PUSH GIRLS AWAY. PUSH GIRLS AWAY. PUSH GIRLS AWAY.

0:00 Welcome to The Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, you champions? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate you. And today, we are going to talk about pushing girls away, pushing girls away, pushing girls away. And for you ladies listening, don't get butthurt. This is the exact advice that I'd give you to push men away, push men away, push men away because this shit works.

0:39 So this weekend, I was at Marissa's sister's house and we were having a little get-together. There was a bunch of kids there, so they had Star Wars on. Man, I haven't seen Star Wars in probably like two decades, but it was funny as hell to me to watch the relationship. Between Princess Leia and Han Solo develop. I love that shit, guys. Any freaking movie I see or any social interaction I see, I'm just like zoomed in. Because as a dating coach, this stuff just interests me.

1:02 So during the scene, Han Solo's kind of starting to hit on Princess Leia, right? And he's like, why are you nervous? And she's like, I'm not nervous. And he's like, your hands are shaking. And she's like, looking at him and then he grabs her hands and then goes in for the kiss. Now that's a gangster-ass fucking Han Solo move and I have to commend him. The guy's a champion. But here's the situation, boys. If she wasn't already attracted to him, she would have blown him out so hard that stupid belt he wears would have blown off his hips when the concussion hit.

1:34 This is the way women work. If they're not into you and you show too much interest, you're going to get blown out. A lot of you guys are nodding your head right now because you've been there yourself. You've been blown out so hard your shirt flew off your back when the concussion hit and you're like, what the literal fuck? Every single movie I've ever watched has taught me if I'm just forward with the girl and I try to kiss her, I don't get blown out. But then we go to The Office.

1:54 You guys ever see that show, The Office? Specifically, the American version. Remember when Andy Bernard, also known as Nard Dog, I love that show, tried to kiss that one girl. She was like a cute black girl. He gets out in the parking lot with her and he tries to kiss her, completely misreading the situation. That at least is true because that'll oftentimes happen. The girl's just like, oh, this guy's nice. You know, I'm enjoying doing business with him. Next thing she knows, homeboy's coming in for a kiss and she's like, what the actual fuck?

2:24 I gave no signals. It's always based on the woman's signals, boys. I tell you guys in this podcast all the time, it's your job to lead women to where they want to be led, but women are the barometer for your escalations. Meaning, if she's not giving you signals, you do not escalate. And this is what we're going to talk about in pushing women away because this works into that concept. But this is so ridiculously effective to get girls attracted to you. I want you to stick through till the end because I got lots of tips and here's how I'm going to do it.

2:55 I'm going to start from the initial approach and tell you how in every single segment of your seduction, you should be pushing her away to a certain level. This isn't manipulation. This isn't being mean to women or trying to get them to do something by forcing them. It's the opposite. It's saying, hey, we're good. Like, I'm not trying to get you. I'm just a fun-loving guy and if you're attracted to me, it is what it is, but I'm not trying to hit on you or kiss you before you're ready, which actually is a favor to women.

3:24 Now, any women listening, once again, before you get butthurt and hyperextend your vagina by sending me a mean email saying what a piece of crap I am or leaving me a bad review, which I know you guys love to do, hear me out and let me explain this because you could do this to dudes too. This fucking works. It's Human Psychology 101 and I'm going to lay that out for you today. Before I jump into the content, gentlemen, I haven't read a testimonial in forever, but I just got this one from my boy, Jack, who just graduated the program.

3:53 What is up, Jack? You are an absolute champion. Completely unsolicited review and this is what Jack says. Hey, Mark, just wanted to genuinely thank you for facilitating a complete transformation in my life. Just a few months ago, I was coming to the grips with the fact, quote unquote, that I couldn't excel in my dating life, that my personality was fixed and I had to settle for a partner who accepted me for who I was. Your course removed that belief system and replaced it with one that is currently manifesting in abundance that is more than I could have ever hoped for.

4:28 But not only abundance with women, a life with more abundant joy in which I am a better man. Confidence through competence in this domain is so fundamental to a man's well-being, as I know you know, and I'm sure you hear this all the time, but your life's work is truly noble. I've already recommended a few friends to your champion production factory and I will continue to do so. Thanks a ton, Jack. I really do appreciate you, brother. You are an absolute legend. And gentlemen, we have openings in my three-month coaching program where, just like Jack, you could get that transformation.

5:02 What is a transformation? It's going out there and having an experience that I guide you through, shoulder to shoulder in the trenches, where you get to experience 10x more women than you're dating right now, and that is my guarantee. And if you're not satisfied by the end of your three months, just as Jack was, then you get to stay in the program until you are. There's no risk. Come into the program. I will turn you into a 10 magnet, as I do with all my clients. And if you don't like it, if you're not getting the results you want, stay with me, bro, 10-do, because I got your back.

5:36 And one of the things I continuously hear from my clients is, Mark, the reason I signed up with you over any other dating coach is, A, of all the NLP, I actually work on what's going on inside the head with neuro-linguistic programming, but also because you're genuine. And I absolutely love to hear that because, guys, I am genuine. My purpose here is to help guys achieve the success they want with women and get to that next level in their lives. It is literally the most important thing to me, above money, above achievement, above growing this podcast and thinking that I'm the cat's meow or my shit don't stink.

6:10 No, it's all about helping men because when I get to the end of my life, I want to look back on you, your face, and say, dude, I helped that guy. And a lot of you guys listening right now are like always talking to somebody else. Brother, I am talking to you. Yes, you. Come meet with me. I want to meet with you. I want to learn about your goals with women, and I want to see if I can 10x those results. I know some guys are like, yeah, yeah, yeah, whatever.

6:33 Seriously, come in and just explore this. I have guys tell me all the time, they're like, dude, I never thought I'd hire a coach, let alone a dating coach. But, man, this was the best decision I ever made. So, guys, go into that which is unfamiliar. Go into your fear. I am guaranteeing you I can change your life. And just as all my clients say, I genuinely want that opportunity. So, please give that to me. Click the link in the description below. Fill out the quick application.

6:59 You and I are going to email back and forth and see if I can at least 10x your results with women. And if by the end of the program you're not there, stay with us as long as you want to, brother. We completely 100% have your back. We want to get you that success. All right. So, let's talk about pushing girls away. What do I mean by this? Just as it sounds, when you're dealing with women, I want you to kind of push them away. Not because of manipulation, not because you're trying to get something out of them necessarily, but because you are a high-value man who doesn't really need them.

7:32 And what that sub communicates is that, yes, you have more options than you need, and you're not really trying to get anything from her, which is attractive. So, we're going to start with the very first opening all the way up through a relationship with her and tell you how to push her away in the right way without coming on too strong, blowing yourself out, being like Andy Bernard in the office and trying to kiss a girl before she's ready because chicks fucking hate that. Girls want to be swept off their feet, but it's only when they're ready for you to do so.

8:02 And by pushing them away in the way that I'm going to explain, you will prepare them to be ready for you to sweep them off their feet. And then on your terms, you take her to where she wants to be led. This is how this whole thing works. So, from the first approach, I automatically go up, give value, and then eject. So, if I'm in a nightclub, a party, a coffee shop, wherever, what I like to do is drop value and then leave. And this is huge.

8:30 Now, leaving is pushing her away. I don't want to talk to you anymore. I'm done with this. So, for example, very simple example, and I highly suggest you guys steal this from me. When I go into a nightclub or a party, I go up to a lot of girls and I'm like, Hey, just had to let you know your outfit is killing it tonight. I love the way your earrings match your shoes. Keep up the good work. I high-five her, now she's on a high note, and then I say, have a good night, and I'll walk off.

8:54 And she's like, Oh, I want to keep talking to him. But what I've done is pushed her away, gave her value, left her wanting more, which is a huge concept. And this is why I like to do what I call campaigns. A campaign is multiple touches, either through the evening or even over weeks or months, where I always leave her wanting more because I'm kind of pushing her away. I give her a little bit and then push her away. Just like cats. Gentlemen, I want you to think about this analogy because it's so damn good.

9:25 What are women like, cats or dogs? Guys are like dogs. If we like something, we go up and we're like, Hey, I want some more. I want some more with our tongues out and our dicks waving in the breeze. And we're fucking dogs. Women are cats. And cats don't want too much. They want a little bit. You scratch the bottom of their chin and then you push them away. And what happens when you give a cat really good scratches for about 30 seconds and then turn your attention towards something else?

9:50 They come up to you, start purring, start rubbing on your leg. That is a female. And I want you to keep that analogy in your head as you go out to meet females. So we give some value and we always leave them wanting more. For example, I might go to Starbucks or a tailor or a dry cleaning company. And what I do is I go in, drop some charisma bombs as I call them, leave them on a high note and then say, Hey, take it easy.

10:15 They're like, Oh, I like this guy. I'm attracted to him. I want more of it. And only when I get those clear signs, do I ask for a phone number rather than the typical 1980s movie approach where you go in really hard. You start saying how pretty she is, how much you'd like to date her, how her dress looks so great on her body, creeping her out and then demanding she give you her phone number because you guys will be so great together. Yet you just met her and yet her attraction for you is not yet developed.

10:43 So we go in, give value, then eject. Now, in the case of a nightclub, I go up and say, Hey, love your outfit. Yada, yada. Have a good night. High five. I'm coming back and opening her again. When I open her again, what's going to happen? It's going to blow open because she had a good experience with me. Now, during the first conversation, pushing girls away is telling them why they shouldn't date you. And yes, this is a method. I will tell women why we're not a good fit.

11:11 For example, she's a Pisces and I'm an Aquarius and those two never get along. For example, while we're talking, it's almost like an argument because she's frame checking me a lot. We'll never get along. I talk about how I'm a horrible kisser and it would be terrible for her to make out with me. I talk about how I have the angry inch, how my penis is so small. It's an inch, but it's going to get you. And then like I poke her with my thumb. I explained to her why we're not compatible.

11:36 What does this sub communicate? That's right. You're a smart motherfucker. It shows that I don't need her. And what is a guy who doesn't need a woman who, by the way, is cute? High value. He gets lots of girls. So he's not trying to kiss her ass, supplicate, compliment her. He's doing the opposite. Saying, hey, we wouldn't get along. You like this football team. I like that one. We can never be friends. And this goes into breaking rapport. When you guys have something in common, use that as the reason you two wouldn't get along.

12:05 Think of reasons why you wouldn't get along. Now, once again, the haters hyper extending their buttholes are listening and saying, oh, this is manipulation. It's not because this is what you do anyway when you're high value. This is what you do when you are having 10 different girls on your dick, a line out your fucking door of girls wanting to hook up with you. And you're like, meh, I'm good. I just want to sleep tonight. I want to be alone. I'm not really into it. My dick hurts because I've had so much sex.

12:31 We're good. This is what those guys do. And I found this out once I started getting success. I can literally remember back in my 20s, the first time I went out not trying to get anything, but having a dick that looked like a shriveled burn victim hiding in the corner of my underwear because he just got so much sex over the last three days. He's like, I'm good, coach. Don't throw me back into the game. I'm good. And I went out and I'm like, dude, I don't even want to meet girls.

12:56 So then I started doing this, pushing them away like, nah, we shouldn't hang out. Nah, I'm a horrible kisser. I'm terrible at sex. When I give girls cunnilingus, I bite the clitoris. That's what you're supposed to do, right? You're supposed to bite and grab hold and not let go of that thing, right? Isn't that the method? Meanwhile, she's cracking up. She's wondering, why isn't this guy hitting on me? Like every single guy does. I just had Han Solo in the corner of the fucking bazaar, that weird ass bar on Tatooine hitting on me and trying to kiss me.

13:25 And I hardly know the dude. Ew. Now, of course, and a quick side note, in the case of Han Solo, he's so high value that Princess Leia was already attracted to him. So that was the right move. But in today's age, I want to keep you guys safe from all the haters who are listening to my podcast, all the haters who insult you guys for trying to better yourself like those two jackasses that just left me a one-star review on iTunes, the lowest vibrating fucking thing you could ever do.

13:53 These are the kinds of people who are watching us. So what do we do? We go in pushing away. We don't give a shit what happens. And then they fucking throw it at you. And a lot of you guys are nodding right now and smiling because you've seen this. Then you get her phone number and you say something like, hey, you're not going to call me at 3 a.m. and blow up my phone, are you? It's like, all these people are texting me. My phone overheats.

14:16 I have enough burns on my leg as it is. So you're not going to be that girl, are you? And she'll be like, no, I'm not that girl. And now you're kind of pushing her away, making herself qualify herself to you. Then when you're talking to her over text, you're going to be a little bit aloof, right? You're not going to text her as much as she's texting you. You're going to take some time to get back to her. If and when you hang out with her, and this is the next phase, you're going to continue doing this stuff.

14:40 Now, I don't want you guys to get it twisted. This is very subtle and it's few and far between. Meaning, I'll do it like once a conversation, twice maybe, once over text. But the whole time, I am sub-communicating that I have options. Because I'm not trying to get anything from her. And this works into physicality. When I get physical with her, I'm the one to stop it. I literally push her away. We're making out. It's getting really hot and heavy. I push her away by the hips, very gently, very respectfully.

15:11 And I say, hey, that's it for me tonight. You know, relationships that start fast, end fast. So let's slow it down. We got plenty of time. Come on, let's grab you an Uber. And going back to the first date, I'm talking about reasons why we wouldn't get along just like I did in the first conversation. And the first conversation is similar to the first date. You just get a little bit deeper. Now, of course, gentlemen, there's still pull, which means you pull her into you. You compliment her.

15:36 And just to make sure we're all on the same page, my next podcast is going to talk about that, how to pull a woman correctly, how to compliment her correctly, how to show interest in her correctly. But this is the push part. This is the, ah, I don't know about you. Ah, I'm good to go. I don't really need more women in my life. You don't say it. You subcommunicate it. So even when you're getting physical, you're the one to stop it. When she wants to hang out five times a week, for example, you hang out four times a week.

16:05 My all-important 80-100 rule, only giving her 80% of what she wants from you. Which is a push. You're not giving her enough. You're leaving her wanting more. Gentlemen, do you want to know the way to get a woman to fall in love with you? And women listening, this is the way to get a man to fall in love with you. You simply do this. You are the sanctuary for them when they see you. They have the best time ever. You're an escape from their normal reality. They absolutely feel great being around you.

16:34 And most importantly, they can't get enough. They want more of you. And they cannot get satiated. This will make somebody fall in love with you, whether you're a man doing this or a woman doing this. I don't teach game to women. But if I did, this would be one of my biggest concepts. Now, I'm on the dudes team. And I'm glad that mostly guys are listening to this to go out and do it because so many women have this experience right here. They go out with dudes who come on too strong, show too much interest, are needy, complimenting them too much, just being too excited and into it and not leaving them wanting more.

17:12 People often say to me, Mark, you teach guys how to manipulate women. And my reply to that is, you're wrong. What I teach them is how they would behave anyway if they had abundance. Furthermore, if you want to say I manipulate women, fucking fine. But who doesn't want to be manipulated? I want to be manipulated. I want to lay on my back in a bed with a boner the size of the Statue of Liberty and have the hottest fucking chick I've ever seen in her goddamn lingerie dancing in the doorway with the light behind her so it silhouettes her body and she's manipulating me to get turned on.

17:45 Where is manipulation not happening? If you really want to get down to brass tacks and talk about that word, we're all manipulating each other. I want to be manipulated by a hot girl. I want her to manipulate my penis until I come if that's what her and I decide to do. And women want to be taken on an experience. They want to be seduced in the right way. And this is the right way. If you come on too strong, brother, you're going to get blown out as so many of us have seen.

18:12 So from the first conversation, you give value, you take it away. When you get in the conversation, you say why you two wouldn't get along. When you get her phone number, you say, ah, don't text me too much, okay? I like to keep it mellow. Don't blow on my phone. While you're texting, you text her a little bit less. Maybe you do a couple of pushes there too. When you guys are on the first date, you continue what I talked about in the first conversation where you're throwing in just a little bit, just peppering it in like a little bit of spice on your burrito, dude.

18:39 Don't go too crazy now. You're peppering in the pushes saying we wouldn't get along. Oh, you do that. I do that too. I'd be so much better than you. And we get in a big fight. We definitely cannot be friends. Pepper that in. When you're making out with her, you're the first one to push her away. And then even in your relationship, you do not ask her to be your girlfriend until she starts hinting at it, bro tendo. How many dudes listening right now? And I can see a show of hands going up all across the world where guys have asked women to be their girlfriend.

19:11 They've showed too much interest or asked a girl to marry them before she was ready. And what happened? That's right, boys. You got blown out so hard. It blew the mustache off your best friend's face. And you're like, what the fuck did I do wrong? What you did was moving too fast before she's ready. So instead, we do the opposite. We leave her wanting more. Just like a good show like Game of Thrones. What do they do at the end of the episode? They always leave you wanting more.

19:36 Like, dude, what happens next? So that you see the next episode, right? Well, that's manipulation. We shouldn't do that. We're all manipulating each other. So fucking get used to it and enjoy it when a girl manipulates you by wearing makeup and looking hot and being banging when you guys go out. And don't get it twisted, gentlemen. Women play games too. So let's have fun with it. Let's just be better at it than they are so we can give them the experience that they want. Now we're dating.

20:02 You're giving her less than what she wants from you. She starts bringing up, hey, we should be boyfriend and girlfriend. And you're like, ah, relationships that start fast, end fast. Let's take it slow. And on your terms, you ask her to be your girlfriend. Then she's super pumped. And even in the relationship, you give her less than what she wants from you. You're the sanctuary. You feel good to be around. She trusts you. You're a fucking man who's masculine. You have sex with her like no man ever has.

20:27 And you always leave her wanting more. She falls in love with you. Then if you guys are together in a relationship, as I am with Marissa, I give Marissa just a little bit less. Not because I'm playing games, but simply because because that's how we work. And she's into it, bro amigo. She is down with the funk, bro, tater cuff because this works. So push girls away. Push them away. Push them away. Not completely. Don't get it twisted. But little by little, step by step, the 80-100 rule.

20:59 Only give them 80% of what they want from you. In the first conversation, tease them and say what a jackass you are and how horrible you are kissing when you're on the first date, continue to do that while dating them. Be slightly out of their grasp. But when you take them under your wing, you show them the best time ever. This is the way to make a girl completely sprung on you. And for any girls listening, you want to know the secret? Be hot as fuck. Be feminine as fuck.

21:26 Give him the best sex he's ever had. And be slightly out of his grasp. All my guys listening right now are like, damn, dude, that's really true, man. I had a girl do that to me. And I was fucking in love with her because I couldn't have her. But when I did have it, it was so good. That's what I want you guys to be with women. Be that sanctuary that she can't get satiated on. That's the trick. Gentlemen, I do appreciate you listening. Once again, man, I just don't understand why we haven't met yet.

21:55 A lot of you guys are like, oh, I'll do it later, or that's not for me. But guys, this is for all of you. If you're listening to this podcast, you are a good fit for the program. Because you want to get good with women. You want to get to the next phase of your development as a man. I'm open to you. Let's talk. What's the harm in that? Click the link in the description below. Fill out the quick application. I expect for you to reply to all my emails in 24 hours, as I will do with you.

22:21 And if we decide it's a good fit to work together, you're going to be just like Jack, writing me an email that says, dude, I thought I was doomed to just this level. But when I started working with you, you took me to 10x. And that's my guarantee, gentlemen. Stay with me until you get it. There's absolutely no risk. So I look forward to seeing your application. I drop podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays. So please stay tuned for the next one. And I will see you in the next episode.

22:44 So. I'll see you in the next episode.

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