Do not give them that benefit of the doubt. Do not give them freebies. Do not smile like a jackass and go into screensaver mode in front of them. Treat them just like you would a fat girl and watch them get attracted to you. And can you find a gorgeous one? I'm talking a 10 out of 10 who isn't nuts? Yes. There's millions of them out there, but you have to start with you.

17:41 You have to fix all the bullshit in your head because perhaps you've been put in a post-hypnotic trance thinking that beautiful women are somehow above you and you talk to them like they're above you, not even knowing what you're doing. So it all starts with you and it all starts knowing that, yeah, some gorgeous women are nuts because they have a totally different perception of how life really works. But here's the thing. If you bring them into reality and not give them what all the other dudes are giving them and not try to fuck them on the first date the way every other dude is trying to do, you're going to be just like her dad and just like her brothers.

18:16 She's going to feel normal around you and then you're going to get her attracted to you. And perhaps if she's willing to work on herself, if she hasn't had too many traumas in her life, she can be a gorgeous girl that isn't nuts and you two can settle down together. I've dated many, you know, I was talking about how many I've dated that are nuts, but I've had many that aren't nuts. So don't get it twisted, boys. They are out there. It's your job to get good at speaking with women in general so that you can attract those kinds of women on command by not being affected by them, by not giving them what everybody else gives them, by not complimenting them without them actually earning it, without being this bumbling jackass that goes into screensaver mode, which is what she's come to expect from dudes and definitely not being mean to her.

19:01 Just being normal. I'm talking to you like I talk to anybody else. Talk to a hot girl and I'm talking to a really gorgeous girl the same way you talk to a fat chick who you're ordering your Qdoba from and you will get her attracted to you. Then it's up to you to see if she's nuts. Yeah, some are going to be, but not all of them. There are a lot of good ones out there, but you need to develop the skill set in order to attract enough of them so that you can decipher which ones are normal and which ones are absolutely nuts.

19:32 That's exactly what we do in my three-month coaching program. So if you're interested to talk to us about coming into said program, we'd love to meet you. Just click the link in the description below. Gentlemen, I draw a podcast on Mondays and Thursdays, so please stay tuned for the next one and I will see you in the next episode.

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